![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-10-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago)  (f) Based on the definition of Rape, one is not obliged to give it up jux because she is married, they should love and respect each other it should be a mutual agreement and not by force, this happens mostly when the man is not romantic or is jux too much of a sex addict then the lady gets tired or vise versa, if not me personally lol don't know how am gon b raped by my husby, we'll rock together ni anytime .lol anywhere anyhow lol rotfl......:0 jux my personal opinion
that is correct bcos i ve a frd who told me that her husb is not romantic n'' when he need it even if shes not inda mood he must tak it by force bcos his addicted to sex.......
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-10-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) (f) I was talking to a friend on phone the other day and she asked :
What is your thought about this, is it rape if your married and you say no to your husband but he continues?
Do you feel once your married your obliged to give it up whenever he wants it?
What do u think pals ?
hmmmmmm yes to avoid him sleeping around but sometimes if u are not in a good mood, explain to him in a way he will understand
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-10-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) (f) Yea its a Rape...buh u know there r some women who doesn't like Sex and deny their hubby of their marital right
I use to have a friend like that, her hubby keeps complaining about his wife denying him of his marital right and we wud call ds lady and talk to her buh for where she no go hia ooo...until one day wen she came to tell us dat her hubby had raped her...and i did not blame d hubby for watever reason
ok noted tell ur frd to enter covenant sharp sharp .....she ve a call I beg which kind covenant be dat one oo.....hmmmmmmmmmm she mis her call as reverend sister 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-10-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) Hw many of u can actually come out n tell us ur hubby rapes U smtimes?
What if he said NO and it was u who forced urself on him? what wud u also call that? i bet u wont call it rape abi?...then that will amount to double-standard
is a woman's world remb lol can u be bold to tell the world that ur hubby rapes u? pls am an african woman custom demand our husb his marrital right buh i can only threaten to sue his ass if he dont stop
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Ok......as her majesties have prevailed on me, I will give my take on this: Firstly, my bible tells me that my body belongs to my husband and his belongs to me. The bible frowns at denial...........but if this can not be avoided, it is good to explain to the other party in a way he/she would understand...........I would want to believe that couples are not always in the mood for bedmatics, therefore one partner should understand the other's desire to be left alone sometimes..........If I am not in the mood for roffo-roffo fight, I would let him know and I EXPECT him to understand because I would understand when he also turns me down......but if he goes ahead to have his way without my consent, I would consider it rape........becos rape is basically sex without the consent of one of the parties...........and Yes, I believe one can be RAPED, marriage or no marriage!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-10-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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WELL WELL WELL...AT THE END OF THE DAY...WE RE ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN...SO ALSO OUR THOUGHTS, VIEWS AND OPINIONS ARE DIFFERENT! TO SOME ITS RAPE BUT TO ME...HOW DO U TELL THE WORLD THAT UR HUBBY RAPED U? HEHEHE U BETTER VE A GUD REASON FOR SAYING THAT. PS: Women ve the right to say NO...so goes to the MEN...they both ve right to say NO...but the reason must be reasonable and not a selfish reason! Both must learn to compromise, sacrifice and understand each other's body, marriage is nt a liecence to disrespect each other's body....at this point rest my case | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Ok......as her majesties have prevailed on me, I will give my take on this:
Firstly, my bible tells me that my body belongs to my husband and his belongs to me. The bible frowns at denial...........but if this can not be avoided, it is good to explain to the other party in a way he/she would understand...........I would want to believe that couples are not always in the mood for bedmatics, therefore one partner should understand the other's desire to be left alone sometimes..........If I am not in the mood for roffo-roffo fight, I would let him know and I EXPECT him to understand because I would understand when he also turns me down......but if he goes ahead to have his way without my consent, I would consider it rape........becos rape is basically sex without the consent of one of the parties...........and Yes, I believe one can be RAPED, marriage or no marriage!
OK... FORCEFULLY WITHOUT UR CONSENT...NA RAPE....hahahaha i feel u anywaz like i said b4 no responsible man will force himself on his wife. She's urs...if she doesnt give it to u now...she can alwaz give it to u later  | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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WELL WELL WELL...AT THE END OF THE DAY...WE RE ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN...SO ALSO OUR THOUGHTS, VIEWS AND OPINIONS ARE DIFFERENT! TO SOME ITS RAPE BUT TO ME... HOW DO U TELL THE WORLD THAT UR HUBBY RAPED U? HEHEHE U BETTER VE A GUD REASON FOR SAYING THAT. PS: Women ve the right to say NO...so goes to the MEN...they both ve right to say NO...but the reason must be reasonable and not a selfish reason! Both must learn to compromise, sacrifice and understand each other's body, marriage is nt a liecence to disrespect each other's body....at this point rest my case Even those who arent married self and got raped, shey dem get mouth to tell the world?........not to talk of married women......we just hope that we end up marrying real men with hearts of flesh, not beast in human skins.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-10-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) (f) very right dp
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-10-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I was talking to a friend on phone the other day and she asked :
What is your thought about this, is it rape if your married and you say no to your husband but he continues?
Do you feel once your married your obliged to give it up whenever he wants it?
What do u think pals ?
hmmmmmm yes to avoid him sleeping around but sometimes if u are not in a good mood, explain to him in a way he will understand Nice | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Yea its a Rape...buh u know there r some women who doesn't like Sex and deny their hubby of their marital right
I use to have a friend like that, her hubby keeps complaining about his wife denying him of his marital right and we wud call ds lady and talk to her buh for where she no go hia ooo...until one day wen she came to tell us dat her hubby had raped her...and i did not blame d hubby for watever reason
ok noted tell ur frd to enter covenant sharp sharp .....she ve a call I beg which kind covenant be dat one oo.....hmmmmmmmmmm she mis her call as reverend sister Lmao | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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You think it is every married man that is responsible?............even self, you think it is everybody on trousers with a flat chest claiming to be man that is a real man? 
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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WELL WELL WELL...AT THE END OF THE DAY...WE RE ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN...SO ALSO OUR THOUGHTS, VIEWS AND OPINIONS ARE DIFFERENT! TO SOME ITS RAPE BUT TO ME... HOW DO U TELL THE WORLD THAT UR HUBBY RAPED U? HEHEHE U BETTER VE A GUD REASON FOR SAYING THAT. PS: Women ve the right to say NO...so goes to the MEN...they both ve right to say NO...but the reason must be reasonable and not a selfish reason! Both must learn to compromise, sacrifice and understand each other's body, marriage is nt a liecence to disrespect each other's body....at this point rest my case Even those who arent married self and got raped, shey dem get mouth to tell the world?........not to talk of married women......we just hope that we end up marrying real men with hearts of flesh, not beast in human skins....... Exactly o my dear...so u see its a man's world and not a woman's world ooo...cos if a man goes wrong...the society sees it as normal though its not suppose to be normal...but if a woman goes wrong...haaaa wahala don come be that oo. In a nutshell like my friend will tell me...its ok for a man to do it...but its not ok 4 a woman! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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You think it is every married man that is responsible?............even self, you think it is everybody on trousers with a flat chest claiming to be man that is a real man? Hahahahaha @Dp u gat me laffing and rolling with this oooo this is abt the funniest comment on this post...lol | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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WELL WELL WELL...AT THE END OF THE DAY...WE RE ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN...SO ALSO OUR THOUGHTS, VIEWS AND OPINIONS ARE DIFFERENT! TO SOME ITS RAPE BUT TO ME... HOW DO U TELL THE WORLD THAT UR HUBBY RAPED U? HEHEHE U BETTER VE A GUD REASON FOR SAYING THAT. PS: Women ve the right to say NO...so goes to the MEN...they both ve right to say NO...but the reason must be reasonable and not a selfish reason! Both must learn to compromise, sacrifice and understand each other's body, marriage is nt a liecence to disrespect each other's body....at this point rest my case Even those who arent married self and got raped, shey dem get mouth to tell the world?........not to talk of married women......we just hope that we end up marrying real men with hearts of flesh, not beast in human skins....... Exactly o my dear...so u see its a man's world and not a woman's world ooo...cos if a man goes wrong...the society sees it as normal though its not suppose to be normal...but if a woman goes wrong...haaaa wahala don come be that oo. In a nutshell like my friend will tell me... its ok for a man to do it...but its not ok 4 a woman! Double standard................ :'( :'( :'(
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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WELL WELL WELL...AT THE END OF THE DAY...WE RE ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN...SO ALSO OUR THOUGHTS, VIEWS AND OPINIONS ARE DIFFERENT! TO SOME ITS RAPE BUT TO ME... HOW DO U TELL THE WORLD THAT UR HUBBY RAPED U? HEHEHE U BETTER VE A GUD REASON FOR SAYING THAT. PS: Women ve the right to say NO...so goes to the MEN...they both ve right to say NO...but the reason must be reasonable and not a selfish reason! Both must learn to compromise, sacrifice and understand each other's body, marriage is nt a liecence to disrespect each other's body....at this point rest my case Even those who arent married self and got raped, shey dem get mouth to tell the world?........not to talk of married women......we just hope that we end up marrying real men with hearts of flesh, not beast in human skins....... Exactly o my dear...so u see its a man's world and not a woman's world ooo...cos if a man goes wrong...the society sees it as normal though its not suppose to be normal...but if a woman goes wrong...haaaa wahala don come be that oo. In a nutshell like my friend will tell me... its ok for a man to do it...but its not ok 4 a woman! Double standard................ :'( :'( :'( Yes ooo...we live in a world where double-standard is now a normal standard! take for instance a man cheats on his wife...the world will say its in a man's nature to cheat, so therefore, its normal...but if a woman cheats...hell will let loose on her...both from her family, his hubby's family n the world. | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 21-10-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) (f) so if saying "no" does not really mean "no" sometimes ................how will they really know when we mean "no"? just lik what yuki said earlier......he already no when am inda mood........sometimes i say no not bcos i dont want it buh bcos i want him to beg n' pamper me that makes me feel special after that d rest is history but what if u keep saying "no" and he keeps pamparing u hoping to get lucky that day ? Ok na keep waiting for him to pamper u...when u re actually pampering him into the hands of another woman...rmber men r like big babies  that is the complication !! Complications can be sometimes managed. It is the management that we are talking abaut here dont mind yuki seems she dont say no at all Say NO when it is necessary...not wen its not...my point is most women say NO wen its not necessary...jst to punish the man! am talikng abaut the necesary "nos" ;Personally what would i want to achieve by denying my hubby his legal right ?  
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 21-10-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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