Marriage wahala (Page 3)

Date: 20-11-2011 2:41 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Alhamra
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- ugochuks at 21-11-2011 03:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: alhamra on 20-11-2011 02:41 PM
I dated my wife for 8yrs b4 getting married to her, though we separated for 3yrs during courtship b4 we get married. I am in my early 30's while she is in her late 20's now. We married for 3 yrs without d fruit of the womb, we went to so many hospitals but al the test shows that we are ok. Early last yr she conceived and had a serious attack that affected her in d brain, I took her to so many hospitals but she wasn’t responding to treatments until we consulted some men of God who prayed for her and she got healed though she lost the pregnancy. Her immediate elder sister that is still single had a similar problem and was receiving treatments in d hospital also.
 I decided to relocate her abroad to stay with me so I can have a close watch on her, all for her to come and start comparing me with friends, she complains that i shop for her in cheap shops and buys inferior things for her, she calls my female clients to warn them for snatching her husband, she slaps me sometimes when that spirit of madness visits her etc. I lost my job and the little business i was using to support my salary all my clients ran away, life became so miserable for me. I decided to send her back to Nigeria but she said over her dead[/color] body will she go to Nigeria and even threatening to call the police for me if I use force on her. But with the prayers of my friends and family members I succeeded in bringing her home. But before leaving abroad she conceived and have put to bed to a bouncing baby boy in Nigeria now.
Now the love is dead already because of what I have gone true and I don’t see any future being with this a woman. And my parents wasnt in support of the marriage from day one. Pls I need ur advice on the way forward.






bros u really get probs! but the story dey one kind sha...u said brought her uptown to stay with u, that means u got her a visa, and when u talked abt goin bk to 9ja she turned to tiger and trying to bring police in,,why she go threatened to bring police inside? how many months visa she take come abi na resident permit she take come? if na visa i believe say e don expire so she no fit talk abt police,anyway arrange the story well make e look or sound like truth,i hail oo!!

Posted: at 21-11-2011 03:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chynez at 21-11-2011 03:08 PM (12 years ago)
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if the love is dead, tell her. She might not agree but you have told her. then move on with your life. But never forget that you have a child and you must look out for that child. Meanwhile in all these, you need serious prayers
Posted: at 21-11-2011 03:08 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- stanbutto at 21-11-2011 03:12 PM (12 years ago)
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JUST forgive her and move on with her, try to love her again, it will take time, but u can make it. the only think i cant forgive is adultery, no matter wat your wife did, once it does not involve cheating, forgive and move on with her. a wife is like a sister or mother, u dont stop loving them cose the misbehave.
Posted: at 21-11-2011 03:12 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ugochuks at 21-11-2011 03:27 PM (12 years ago)
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poster, ur post hs been fwded to the ministry of marital affairs!!

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Posted: at 21-11-2011 03:27 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gloxxy98 at 21-11-2011 03:53 PM (12 years ago)
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PRAY WITHOUT CEASING: THAT IS WAT YOU NEED NOW.

DIVIOCE IS NOT ACCEPTED IN THIS YOUR SITUATION, UNLESS YOU WANT TO REMAIN UNMARRIED TILL THE REST OF UR DAYS

THERE IS NOTTHING GOD CANNOT DO, SINCE U LOVED HER ONCE, U CAN ALSO LOVE HER AGAIN. LET GO OF UR PAST AND TROUBLES AND U SHALL SEE GOD IN ACTION.
Posted: at 21-11-2011 03:53 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- reymondokeze at 21-11-2011 04:02 PM (12 years ago)
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the love is dead and if u go back to her u will be dead also.
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ebysco at 21-11-2011 04:08 PM (12 years ago)
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EVIL SPIRIT WAHALA may G od help you
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:08 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ebysco at 21-11-2011 04:15 PM (12 years ago)
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EVIL SPIRIT WAHALA  may God help you
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:15 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kattie77 at 21-11-2011 04:21 PM (12 years ago)
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My dear all u need is prayers cos there is no problem that is beyond God's power, GOODLUCK
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:21 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- burgos at 21-11-2011 04:22 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ugochuks on 21-11-2011 03:02 PM



bros u really get probs! but the story dey one kind sha...u said brought her uptown to stay with u, that means u got her a visa, and when u talked abt goin bk to 9ja she turned to tiger and trying to bring police in,,why she go threatened to bring police inside? how many months visa she take come abi na resident permit she take come? if na visa i believe say e don expire so she no fit talk abt police,anyway arrange the story well make e look or sound like truth,i hail oo!!
wahala
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:22 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- ebysco at 21-11-2011 04:32 PM (12 years ago)
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EVIL SPIRIT WAHALA  may God help you
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:32 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- queenrukky at 21-11-2011 04:35 PM (12 years ago)
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walaha
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:35 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- francisjohn1467 at 21-11-2011 04:35 PM (12 years ago)
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follow ur mind bro but my best advice for you is not to go back to that woman bcos she is not for you ...
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:35 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- interpo77 at 21-11-2011 04:43 PM (12 years ago)
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make sure u never make a second mistake, since the love is no  more there,open it up to her though am sure she knows it b4 now,
 make sure u take care of ur kid ,they can stay in nigeria and never think of taking her abroad again or u finish up in jail  ,
      she need prayers which her mother can help her , wishing u guud luck
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:43 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- otagermo at 21-11-2011 04:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: tony4chuks on 21-11-2011 07:23 AM
Bros u need money ooo...my advice is that u use her 4 money ritual....man need money....lol
see talk....bros node distorb computer after smoking ganja....i take God beg you.......
Posted: at 21-11-2011 04:54 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Denallan at 21-11-2011 05:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Tragic situation - I feel your pains - but try and see if this bouncing baby boy will heal your wounds, if not, call it endgame.
Posted: at 21-11-2011 05:20 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Anderbaby at 21-11-2011 05:33 PM (12 years ago)
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If this is real, 4get her and move on with ur life cus u  stil have a long way to go, i tink u guys are not made 2 be 2gether and always listen 2 ur parents no mata ur the lv.
Posted: at 21-11-2011 05:33 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- bushidoo at 21-11-2011 05:47 PM (12 years ago)
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U'll b oka
Posted: at 21-11-2011 05:47 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- stripjac at 21-11-2011 05:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Boy, are you in a serious jam!
Posted: at 21-11-2011 05:51 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Grinblud at 21-11-2011 06:18 PM (12 years ago)
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You need prayers
Posted: at 21-11-2011 06:18 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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