How Do You Cope With A Female Colleague At The Office? (Page 2)

its either she's envious of u or mayb she wants to be a close frnd to u. but what and what does she do? u can explain more so we would know what to tell u.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:58 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hmmmm, how are you? What she does now does not matter but how to take good care of her.  How can she be my friend when my good morning is answered with a long hisssssssssssss. Mind you different office with different responsibilities.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 10:03 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

No, i don't report to my junior

Posted: at 10-02-2012 10:08 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

den why body go dey pinch am naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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Posted: at 10-02-2012 10:16 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

ust wanted a good relationship with all in the office but only her seems difficult.  Have done everything possible to keep my peace but hmmmm, will not look back again once am gone.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 10:21 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

ok..first of all EXAMINE YOURSELF...it may be that you are overeacting(just saying).... ask these Q...Have you always experienced difficulty with the same type of person or actions? Does a pattern exist for you in your interaction with coworkers? Do you recognize that you have hot buttons that are easily pushed? (We all do, you know.) Always start with self-examination to determine that the object of your attention really is a difficult person’s actions.

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Posted: at 10-02-2012 10:26 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

  me or u from them 

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Posted: at 10-02-2012 10:39 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

it shudnt bother u abeg


ur male colleague dey beef u?? it only means he's interested.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 10:53 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Sophie, i can not overeact bc there is different roles assign to us, remember that we are in different departments, but remember also that there is no perfect being.  I have the best relationship with others bc we understand ourselves.  Many times she ask some colleagues why should  they relate with me. She is just difficult.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:02 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

The true fact is that, you can't please everyone 'in live in general'..some people will just dislike you for no tangible reason(s). i sense jealousy in her attitude(from what i read so far tho!)..So 2cents would be,you should do your thing and always try n apply ignore button whenever she comes up with her overbearing behavior..like someone above said.."women are funny" at times and also have funny ways of showing their grievances..

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Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:04 AM (12 years ago) | Hero