my father inlaw to be

Date: 04-03-2012 9:26 am (13 years ago) | Author: moses terdue addingi
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- at 4-03-2012 09:26 AM (13 years ago)
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wad up pals,long time no see,sorry folks was busy building a relationship,relationship that almost came to a dead end yesterday when my girl took me for informal introduction to her parents......am having an affair with omo baba olowo daughter,final year student of covenant university,we've been dating for three months now and everything seems perfect for both of us and yesterday she thought it was time for me to meet with her parents and when we got to the house at first everything seems normal but all of a sudden things changed,the parents asked her to quit the relationship,that it not going to work reason was that am from Benue State and she is from Edo State and she broke into tears right now we both have lots of negative thoughts on our minds kinda confuse right now 21st century and people are still been tribalistic....pls what do i do?

Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- FlyMamacita at 4-03-2012 09:49 AM (13 years ago)
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3 months is not long enuf to know if this girl is 'the one' for u,

but the same way ur parents have no reasons to back up their comment. Different tribe shudn stop

u guys from dating, u have to make ur own hapiness not ur parents.
Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:49 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- terdue at 4-03-2012 09:52 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  4-03-2012 09:49 AM
3 months is not long enuf to know if this girl is 'the one' for u,

but the same way ur parents have no reasons to back up their comment. Different tribe shudn stop

u guys from dating, u have to make ur own hapiness not ur parents.

what advise would u have for her?
Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:52 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 4-03-2012 10:05 AM (13 years ago)
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guy ur problem pass baba sule own Roll Eyes Shocked

Posted: at 4-03-2012 10:05 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 4-03-2012 10:05 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: terdue on  4-03-2012 09:52 AM
what advise would u have for her?

I guess my advise for the both of u is to just get to know each other more

on different levels....If the interest is still there, she should tell her parents she found in u what

she was looking for in a man, and if her parents cant apreciate that or give u guys their blessings

right away, am sure eventualy they will................
Posted: at 4-03-2012 10:05 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- summy4ever at 4-03-2012 10:14 AM (13 years ago)
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love conquereth all obstacle
Posted: at 4-03-2012 10:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- terdue at 4-03-2012 10:16 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  4-03-2012 10:05 AM
guy ur problem pass baba sule own Roll Eyes Shocked
why u talk so?
Posted: at 4-03-2012 10:16 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 4-03-2012 10:18 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  4-03-2012 10:05 AM
guy ur problem pass baba sule own Roll Eyes Shocked

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 4-03-2012 10:18 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jossy4reall at 4-03-2012 10:23 AM (13 years ago)
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sleep over it and do dry fasting for seven days...............u will definitely come up with the right decision

Posted: at 4-03-2012 10:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- terdue at 4-03-2012 01:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  4-03-2012 10:23 AM
sleep over it and do dry fasting for seven days...............u will definitely come up with the right decision
will do,thanks
Posted: at 4-03-2012 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mallorca at 4-03-2012 02:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  4-03-2012 10:05 AM
guy ur problem pass baba sule own Roll Eyes Shocked
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 4-03-2012 02:22 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 4-03-2012 05:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: terdue on  4-03-2012 10:16 AM
why u talk so?
na yu wey no  dey ask me Tongue

Posted: at 4-03-2012 05:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 4-03-2012 06:04 PM (13 years ago)
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What do you knw about this lady that you now want to meet the parent in three months.
Those who rush in always rush out.
Posted: at 4-03-2012 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 4-03-2012 06:05 PM (13 years ago)
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What do you knw about this lady that you now want to meet the parent in three months.
Those who rush in always rush out.
Posted: at 4-03-2012 06:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- zoe61 at 4-03-2012 08:12 PM (13 years ago)
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is terrible how 9ja parents control there children.
Posted: at 4-03-2012 08:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 4-03-2012 08:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: terdue on  4-03-2012 09:26 AM
wad up pals,long time no see,sorry folks was busy building a relationship,relationship that almost came to a dead end yesterday when my girl took me for informal introduction to her parents......am having an affair with omo baba olowo daughter,final year student of covenant university,we've been dating for three months now and everything seems perfect for both of us and yesterday she thought it was time for me to meet with her parents and when we got to the house at first everything seems normal but all of a sudden things changed,the parents asked her to quit the relationship,that it not going to work reason was that am from Benue State and she is from Edo State and she broke into tears right now we both have lots of negative thoughts on our minds kinda confuse right now 21st century and people are still been tribalistic....pls what do i do?
i dont think there is need rushing things nd d parent will come to understanding  when they see d bond...
Posted: at 4-03-2012 08:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bachelorette at 4-03-2012 09:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Must u marry? kip f**kin and 4get abt marriage

Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 4-03-2012 09:07 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Huh?

Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Senegal at 4-03-2012 09:07 PM (13 years ago)
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They asked her to quit the relationship because you are from the North,,,, and if you are a Muslim, the parents of the girl will be viewing you as a potential terrorist and they don't want to take chances, fact! Think about it
Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 4-03-2012 09:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  4-03-2012 09:02 PM
Must u marry? kip f**kin and 4get abt marriage
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 4-03-2012 09:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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