Dan_Fulani at 5-03-2012 01:08 AM (13 years ago) (m) They asked her to quit the relationship because you are from the North,,,, and if you are a Muslim, the parents of the girl will be viewing you as a potential terrorist and they don't want to take chances, fact! Think about it
Give the parents a break. They know that not all northerners are terrorists. I think the guy made a poor impression. Usually, it is good to do some homework before you go meet the parents. Find out what they like and their ways of thinking and act to impress them. Once a boy found out that his girl's parents & brothers like Manchester United. On his visit he wore Manchester United T-shirt and they talk alot about the team. Before he left his girl father & family invited him to came back and watch a soccer game with him. That was a very good first impression. They share something in common.
dan fulani Posted: at 5-03-2012 01:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ikwo1 at 5-03-2012 01:15 AM (13 years ago) (m) 3 months is not long enuf to know if this girl is 'the one' for u,
but the same way ur parents have no reasons to back up their comment. Different tribe shudn stop
u guys from dating, u have to make ur own hapiness not ur parents.
do u want them to date 10 yrs b4 knowing they are meant for each other? Posted: at 5-03-2012 01:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ikwo1 at 5-03-2012 01:22 AM (13 years ago) (m) hmmmm tribalism in 9jar nawadays any well me i want to marry a Yuruba girloo,i hope my people will allow me and a muslim yuruba for that matter.................................. Posted: at 5-03-2012 01:22 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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give the girl belle now or u carry her and run away. Posted: at 5-03-2012 01:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Ifemylove at 5-03-2012 02:38 AM (13 years ago) (f) ur r/ship is still very young, nd u really nid 2 pray ova it, so dat her parent can accept u bck in2 dia family.. Posted: at 5-03-2012 02:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sexy-hawa at 5-03-2012 03:28 AM (13 years ago) (f) They asked her to quit the relationship because you are from the North,,,, and if you are a Muslim, the parents of the girl will be viewing you as a potential terrorist and they don't want to take chances, fact! Think about it
lol... Posted: at 5-03-2012 03:28 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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boye143 at 5-03-2012 03:31 AM (13 years ago) (f) I THINK HAVING GOD N THE RELATIONSHIP IS VERY IMPORTANT...PRAY BOUT IT AND C IF SHE IS THE WOMAN GOD WANTS FOR U Posted: at 5-03-2012 03:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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sexy-hawa at 5-03-2012 03:36 AM (13 years ago) (f) Maybe it's because u are related to ajani, jublow, cadnare or fatwase... Posted: at 5-03-2012 03:36 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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tnktosin at 5-03-2012 04:22 AM (13 years ago) (m) What do you knw about this lady that you now want to meet the parent in three months. Those who rush in always rush out.
Yea, exactly my tot Posted: at 5-03-2012 04:22 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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if you want go drown ok no dey carry your family problem come out side Posted: at 5-03-2012 05:01 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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aliaaz at 5-03-2012 06:13 AM (13 years ago) (m) j
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in  ;) Posted: at 5-03-2012 06:13 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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They asked her to quit the relationship because you are from the North,,,, and if you are a Muslim, the parents of the girl will be viewing you as a potential terrorist and they don't want to take chances, fact! Think about it
maybe you are right, the girl family maybe afraid of boko haram, no family will like there daughter to live in north at this time of crisis , you may be good enough to protect there daughter, but still they will be worry about so much crisis in north, man just give the family more time and show more love to make them believe u can take good care of there daughter., Posted: at 5-03-2012 06:23 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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terdue at 5-03-2012 06:50 AM (13 years ago) (m) What do you knw about this lady that you now want to meet the parent in three months. Those who rush in always rush out.
its not about time and besides meeting her parents didn't mean we getting married this year just an informal introduction Posted: at 5-03-2012 06:50 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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terdue at 5-03-2012 06:51 AM (13 years ago) (m) is terrible how 9ja parents control there children.
the thing tire me o my brother Posted: at 5-03-2012 06:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Aknankanan at 5-03-2012 06:56 AM (13 years ago) (m) get the parents arrested..  jst joking,but u have nothing else 2 do than 2 be patient and never rush into any decision with the girl,bcs 4rm the look of things,u guys still have a long way 2 go,3 mths aint enough 2 take a life time decision,allow the love 2 grow 2 the extent that nothing will be able 2 stp it in the end.best of luck. Posted: at 5-03-2012 06:56 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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terdue at 5-03-2012 07:01 AM (13 years ago) (m) i dont think there is need rushing things nd d parent will come to understanding when they see d bond...
thanks for the advise Posted: at 5-03-2012 07:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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terdue at 5-03-2012 07:03 AM (13 years ago) (m) Must u marry? kip f**kin and 4get abt marriage
marriage is the best and happiest thing that can happen to any man Posted: at 5-03-2012 07:03 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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terdue at 5-03-2012 07:04 AM (13 years ago) (m) They asked her to quit the relationship because you are from the North,,,, and if you are a Muslim, the parents of the girl will be viewing you as a potential terrorist and they don't want to take chances, fact! Think about it
for the record am not from the north,am middle belt and not also a Muslim,am a christian Posted: at 5-03-2012 07:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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terdue at 5-03-2012 07:05 AM (13 years ago) (m) Just keep on praying
thanks Posted: at 5-03-2012 07:05 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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terdue at 5-03-2012 07:06 AM (13 years ago) (m) Well it is a pity that it has happened to u,am very sure u ve heard a lot of such news in nigeria where parental control is highly influenced , but remember ur relationship is very young that both of u can still be together if u u really love her, just continue and be encouraged, talk to her if she is affraid, remember there re courts that can wed u without consents of parents
yeah i kw that,but i don't think getting married to her without the full support of her parents will be such a good idea,and besides she is the only daughter Posted: at 5-03-2012 07:06 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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