Another 27 Years Old Man Marries 70 Years Old Oyinbo Woman (Page 6)

Quote from: Unikpearl on  6-04-2012 09:59 AM

Lolezt...Enough of dis insult on naija babes
(guys going 4 older women leaving d chicks)

u get red passport to give the guy if he marry u?

Posted: at 6-04-2012 12:14 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

hmmm naija guyz nawa ooooo

Posted: at 6-04-2012 12:23 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Poster  be careful  and stop  post   nonsense here,   those  marriage  you are seen if is truth you see them  really,   all are game  marriages   so  divert  ur mind away  from  Nija  guys outside  if you want to know come outside  and  see  and also be wise in time don't waste your time for nothing.

Posted: at 6-04-2012 12:30 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

interesting, wish them well ..."He who feels it knows it"

Posted: at 6-04-2012 12:33 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Yes  when they  need  their real life  partner  they will come home and marry, so   you  not  need of  looking another   way  round   to insult them  learn fast my dear,   and  do helpful   somethings  to life now before it too late thanks.

Posted: at 6-04-2012 12:38 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Love is blide who knows if u will marry 80

Posted: at 6-04-2012 01:00 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

what ever that made him do that must be serious

Posted: at 6-04-2012 01:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

open nwaoma chill, kpale no mean say you are made in life, or you gonna work in bank with it in western world,
all you have is free movement, and to set up a business, that if you have capital. no police wahala, work some kind jobs
some men get am, still dey suffer. common when you marry thinking you will reap from where you did not sow, in every divorce for western world, na men dey loose, no be naija wey be say na woman.
divorce act states that you will share every property jointly owned. unless the guy dey smart to change the woman name and documents and add his name. otherwise, after the woman use am finish, she will kicked out on the street.  you only get kpali after suceessfully reaching the immigration time that you suppose to. you think is easy, believe me this guys might have real love here. and you people are shouting kpali this and that. some friends who divorce to come naija come marry run come back and was complaining on how confuse they where to select cos of fake love asses everywhere.
            it will be ok if naija man date like 3girls before traveling, with that when things settle you can come back and choose one. but if all are married, then you know what i mean by fake love asses. not that oyibo is the best, but believe me they will make you understand them more, while naija girl go dey hide hide things.
oyibo no dey do with i hearsay, dey wan prove, if you cheat on her once, and beg her or buy her gold, she must pay you back and still tell you, sorry i cheat on with your friend cos you did it first and i still love u. if she hates you, she will tell you even if you be bill gate. there problem mostly is the like, suspecting, nagging, looking for compliment even when you are deep asleep and can querrel if you dont tell her that she looks good and all time honey. you need only months to understand them, but our girls, men never will u no if they love you. and thats bulshit. So open if you are still the kinda of naija wey still dey love from the heart. Then am happy for that.

Posted: at 6-04-2012 01:15 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

I don't see luv in dis marriage

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Posted: at 6-04-2012 01:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Firstly, i wasn't born or bred in naija, so i understand clearly your first paragraph.
There are loads of guys suffering all over the world just to make ends meet. It's not their desire to get involved into shameful or risky act (except the greedy ones), but the situation in naija isn't helping matters. Even as a black girl, the moment they realize you're a citizen of a country, they tend to become very serious and start talking about marriage sometimes in less than two weeks. This is very funny but real even though most black girls don't fall for such games or trick thus they go for oyibo.
But on the other hand, i really don't blame them. when you've got family and friends looking up to you for the next meal, what do one expect? of course they are bound to do anything just to get a stable life. However, i think it's unfair to think that every naija girl is all about money. There are actually some good ones home/abroad who understand what love is about and are willing to stick around through thick and thin. People are still getting married everyday in naija to poor people whether you believe it or not. Also, most of the girls desperate to marry a rich man comes from poor background. They've also got families to take care of and sometimes their parent see them as a light to the family. In all, i believe everyone is looking for a way to survive. It takes the grace of God to find a REAL wife and a REAL husband.

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Posted: at 6-04-2012 01:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac