| 5 signs that she likes you
1 Be bold and initiate a short chat. This will help
you to learn those little things that will come in handy
later because everyone loves knowing that someone
actually listened to them and cared enough to remember
the small details about them. Listen carefully and be
attentive to the things she tells you so that you will have
them for future reference. As you talk, notice if she gives
you any signs, special words or hints.
All girls are different. Is she shy or outgoing? Does she
act like this around other guys? Look at her body
language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and
dilated pupils (especially), are all signs she likes you.
Another sign is if she laughs at your boring, silly jokes.
(Beware: Don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk
looking like a comedy dork.)
She may not be able to look you straight in the eye. She
might smile and laugh a lot because she is worried about
giving too much away.
Check for the smile. A girl that's interested in you will
usually immediately smile when you start a conversation
with her. The smile may disappear quickly if she's shy,
but it's hard to hide an unexpected strong emotion. If
she's not romantically interested, she'll likely look at you
inquisitively, but she won't express any particular
interest.
2 Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be
difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who
they consider to be just friends. Uninitiated, this general
interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush,
so know how she acts around other guys.
Be aware that some girls have no idea that they're
flirting. In this case, she probably likes you a great deal
since her subconscious is letting her body language do
the talking.
Most girls don't like to be obvious. Girls fear rejection
too.
If you fancy a girl, never make the mistake of "flirting
around". If she sees you putting your arm around
another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she will
assume that she doesn't mean anything to you and will
stop trying.
3 Check for random hugs, reserved mostly for you. Hugs
can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of
getting closer to you and touching you without it
necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting. In turn,
you can go along with it if you want, or just act busy
like you're late for an appointment and need to rush off.
4 Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you
more often than what you'd consider the usual. This
ploy is ancient and tried and true, as it's a way of
touching you subtly and sizing up how responsive (and
perhaps even how well toned) you are. If she finds
excuses to touch you a lot, then you're probably on the
right track. Act casual when she bumps into you and say
"no worries" or something similar. As for touching your
arm and hair in a casual but rather meaningful way,
there's really no need to say anything; just lap it up
graciously.
Not all girls will feel comfortable reaching out using
touch. In this case, don't assume that she doesn't like
you because she doesn't try to touch you. She may be
too nervous to touch you yet. Don't be shy––break the
touch barrier yourself.
She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as
by lightly hitting you about the head, or soft punching to
the body. These "one-of-the-mates" moves can be a
thinly disguised way of getting closer to you without it
being too evident to your friends and hers.
5 Observe the way in which she looks at you. If she likes
you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on you for a
long time or pull away immediately the moment your
eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses
could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly,
it often means she is nervous or not ready to reveal her
true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she
holds the stare, and you believe you see responsiveness
or even love in her eyes, then she is confident and she
may make the first move.
Of course, some girls might just be staring or winding
you up, so don't think she loves you and wants to get in
touch with the real, inner you. Use the context to discern
the motive.
If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her
staring back at you, then this means that she likes you,
although she may quickly dart her head in a different
direction. |
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