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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: lustful desire- is it a sin unto human beings, or natural phenomena (life style |
on: 15-04-2011 01:58 PM
| is lustful desire a sin? 
YES IT IS A REAL SIN!!!
it once denied a man of God ticket into gate of heaven.
The word of God says d way a man thinketh, So He is.
If ur thought is sinful, U are simply sinful!
But my broda, sincerely speaking, its not easy ooo
Na work Jesus do ooooo. To enter heaven no be moi-moi @ all..
e.g
I was scared @ first to start driving on Lagos road simply because i thought i was goin to kill hundreds of people (mostly ladies)
since i cant take my eyes off dem & dey wunt just stop to impress u even down-stairs.
i was afraid, u never can tell, U might b lookin @ a lady while driving & mistakenly climb her head with d car!!!!I tell u, it's only the grace of God that would see us through to Heaven. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women na soup? |
on: 15-04-2011 01:52 PM
| | Even in terms of physical structure, all women ain't the same.....some are big, some are small...and in terms of the physical components, some have got it more and nicer than some.......don't they say variety is the spice of life? Quantity might be the same but quality is definitely not the same. That's why people have got choices!
To ur friends: they're simply immature......no offence pls. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children (Page 6) |
on: 15-04-2011 01:50 PM
| Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
That's if they man solely desired Yeah sure....it's the man's kettle of fish....he boils it the way he desires.....best of luck to him/wify | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children (Page 5) |
on: 15-04-2011 01:31 PM
| SBI & DK, divorce is undesirable but it's part of our existence....U can't continue to remain in a deep shit,sadness or confusion all in the name of not wanting a divorce!! Personally, I believe in making sacrifices but only for something that's worth it. Why should I continue to displease myself? But like DK said, it's a matter of choice....
the highlighted words was and still my own reason for divorce.as long as sacrifice is concern God knows our heart,and He surely knows the length i can handle difficulties.so i don't need to preach for people to agree with me. cuz at the end of the day i get my own policies that i stick on. Yes o....  | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children (Page 5) |
on: 15-04-2011 01:31 PM
| SBI & DK, divorce is undesirable but it's part of our existence....U can't continue to remain in a deep shit, sadness or confusion all in the name of not wanting a divorce! Personally, I believe in making sacrifices but only for something that's worth it. Why should I continue to displease myself? But like DK said, it's a matter of choice....
u got it right If d husband cannot cope....He is free to file for a divorce abeg but if he can cope then let him keep his wife and d kids Sure! | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children (Page 6) |
on: 15-04-2011 01:29 PM
| | Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned! | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children |
on: 15-04-2011 01:21 PM
| There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage..  1. It remains a secret bcos u dont even knw d part of d world its happening and its a true story 2. In African culture, U dont need a soothsayer 2 tell u dat a woman can only gain her ground in a man's house only when she hv babe(s). Any marriage without children u knw dat a woman suffers it most considering d presure from family and friends of d man to get another wifey. remember,,, 9yrs of marriage.. 3. She chose 2 do that out of luv 4 her hubby. She wnts 2 save him frm dat shame of childlessness at d same time save their marriage. 4. D man wz unaware of it untill last 2months he got 2 released dat. Note; d main owner of dese children doesnt knw about it I understand all this, but i don't agree with that number 2, what pressure? when is not the woman's problem but the man, I think the pressure and shame should be on the man side, The family suggesting of new wife for him, the same thing will happen to the next woman and so on. And also is very wrong or should i say impossible for the woman to know that the man is Impotent while the man will not know, only discovering that 2months ago, common ... how possible is that for over 9yrs of marriage? how did the woman know, without the man knowing? already those kids came in btw the 9yrs of marriage, it means she's been cheating on the man right from the day they got married. If i will judge as human and as a man with feelings, I will pretend nothing has happened, take care of those kids and remain in that pretending and lie marriage, but i will always ignore that lady ( Wify ) for lie and cheating. She will mean nothing again to me, there's nothing like saving a man from shame here, because if is the woman who got such problem and the man sleeps outside to get kids, she will cry foul and feel he broke her heart and so on.... But now she got million reasons to confuse the man in her cheating attitude. The man is in deep shyt already, thats his married destiny, I don't believe in divorce, Divorce is not a good omen ! did i hear you said you don't believe in divorce?well no reasonable man in his right senses would like divorce,but some kind of mess need divorce my brother,unless you are ready to die in such pathetic marriage,which i personally will never accept. So where will u run to huh??? where u will pregnant woman??? Isnt marriage for berra for worse huh??? l beg no offence o lolz! oh come on! i see no offence. my own interpretation of "marriage being for better for worst" .is having a common bond,love each other unconditional,when things get though we stick together and look for a solution to our problems(not unilateral decision),treat each other equal and above all keeping no secret.so don't expect me to swallow poison in the name of marriage being for better for worst.i jump and pass cuz it's not my portion. EXACTLY! | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children (Page 5) |
on: 15-04-2011 01:15 PM
| | SBI & DK, divorce is undesirable but it's part of our existence....U can't continue to remain in a deep shit, sadness or confusion all in the name of not wanting a divorce! Personally, I believe in making sacrifices but only for something that's worth it. Why should I continue to displease myself? But like DK said, it's a matter of choice.... | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children |
on: 15-04-2011 01:09 PM
| Pepesy, if it's a secret between the couple alone, how come u know about it?Or is this nollywood?
And what is it with women and their bosses?
Well, the man has known; let him do the needful.........
l knw abt it coz am a close source... no matter hw secretive u may be,,, there re situations u may find urself that u need some1 2 confide on maybe a reliable pax... It doesnt matter who's involved here whether boss or non boss d issue is dat, dis is d situation on ground and he needs ur contribution if u can I see..... I think the first thing to do is to find out if his sterility has a cure; who knows, his problem might just be that of a low sperm count which could be treated.....If he can get a cure, he should get it and start a new life with another woman.....if he can't get a cure, he could adopt....keeping another man's children as his is very delicate and dangerous.....the real father can always turn up in the near future.......... l get ur point. buh remember, dis woman took dis drastic action out of luv she has 4 her hubby. She doesnt wnt 2 lose him for any reason. 2ndly, d boss is completely unaware of dis? My dear, the husband was not told by the wife; he only got to know by chance. The same way, the real father could get to know he fathered 2 kids with the wife by chance! What if the kids need blood transfusion and the husband's blood does not suffice? To me, it's better he gets a new life with another woman and get a cure or adopt! Keeping another man's kids as urs is like sitting on a time bomb which is bound to explode! More so, the woman did not take that ugly decision out of love but out of selfishness/self centered-ness.....for crying out loud, she's put the hubby in a deep shit! I knew a man who had a cardiac arrest and lost his life when the true paternity of his grown up "children" was revealed to him.....it's w wound that CAN NEVER heal........... | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children |
on: 15-04-2011 10:45 AM
| What do u mean by impotent here? I don't understand your story, there is a difference in being impotent and potent with sterilize sperm. An impotent man is a man that can never have erection at all. A potent man can have erection but having sterilize sperm that can never gat a woman pregnant. which of this class does this man belongs to?
She meant sterile and not impotent..... Good morning Harold; how're things? | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: An impotent man fathering 2 children |
on: 15-04-2011 10:44 AM
| Pepesy, if it's a secret between the couple alone, how come u know about it?Or is this nollywood?
And what is it with women and their bosses?
Well, the man has known; let him do the needful.........
l knw abt it coz am a close source... no matter hw secretive u may be,,, there re situations u may find urself that u need some1 2 confide on maybe a reliable pax... It doesnt matter who's involved here whether boss or non boss d issue is dat, dis is d situation on ground and he needs ur contribution if u can I see..... I think the first thing to do is to find out if his sterility has a cure; who knows, his problem might just be that of a low sperm count which could be treated.....If he can get a cure, he should get it and start a new life with another woman.....if he can't get a cure, he could adopt....keeping another man's children as his is very delicate and dangerous.....the real father can always turn up in the near future.......... | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HEELLPP!!, A PSYCHO STALKER IS AFTER ME!! |
on: 15-04-2011 10:06 AM
| Where and how did he get ur number in d first place?
Meanwhile, u can report to your network provider or use a phone that has a facility to blacklist an unwanted number............
Flakees, jst wat i want to say, tell ur provider (best solution), nt even dis period that we register sim they will fish him out n u take it up from there perhaps u want to report him or Blacklist the number on ur mobile. | | | | |
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Forum / Politics / Re: Buhari Weeps While Presenting Campaign Speech (Page 3) |
on: 15-04-2011 09:47 AM
| Is Nigeria not worth shedding tears for? Whether crocodile tears or tiger tears, the Nigerian Nation has so been plundered and brutalized that anyone who witnessed the era when light was better, Naira had value and our health care and transport systems were working (at least better than they are now) would shed tears......Are we progressing or regressing? Nonetheless, action is what we need not emotions..............
keeping my fingers crossed,as i await the good news,emotions wont help in this at all,actions are needed in that country. Our fingers are crossed.....we can only hope for the best. And one thing is no politician could be vouched for. Politicians are like chameleons; they are so unpredictable.....my prayer is for God to touch the heart of whoever emerges as the winner as well as the hearts of people around him to do HIS will and make Nigeria to start functioning...... | | | | |
