Well how do we know he isnt??
As he comes in the middle of the night when every one is asleep so nobody has seen the real one right?
 

@Spekay   

Ok now you did paste and copy all the medical humble jumble the question is:

HOW IS HE GOING TO DEAL WITH HIS TEMPER??
You got any advice on that i wonder??

@teeco
OOOOps did spell your name wrong.

One more advice its what i do sometimes.( Often)

Humor is a life saver, if anything fails look into the mirror and laugh about your self and the stupid things we regret and do from time to time.
 

@ teece
I dont think temper and ulcers are related but stress is. Also for some people me included lots of emotions go via the stomach and like in my case can make you end up in hospital.

Temper very often happens out of frustration so sit back and see what makes you angry, in your case i dont think its lack of being able to express your self. you know what will set you of right?
So just write down what triggers you for a few days if your not sure.

Praying might help if you feel your getting frustrated as you mind will be directed to something else its a form of meditating. Breathing deep in when you get the urge to snap as well.

Having lived with a partner who could have a temper that i would be afraid he would get a heart attack has thought me many things. Make sure the people around you know how to calm you down and just confront you with silence, hahaha yep you wont be but arguing will make it worse. I would just stare him down.
From your part no matter what keep your hands to your self as i have seen that effect and end result of aggressive actions too.

My biggest advice to you is this. Get a punching bag and when ever you feel total anger or frustration coming out exercise punch the bag and go for a run. Do push ups anything it will calm you down for sure. 
My ex was so afraid in the end thinking one day he would kill someone that he joined a karate club as it was there, if you have a good one, who made him focus and redirect his anger into doing Kata.
It sounds strange but those guys would confront and bring him down in there sport as funny enough aggression wasnt tolerated. 

But pls dont take medication as it only will cloud your mind and will not solve the problem.

You got that wrong
Spekay im sure might have many disorders but ADD he certainly has not.
As if you would have seen more of his comments he can concentrate and keep going on the same subject for ever and ever
 

Im fully aware that WHITE people can be African's as well.
So that doesnt still give you the right to be abusive in this forum to the BLACK Africans
As i will say this again being abusive doesnt make you any better then the people who throw abuse to your homo friends.

On that one i agree with you.
As the abuse is the same no matter what country race or colour

I for one dont give a hoot about what happened to Sodom and Gomorrah im living in the now not what happened so many life times ago

There is no mentioning of being sympathetic to the choices homosegxwals make, its not written in my statements at all.
And certainly im not calling anybody stupid either.

To say homosegxwals didnt exist before white people interfered into your society your wrong.
As i told you once and tell it to you again, You dream with your eyes wide open and see the things what arent there, but when you are awake the things what are there you dont see.

Homosegxwality no matter what race cant be forced upon a other person. So dont blame the white race for the segxwal behavior of your country man.
Not that long ago even in the white society homosegxwality was not tolerated and in Hitlers time they were gassed together with the Jews, but it was there hidden like im sure in your country Africa.
Grow up and wake up Spekay and have a real good look around you.

Im not in defense here for Homosegxwal behavior.
Im in defense here for getting the blame as a white person for every thing what you think is wrong in your society simply for the fact you dont want to take the blame onto your self.

Sorry im not in agreement with this statement at all.

Im here in the defense of the white race nothing more.
As to say the white society tolerates homosegxwals your only right to a certain degree.
Im not in agreement with what you write here about my Nigerian friends at all.
Everyone can have his or her views, to there for start throwing the above wording and abuses to the majority of Nigerians  i just cant and wont  tolerate.
As this makes you not any better then the homo haters in this world 

By the way

Who are we to judge God's creations ??
Did He give any of you the power to do so??

Or........

Are you all better then God in judging mankind ??

And hmmm

How do you know they arent happy?

Are you??

I worked in her Majesty's theater for a long time where there was no option to co work very close to gay people and like you and me some where happy and some where not. Some had longstanding relation ships more then 25 years plus together and some didnt.
I dont hate them and i dont like them.

They are people you dont like them then let them simply be.

 
 But what a way to go.

 

Sure only a man can ask a stupid question like this.

Lets say have you ever had a very bad stomach cramp?? One where you cant breath? Then when you have this cramp you get Kicked in the stomach on top of that?
Imagine this happening to you for a average of 8 to, lets make it reasonable, 16 hrs.

Im asking you what do you think you prefer?

Yeah why not blame it all on the whites again.
So easy not to take your own responsibility for your/there actions.
Gays are around as long as mankind exist.
Im not going in to if its wrong im staying out of other peoples bedrooms dont give a damn what they do between the sheets.

A gay man told me once wouldnt you be shocked to find out what some of your straight people do in bed. And yes he is right about that. Live and let live and anyone to its own.

My goodness you have had experience with this? 

In my case i do have a cup of coffee with my ex new wife and we talk at a regular basis.

What has been we shouldnt dwell on and the only way forward is to live in the now.
My ex still does things for me and we can discus things as well. For a while we had our moments but all is fine, why stay angry if there is nothing between you and your ex any more?
When there are kids involved you never will be free from each other so you might as well try to get on together.

If your talking to me the answer is simply a big NO.

To me there is a difference in selling yourself to a employer in telling him you have some experience in the field they are asking for and there for getting a future, then simply telling a lie to get you out of a unwanted situation.
I dont care what you make of that. The end result could be on the streets or having to eat on a regular basis.
So i would choose for the latter. If you rather would go on the streets as your afraid to tell them your good at what your doing and knowing you can do the job and to be positive of your self. Thats fine with me.

What my God is concerned.
The above situation is between Him and me not a bunch of people who would judge me in Gods name and think they know and are better judges then my God.

Question to you. And to all the so called good doers:
Have you never told a lie in your life?
The difference here is to eat or to starve. What would you prefer?