he should choose who is more important to him, the love of God or the love of man

remember both is gud to love , and i see no harm having gul friend and serving God in the same time, but they need understanding and explanation since he said he loved the gul, get her and talk to her, convience her to become  born again wif u nad get marrried lather

Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ma ppl wonders neva sieze to end..
Hilary is a gudfriend of mine.,who brought a complain to me dat his girl is abt walking away.,simply bcos he denied her sex.
Hilary said he wanted a new life,a life wt christ,a life wt a meaning. He seriously wanted a new life wt God n end his life of sin., n wants to start by ending his sex life.
Wen his girl came n wanting to ve sex,hilary denied her n told her abt his new decisn,d girl broke lose and bursted out in anger n rage,threatning to end d relatnship if hilary does nt change his mind.
Nw hilary is confused.he love his girl n dnt want to lose her. What shd he do?

he said flee from the snare of the devil

Posted: at 9-02-2011 06:17 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

leave the girl n move on... shekena

No nyash or honeypot, shuld b left alone. Everything is 2 b scarter-scarter. 

Posted: at 9-02-2011 06:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

CHRIST IS BETTER THAN SEX

Posted: at 9-02-2011 07:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

CHRIST IS BETTER THAN SEX

thats so right, my brother

Posted: at 9-02-2011 07:27 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

if ur 2 eyes will stop u from entring the kingdom of GOD u better remove one and go in, because life in this world looks like sugerkain, u enjoy it when ur chowing it and as u finished it the remaining chaff will be useless,
so Priceless-jewel make ur choice whom to follow JESUS or ur girl friend.

Posted: at 9-02-2011 08:24 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

ma ppl wonders neva sieze to end..
Hilary is a gudfriend of mine.,who brought a complain to me dat his girl is abt walking away.,simply bcos he denied her sex.
Hilary said he wanted a new life,a life wt christ,a life wt a meaning. He seriously wanted a new life wt God n end his life of sin., n wants to start by ending his sex life.
Wen his girl came n wanting to ve sex,hilary denied her n told her abt his new decisn,d girl broke lose and bursted out in anger n rage,threatning to end d relatnship if hilary does nt change his mind.
Nw hilary is confused.he love his girl n dnt want to lose her. What shd he do?

VERY EASY, HE SHOULD JUST MARRY HER

Posted: at 9-02-2011 08:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

JOSHUA AND HIS FAMILY MADE A CHOICE OF THE GOD THEY WOULD SERVE,NOTWITHSTANDING WHO WAS 4 THEM OR AGAINST THEM.IF HE HAS CHOSEN 2 END HIS FIRST LIFE,THAT IS BETTER FOR HIM.IN FACT,I AM HAPPY 4 HIM.AS 4 HIS GIRLFRIEND,HE SHOULD LET HER GO IF SHE INSISTS(DESCENDANTS OF EVE AND DELINA).MY GUY SHOULD PRAY 4 GOD 2 CHANGE HER 4 GOOD,COS' IF SHE CONTINUES THAT WAY,HELL FIRE IS JOYFULLY WAITING 4 HER.ONCE MORE,CONGRATS MY GUY 4 THIS BOLD STEP.OTITO DIRI JESUOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

Posted: at 9-02-2011 11:04 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Both of them started the relationship together. The man has to gradually talk the girl into accepting the change in life. It is not something you automatically cut off because the girl has not prepared her mind towards stopping having sex immediately. So bros, i advise you talk her into accepting your new life in Christ so that she too can change and become born-again. Who knows...both of you might end up in marriage. So don't dump her as if she has never been your lover.

Posted: at 10-02-2011 08:14 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

The Guy should not loose focus on what he has decided to do, because thats a great decision that can lead any one to his or her greatness. If the girl really love him, she should understand what the guy mean by abstaining. Though we all know it will not be easy for the girl because she was not ready for it as the guy is ready. But what she needs now is prayer and reading the Bible, because thats where lay the word of God, and a word from God can change any body's life.

Posted: at 10-02-2011 09:54 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Thank God she dumped you, she might be a maniac. God help you out.

Posted: at 10-02-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

God can not stop u not get marry accept u know that u can not marry the girl

Posted: at 10-02-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Let him stand by his decision. If the girl likes let her go, the God he serves will bring a better woman for him

Posted: at 10-02-2011 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

HILARY + SEX + HIS GURL FRIEND = AFTER DUE CONSIDERATION N' I QUOTE .......... GIVE TO CEASER WHAT BELONG TO CEASER  N' TO GOD WHAT BELONG TO GOD....................... HILARY VE TO ACT AS HIS NAME SOUND ..............................OUTTA HERE ..................PEACE

@KEBELLA...LOL

Posted: at 10-02-2011 10:22 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

hmmmmmmmmm.......some gals are so unreasonable......but she is correct.....since d guy has been having sex with her .......he will need some time to convince her on his new decision.

Posted: at 10-02-2011 10:59 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

yyyyyyyy should he denie her of sex..................

Posted: at 10-02-2011 11:26 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

all is well said, i am coming back

Posted: at 10-02-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

yyyyyyyy should he denie her of sex..................

He's now born-again and doesn't want to commit fornication any more.....I do hope he's not committing other sins too sha cos sin na sin.....

Posted: at 10-02-2011 12:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My advise for your friends. . . dump the girl and give me her number

Posted: at 10-02-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

My advise for your friends. . . dump the girl and give me her number

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Posted: at 10-02-2011 12:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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