Showering with gifts Some ppl,usually men,may equate spending money on a woman with making her like him more. Showering ur partner with gifts in d first stages of a relationship won’t make him or her like more or motivate him or her to keep u around. It suggests u have little else to offer other than what’s in ur chequing account.And even worse, they may begin to expect gifts all d time. Wait for a milestone in ur relationship,such as an anniversary or birthday,b4 exchanging gifts.
Spending all ur free time together There r 2 dangers with being needy or clingy in a relationship.First,u forgo ur social life,which u need to maintain for ur own well-being.We all need to have a healthy circle of friends for support & companionship.Second,u smother d other person’s own personal time,which may cause him or her to resent u.U'll end up getting sick of each other early on in d relationship.
Meeting family & friends prematurely Meeting d other person’s friends and family is a rite of passage in any relationship. But,it could be a mistake to meet them before u know ur new partner well enough.Establish a comfortable,solid rapport with him or her first. Also,try to get to know those close to him or her by asking and talking about them.Then,when it's d right time,u'll know what to expect & u’ll be more at ease when u actually meet them.
Not coming clean about ur past Whatever skeletons u’re hiding,they'll come out eventually. U should tell d other person about any addictions u had,if u've been married,and so on.Granted,all of this doesn’t have to be revealed all at once or all within d first few weeks of dating.When u feel like d relationship is getting serious,u should come out & be fully honest.
Avoiding Confrontation Communication is d key to resolving those quarrels all lovers have.If u avoid talking about ur problems,they'll only get bigger.A small argument in d present is better than a painful fight later.Avoiding confrontation can also be taken as a sign of indifference towards d relationship.
Forgiving mistakes too easily If there is something that bothers u about the other person,don’t let these annoying habits slide.If he/she has done something to hurt or offend u,let them know right away.If u sweep all of ur feelings under d rug,it will blow up.He/she will never know how u feel & d behaviour will continue.
Taking them for granted In order to keep d glow of a relationship alive,seduction must be a long withstanding effort.So don’t fall into d trap of getting too comfortable too early on.For example:u stop going out on dates,u no longer care about ur appearance or u stop being attentive & affectionate.Falling into these bad practices may spell d end of ur relationship.
Saying “I Love You” Too Soon These words r not to be thrown around carelessly.They must be used with an amount of frugality,otherwise they become meaningless. Saying it too soon may scare d other person off.So wait until u know d other person really well & a solid base of trust has been established.Then,u'll both know that u really mean it.
Feel free to add more!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 11-05-2011 09:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Forgiving mistakes too easily If there is something that bothers u about the other person,don’t let these annoying habits slide.If he/she has done something to hurt or offend u,let them know right away.If u sweep all of ur feelings under d rug,it will blow up.He/she will never know how u feel & d behaviour will continue. I have to make a move after 4yrs cos of this reason....brilliant point
Posted: at 11-05-2011 09:26 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
but those mistakes sometimes make up the relationship....take a cool look into it
A mistake is a mistake! Mistakes don't build, in normal circumstances! Come on,Wallas!
there's r mistakes that r not regrettable...hope u knw that, take confrontation for instance u might likely want to confront to notions n maybe if u confront it it might also be the wrong time or approach but in the process u happen to let go or sth else took its place n finally things got fixed. what i mean now is "u made a mistake of not confronting the issue but somehow the issue got resolved" several cases like that do happen
Posted: at 11-05-2011 09:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 11-05-2011 09:51 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: wallas on 11-05-2011 09:48 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 11-05-2011 09:37 AM
Quote from: wallas on 11-05-2011 09:34 AM
but those mistakes sometimes make up the relationship....take a cool look into it
A mistake is a mistake! Mistakes don't build, in normal circumstances! Come on,Wallas!
there's r mistakes that r not regrettable...hope u knw that, take confrontation for instance u might likely want to confront to notions n maybe if u confront it it might also be the wrong time or approach but in the process u happen to let go or sth else took its place n finally things got fixed. what i mean now is "u made a mistake of not confronting the issue but somehow the issue got resolved" several cases like that do happen
Wallas,let's not talk about rare cases now! Everybody knows that timing is very important! And also those are referring at the NEW relationships !Come on!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 11-05-2011 09:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
but those mistakes sometimes make up the relationship....take a cool look into it
A mistake is a mistake! Mistakes don't build, in normal circumstances! Come on,Wallas!
there's r mistakes that r not regrettable...hope u knw that, take confrontation for instance u might likely want to confront to notions n maybe if u confront it it might also be the wrong time or approach but in the process u happen to let go or sth else took its place n finally things got fixed. what i mean now is "u made a mistake of not confronting the issue but somehow the issue got resolved" several cases like that do happen
Wallas,let's not talk about rare cases now! Everybody knows that timing is very important! And also those are referring at the NEW relationships !Come on!
u said it but not all...i really concur to ur stated mistakes tho'
Posted: at 11-05-2011 09:54 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 11-05-2011 10:00 AM (14 years ago) (m)
....forgivin mistakes too soon,sayin 'i love you' Too easily...really taught me a good lesson.....the rest, i dont think i fell a victim.,.....*sad*...good points!!
Posted: at 11-05-2011 10:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
diplomatik at 11-05-2011 10:43 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sobeit on 11-05-2011 10:05 AM
passing and *singing* i love you! i love u!! i love u too soon. besides no love lost, no love found.
singing * u be the personal peson for me *
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 11-05-2011 10:43 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 11-05-2011 10:49 AM (14 years ago) (f)
i'm all right..how r ya
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 11-05-2011 10:49 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 11-05-2011 10:58 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sobeit on 11-05-2011 10:51 AM
i'm good sweet boo it has been a while..busy right?
yeah mos def! ..
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 11-05-2011 10:58 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either 
, i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool 
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