![-]( "emekabonas") emekabonas at 2-05-2012 11:20 AM (13 years ago)  (m) Ur compatibilty ratio determines hw peaceful this marriage will still be. Forget wat u both feel now,when the feelings will wear off like alcohol,u both will start seeing the other side except u a above 75% compatible. Check ur compatiblity tru ur zodiac signs!!!!!! | Posted: at 2-05-2012 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "ifeadiego") ifeadiego at 2-05-2012 11:26 AM (13 years ago) (m) common wake up from ur slumber and get serious........... do u think u are still a baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | Posted: at 2-05-2012 11:26 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Idbabe") Idbabe at 2-05-2012 11:44 AM (13 years ago) (f) He wants to enjoy u on pay as u go levels. Beta take ur stand now and stop fooling urself. Who is or are the mother(s) of the 3 dotas? Perhaps he is looking forward to her return back to him, that is y he refuses to make committment. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "aso4life1") aso4life1 at 2-05-2012 12:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) Patience is the key, don't rush him
if u attack my papa house, I'll retaliate but if you are peace loving,I will embrace you | Posted: at 2-05-2012 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ikwo1") ikwo1 at 2-05-2012 12:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) I DONT GIVE A BURGER.
is this ur new style now?nawaoooooooooooo | Posted: at 2-05-2012 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "MRchina4u") MRchina4u at 2-05-2012 12:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) IF THE MAN IS NOT READY TO COMMIT, THEN TRY ME.. POINT OF CORRECTION DON'T SAY THAT THE MAN IS THE BEST YOU HAVE EVER MEET, HAVE U TRY ME | Posted: at 2-05-2012 12:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "nassgold") nassgold at 2-05-2012 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (f) U need to be very careful, he may be scared though, but at his age he should know what he wants from a relationship. Be on ur guard so that he wont make a bedmate out of u. We all have been hurt one way or another. Relationship is all about taking risk. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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if bolt of you don't have the trust of loving each order then let the girl come to me let me show her the full confidence of a man that is in love. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "estilizo") estilizo at 2-05-2012 01:32 PM (13 years ago) (f) hnmmmmmmmmmmm 
THE BEST WAY TO REVENGE IS TO FORGIVE..........FORGIVE THE TEARS OF A HURTFUL PAST. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "K-TRUTH") K-TRUTH at 2-05-2012 01:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) Una never have any commitment and he no Love U wholeheartedly. Ejighi Igbo ekwu ya. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "soyayya") soyayya at 2-05-2012 01:56 PM (13 years ago) (m) The devil is a liar in this picture. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "jnyamunda") jnyamunda at 2-05-2012 02:48 PM (13 years ago) (m) its not up to u 2 say u guys shud make a commitment. if your love is based on mutual respect, u will respect the fact that he is not ready. u will love him enough 2 wait | Posted: at 2-05-2012 02:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "simon4real") simon4real at 2-05-2012 02:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) pray fervently | Posted: at 2-05-2012 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "jossymgb") jossymgb at 2-05-2012 03:19 PM (13 years ago) (m) I am 35 and in love with my boyfriend of 1-1/2 years, Ben, who is 42. We have a wonderful relationship built on love, mutual respect and friendship. He has three daughters all leaving for college this year and I have a seven year old son who also loves Ben very much. We both know I want to spend the rest of my life with him but he's not so sure, he wants to go on seeing each other and just see what happens. We both had very unhappy first marriages and he's told me several times he is afraid if we get married and/or live together that sooner or later I will leave him and he doesn't want that to happen to him again, (due to his first experience).
We both know we would have a wonderful life together, he even admits it, but he has this fear and I don't know what to do. A couple of weeks ago we went on a trip and we were walking just enjoying the scenery. I guess I was walking too fast and he grabbed me and told me he was afraid I was going to leave him. He did it again this weekend. Both times I have told him that I wouldn't leave him, and I mean that I would never leave him.
His insecurities bring out my insecurities and sometimes I beat myself into the ground, blaming myself and thinking I'm not good enough, that if I was worth it he'd make a commitment, but I also know that it's not all me. He tells me he loves me and he thinks I'm wonderful and he can't believe how lucky he is that I love him, but he's so scared and I don't know what to do to reassure him enough to tear down the fences and give us a chance.
He's the best person I have ever known and I can't imagine my life without him, but my faith is starting to run out because of his non commitment towards the relationship.
What can I do?
From Rachael.
RE U REALY INLOVE OR U JST WANT HM TO COMMIT, BCOS GOD KNO'S WHT U HV IN MIND | Posted: at 2-05-2012 03:19 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Izemozey") Izemozey at 2-05-2012 03:48 PM (13 years ago) (m) just love him more, and make it kwn 2 him. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "globala") globala at 2-05-2012 03:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) really? really?? really???
Globala is the game!!! | Posted: at 2-05-2012 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Play ur card well as a woman. Play a wifey role to him. Put urself in a the position of his wife. He'll find himself clinging to u always Then be patient. With time, he will come out of his shell. Remember the 'patient dog eats the fattest bone' Congrats dear. I know it will turn out to ur favour | Posted: at 2-05-2012 05:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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"We are both in love"- pls dear do urself a favour and speak for yourself. Many women found out the wrong way that their spouse is not in love or perhaps he is with anoda. I am surprised you are 35; at that age, I would expect one to know what they want. Your bf knows what he what or in this case what he doesnt want. If that doesnt work, then find something(one) that does. I wouldnt hold my breath hoping for him to change because tbh, he already has a family and he is in no rush. For some reason, he has decided that he doesnt want to commit to a relationship with you. At his age, life is too short for BS; if he was younger, I would say give him time but he is a grown arse man. I know this might come across as being a lil too blunt and I apologise for the deliver but it is the truth. So you either gotta stay with him on his terms or get out there and find something that will make you happy. | Posted: at 2-05-2012 05:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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