The talk all over the world nowadays are about equality. Everyone wants to be on equal terms, thus most women world over seems to have no regards to that Biblical exhortation of "been submissive to their own husbands" and want to have their way every time.
And most men lacks patience and self control, thus they have no regards to tolerance. Now these are the main factors that re rocking most marriages in the world today.
My advise to our women irrespective of ur class is..... Please don't go into marriage when u know that u are not ready to submit and humble yourself to your own husband. Don't take any major decision that will directly or indirectly affect ur family without discussing it with ur spouse first hand as most men have pride and would see such actions as a direct disrespect to their ego as the man of the house. And to our men... pls let's try to show more understanding with women knowing fully well that they too also have a mind of their own, meaning there is a need to be more tolerable which involve letting go of our rights and pride sometimes in order to make our r/ships work... Moreover, WE ALL NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT NO R/SHIP WOULD EVER SURVIVE WITHOUT COMMUNICATION. So communicate a lot, as that could help in sorting out those minor issues that when not properly taken care of usually leads to break-ups. Chikinah!!!
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