Am I Too Young To Get Married? (Page 11)

GBAM! ASK AM.

Posted: at 16-04-2009 04:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

My dear u r pweety but thats not what real love that leads to marriage is based on. Marriage is a contract till death( though divorce maybe there 4 a release of the burden). You said ur parents did want u to get married? thats hwat marriage is all about. Ask urself if u r ready to listen to ur children at all time and try to find reason in whatever they have to say without considering their age. What u r abt to go into is not bf n gf stuff. This is 4 real, that u get to sit down and think abt the negative things u hv heard abt marriage and the positive ones also. But more especially the negative ones, and ask urself if they come to u would u be able to handle them in a matured way without assistance? All u have to do is go to ur parents and let them know that u really want to get marreid and that u r ready for all that follows. Dont think of getting pregnant to make them have no choice than to allow u cos they may dissapoint u, and u will go ahead to marry ur man. Along the line if u hv a problem with ur man, then he will remind u that he married u without ur parents concent. JUST BE WISE IN ALL

Posted: at 16-04-2009 04:41 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In
fact, it was a completely spontaneous
experience. You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love - because
it's happening TO YOU. But are u sure of it

Posted: at 16-04-2009 05:59 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

hi

Posted: at 16-04-2009 06:20 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

no you are not, as long as you are committed to the sanctity of marriage, it is fine.  at 23, and any age, you should be with a person you have love for, common likes and who is committed to one person too.  you should be with a person who loves you for who you are and will allow you to grow into your own woman and who will nurture that growth.   and you should give all that to him too.  be blessed, and keep God in it

Posted: at 16-04-2009 06:44 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

you are not too young or old to get married. i think that age is the perfect age for women to get married. i got married to my wife when she was 22 years of age and we have been married for 3years now with a bouncing baby boy about to clock 3yrs as well. All you need to do is take things in a gentle manner and try to do some nice talking to ur parents. let them understand you know what you are doing. pls let me know their reply. wish you all d best.

Posted: at 16-04-2009 07:26 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

see dis woman

Posted: at 16-04-2009 09:59 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

thats lovely i like that, you are not too young but i will like you to listen to your parent am sure they are not going to mislead you since they are not going to marry you or keep you for some one somewhere.

Posted: at 17-04-2009 12:01 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

See pal getting married is not going to the market and see a shoe bcos u like it, put ur money for it and after some time u will dislike d shoe. In marrage u learn how to tolorate, to be patiant, love and care, overlook somethings. Be able to accomodate somethings no gosiping. If you can do this i wish u all the best.

Posted: at 17-04-2009 12:47 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Well i sypathized with u over your cause. No that no man is ready to married a lady over 27-30 so consider urself luck to have someone trying to shoulder the responsibilities of marriage. Many ladies are roaming the street looking for mr right to hook. If you are ready and the guy also let ur parent see reason with u. I wish u the best of purpose and decision.
 agbor

Posted: at 17-04-2009 07:39 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie