Why Nigerian Women Do Not Date/Marry Younger Men

Date: 07-09-2012 9:50 am (11 years ago) | Author: AYORINDE MAYOWA
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- at 7-09-2012 09:50 AM (11 years ago)
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Hello lovvies, TGIF! Today let’s talk older women and younger men relationships…

As a woman dating or marrying a younger man is pretty much a taboo in our culture , but celebrities like Darey Art Alade (whose wife Deola is 8 years older, they’ve been married 5 years and have 2 Children) and Peter Okoye of P-Square (whose girlfriend Lola Omotayo is about 6 years older, they’ve been together 6 years and they have a son and another on the way) have broken with tradition and embraced a trend which was been attributed to



I’ve asked my friends, and roughly 90percent say they would never entertain the thought of a younger guy (Naija girls) but it seems the men are more open (as long as the age difference isn’t more than 2 years and she doesn’t look older…LOL). I have a friend who is being actively pursued by a guy 2 years younger, this man treats her better than any of her exes ever have but she says she’s not going there cos of the age thing.

In our society it’s perfectly okay for a man to be with a woman decades younger, but when the roles are reversed the woman is called desperate and the man must be with her for her money.
So here’s what I want to know Ladies are you open to dating/marrying a younger man? what’s your age limit?
And this goes for the men to…would you date/marry an older woman? And what’s your age limit?

Posted: at 7-09-2012 09:50 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- lovecommander at 7-09-2012 12:18 PM (11 years ago)
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As a guy, I can not marry my elder sister.
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:18 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- shaoyang at 7-09-2012 12:23 PM (11 years ago)
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I just like To entertain the thought that theon woman who should under me is older than me, the equation is simply unbalanced Tongue
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:23 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sophyrocks at 7-09-2012 12:30 PM (11 years ago)
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Hmmm. im in d same shoes as ur frnd poster. ive bn gettin a gud no of advances frm younger men. its becomin too much n im scared i myt end up wit som1 younger. my luks are soooo deceivin. my face n my smallish slim body doesnt help matas. well i njoy lukin forever young. but for d younger men after me??? hmmm. i dnt fink i wud consider it.

Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:30 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- crusifixo at 7-09-2012 12:33 PM (11 years ago)
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love is not and wud neva be about the age...old wine always taste better....guys try out older women they very caring and fun to be with,let leave all the young ladies for our younger ones........ Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:33 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- crusifixo at 7-09-2012 12:36 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: mayorest on  7-09-2012 09:50 AM
Hello lovvies, TGIF! Today let’s talk older women and younger men relationships…

As a woman dating or marrying a younger man is pretty much a taboo in our culture , but celebrities like Darey Art Alade (whose wife Deola is 8 years older, they’ve been married 5 years and have 2 Children) and Peter Okoye of P-Square (whose girlfriend Lola Omotayo is about 6 years older, they’ve been together 6 years and they have a son and another on the way) have broken with tradition and embraced a trend which was been attributed to



I’ve asked my friends, and roughly 90percent say they would never entertain the thought of a younger guy (Naija girls) but it seems the men are more open (as long as the age difference isn’t more than 2 years and she doesn’t look older…LOL). I have a friend who is being actively pursued by a guy 2 years younger, this man treats her better than any of her exes ever have but she says she’s not going there cos of the age thing.

In our society it’s perfectly okay for a man to be with a woman decades younger, but when the roles are reversed the woman is called desperate and the man must be with her for her money.
So here’s what I want to know Ladies are you open to dating/marrying a younger man? what’s your age limit?
And this goes for the men to…would you date/marry an older woman? And what’s your age limit?



love is all that matter, if she love you she will be matured enough to know you are the man in the relationship........
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:36 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- crusifixo at 7-09-2012 12:37 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: lovecommander on  7-09-2012 12:18 PM
As a guy, I can not marry my elder sister.
taste and see if your thought would remain the same...............
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:37 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- frank_f at 7-09-2012 12:40 PM (11 years ago)
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I think this post is for the women, but is nonsens
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:40 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lakman at 7-09-2012 12:47 PM (11 years ago)
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if i really love she i will not care about the age, but i pray to marry younger girl.
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:47 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jamesbondchick at 7-09-2012 12:48 PM (11 years ago)
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anything goes for me as long as the guy is agreeable  Grin Grin

Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:48 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- crusifixo at 7-09-2012 12:50 PM (11 years ago)
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a lot of ladies these days find love when they are already old,so what happen if a younger guy come their way?.........@poster these is for the 60s.... Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:50 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Aquarium at 7-09-2012 12:57 PM (11 years ago)
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Honestly, i even prefer older ladies to the younger ones. I'd never approached a lady younger or even the same age as me. They are wiser, sweeter and more caring. Dont know bout the sex though 'cos i'd never tried that.

Posted: at 7-09-2012 12:57 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- crusifixo at 7-09-2012 01:23 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Aquarium on  7-09-2012 12:57 PM
Honestly, i even prefer older ladies to the younger ones. I'd never approached a lady younger or even the same age as me. They are wiser, sweeter and more caring. Dont know bout the sex though 'cos i'd never tried that.

try having sex with the older ladies,that is the icning on the cake..............yumie Wink Wink Wink
Posted: at 7-09-2012 01:23 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mallorca at 7-09-2012 01:50 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: crusifixo on  7-09-2012 12:33 PM
love is not and wud neva be about the age...old wine always taste better....guys try out older women they very caring and fun to be with,let leave all the young ladies for our younger ones........ Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink
dis na d first time i dey read sometime wey make sense from u Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley kudos

Posted: at 7-09-2012 01:50 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mallorca at 7-09-2012 01:50 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: jamesbondchick on  7-09-2012 12:48 PM
anything goes for me as long as the guy is agreeable  Grin Grin
Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 7-09-2012 01:50 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mallorca at 7-09-2012 01:51 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Aquarium on  7-09-2012 12:57 PM
Honestly, i even prefer older ladies to the younger ones. I'd never approached a lady younger or even the same age as me. They are wiser, sweeter and more caring. Dont know bout the sex though 'cos i'd never tried that.
what are you still waiting for?

Posted: at 7-09-2012 01:51 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- crusifixo at 7-09-2012 02:03 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on  7-09-2012 01:50 PM
dis na d first time i dey read sometime wey make sense from u Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley kudos

You no dey alrite na,i get your certificate from yaba for my hand............. Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 7-09-2012 02:03 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- juba10 at 7-09-2012 02:04 PM (11 years ago)
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There is really nothing wrong with a guy getting married to someone that is older than he is, but for me, i do not think i will get married to an older lady.
Posted: at 7-09-2012 02:04 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- candela at 7-09-2012 02:10 PM (11 years ago)
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It wont last. She will get too old and u will get tired of her
Posted: at 7-09-2012 02:10 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aso4life1 at 7-09-2012 02:24 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: frank_f on  7-09-2012 12:40 PM
I think this post is for the women, but is nonsens
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin I think so too

Posted: at 7-09-2012 02:24 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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