This is one mentality a lot of you girls have to change.
One, asking a guy for money is wrong, if you need money for upkeep ask your parents or better still work for it, don't use relationship as an excuse to ask your guy for money Yes, they may be a few stingy guys when it comes to spoiling their girls, it doesn't mean that we don't care. If you can ask for money, it doesn't differentiate you from a prostitute But wait, is he paying you for being his girlfriend? If you do ask for money with pride it only shows how cheap you are In my opinion a guy should treat her, buy her gift and spoil her if he can,not as some of you think, that you can wake up one morning and ask him for money to do your hair, buy clothes etc.. You what are you doing? are you not working? are you not earning money? or have your parents forgotten their responsibilitie s? Be wise and learn to be self sufficient, when you are married to him, you can ask all you want if He refuses to provide for you, you can fight him all you want, for now, you simply do not have that right..
Posted: at 22-09-2012 10:22 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
This is for d guys dat fall mugu for all dis mumu gurls,I wonder who come b d mugu between d two of 'em?....I rather give a motherless home my money than to give it 2 a gurl,atleast those children will pray 4 me till eternity but those girls naaaah....
Posted: at 22-09-2012 10:43 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
faithakwaugo at 23-09-2012 12:36 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Nice one bro but y shud u ask a girl u r nt married with for sex is d same thing as a girl asking u for money since u said only d husband can give her money , it is only de husband too dat has d right to ask for sex! If ask for sex from a girl u r not married to u r taking husband responsibility which gives her d right to ask for anything including money! Let me tell u some men ask for money more than women if d c a richer girl! I only support d fact dat we shud not realy on men for anything, we shud be our own boss!
Posted: at 23-09-2012 12:36 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
mymoney1 at 23-09-2012 11:01 AM (12 years ago) (m)
KEEP YOUR SEX TIN NAH , AM THINKING THAT MAY BE IT SHOULD BE MORE BETTER THAT WE HAVE CONTRACT LOVERS UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED SO THAT YOU WILL KNOW THAT WHEN EVER U NEED THE SEX THEN U PAY FOR IT AND HAVE IT AS IT IS NOW PAY BEFORE SERVICES WHETHER NA ASHAWO OR HOME GIRL , AS THE TIN NO DEY SWEET THE GIRL AGAIN BUT NA ONLY THE MAN , MAKE I TELL UNA , EDEY SWEET ME AND EDEY SWEET YOU SO NA WHO GO PAY ?
Posted: at 23-09-2012 11:01 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
ugoosuwa at 23-09-2012 11:03 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: mymoney1 on 23-09-2012 11:01 AM
KEEP YOUR SEX TIN NAH , AM THINKING THAT MAY BE IT SHOULD BE MORE BETTER THAT WE HAVE CONTRACT LOVERS UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED SO THAT YOU WILL KNOW THAT WHEN EVER U NEED THE SEX THEN U PAY FOR IT AND HAVE IT AS IT IS NOW PAY BEFORE SERVICES WHETHER NA ASHAWO OR HOME GIRL , AS THE TIN NO DEY SWEET THE GIRL AGAIN BUT NA ONLY THE MAN , MAKE I TELL UNA , EDEY SWEET ME AND EDEY SWEET YOU SO NA WHO GO PAY ?
stop shouting wit the caps.
Posted: at 23-09-2012 11:03 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
IN AS-MUCH AS I agree with your asertion, large chunk of the blame should go to the men who constantly believe that with your money, you can buy her love.
Posted: at 23-09-2012 11:32 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
aso4life1 at 23-09-2012 12:15 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Neglito on 23-09-2012 11:32 AM
IN AS-MUCH AS I agree with your asertion, large chunk of the blame should go to the men who constantly believe that with your money, you can buy her love.
Correct!
if u attack my papa house, I'll retaliate but if you are peace loving,I will embrace you
Posted: at 23-09-2012 12:15 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
neloceleb at 23-09-2012 12:52 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Poster,u sound fraustrated..its lyk ur girl has bin constantly askin u for money..n uv nt bn able to meet her needs...anywys,dts ur funeral..lyk wu cares?
Posted: at 23-09-2012 12:52 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
FlyMamacita at 23-09-2012 02:33 PM (12 years ago) (f)
See one tin i still no undastand is, why shud a gal b even thinkin abt askin ur bf for money?
U dnt hav a job? U dnt hav a father ? And wot is d difference between askin moni with pride?? lol Ashawo wey wear D&G na still ashawo oooo
A man shudn tink u can buy love, its like respect if u dnt giv it out u will not get it ! And for d gals abeg stop talkin rubbish like 'i give him sex, so i want money'
U ENJOY THAT SEX AS WELL, SO STOP PRETENDING !
Posted: at 23-09-2012 02:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Sophyrocks at 23-09-2012 03:00 PM (12 years ago) (f)
But d fin is, if u rily dnt wanna spend on any girl, den dnt have a gf. SIMPLE!! Stay away frm girls until ure ready to get married. cos i dnt see dis post doin or solvin d issue. Girls will alwys be girls as men will continue to remain men so Y d frustration??? Dnt have a gfrnd den.
Life is damn too short to be sitting around miserable.
Posted: at 23-09-2012 03:00 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
teesparks at 23-09-2012 03:12 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Keeping a relationship is quite expensive, if u can't afford one why go into it.. As a matter of fact, responsible nd well to do guys ain't comfotable if their gfs don't ask them for stuffs. It's only frustrated broke dudes like this poster that carry this kinda mentality u just put into writing.. Gosh!!! Where did ur ego nd sense of responsiblity as a man go to??
ℓ̊ hurt but never cry
Posted: at 23-09-2012 03:12 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Keeping a relationship is quite expensive, if u can't afford one why go into it.. As a matter of fact, responsible nd well to do guys ain't comfotable if their gfs don't ask them for stuffs. It's only frustrated broke dudes like this poster that carry this kinda mentality u just put into writing.. Gosh!!! Where did ur ego nd sense of responsiblity as a man go to??
Its only in Africa because of poverty. Have a relationship with a western girl and you'll see what I mean
Posted: at 23-09-2012 03:15 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
i see no diff b/w Nig girls living in Nigerian and prostitutes . u guys should stop spoiling them with money give yr money to orphant , widows God will bless u more
Posted: at 23-09-2012 03:40 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming