Women who retain their father's name after marriage. (Page 6)

if d husband approves, wats d big deal..........but logicaly, women are not supposed to retain her fada's name its wrong...see ACt21 marriage contract

Posted: at 2-05-2009 12:58 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

well thanks sandie

Posted: at 2-05-2009 01:28 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

hey guys ! there's argument about that. the lady just has to take the man's name once they are married.

Posted: at 2-05-2009 05:07 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

nothing wrong with that.

Posted: at 2-05-2009 03:14 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well i feel them cuz to me.... my last name shows d pride my father has in me. It shows that who ever I become in life, is due to him and not my husband.....

If I am successful in life, why shouldn't my dad take glory for part of that success? Why is my husband taking credit for something he did not do?

A woman grows up all her life with her given name. She establishes a work history with her given name. She also has business acquaintances and friends that know who she is by her given name. why should she bury everything just bcuz she wanna marry d man she loves

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i just dey read all ur comments since, na law u dey read abi u just like the topic.. shuooo take am easy lol i like the way u reason but make sure u answer my name

Posted: at 3-05-2009 09:22 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Well, this is Nigeria where we have our own culture and belief and our tradition demands that a woman to drop her maiden name for his husband name. And even the bible confirm this when it stated that a man and woman will leave their parents and stick to each other. Also that a woman must obey, respect and ultimately summit to his husban while the husband must love his wife dearly in return. So its normal for a woman to bear his husband name. That is what God commands.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 11:08 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

hmmm

Posted: at 4-05-2009 02:22 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

there nth wrong with that.
marriage is not about the name.
she can keep her maiden name pr change it.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 06:15 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

loco motive 

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Posted: at 5-05-2009 09:58 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well this part of d world we grew up to understand  dat u must bear ur husband name nd that is our way of life nd changin it wil b difficult.

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Posted: at 6-05-2009 10:21 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming