ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? (Page 3)

bcos husband is always the head

Posted: at 8-03-2013 11:14 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

this days the women are the neck, men are the head...just bcos the neck is beneath doen't mean it submissive, the neck turn the head in any direction in want, to me that not submission....

Posted: at 8-03-2013 12:03 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

PERSONAL RESPONSE TO SOCIAL ISSUES ON PEPPER
Submission to the husband is not a choice, rather it is an instruction from God to all Godly women "Christian Woman". The fulfillment of marriage life depends on how much a wife obeys God's instruction by submitting absolutely to her husband. The institution of marriage comes from God, and He alone has the solution, therefore if we His people really want to enjoy marriage, submission is a condition for a fulfilled marriage life.

Let me add that submission is not a sign of weakness on the part of the wife, rather it is strength in a woman who posses this rear quality. It is actually gracesious and loveable for wives to naturally submit themselves to their husbands in obedient to God's instruction. Such wives enjoys the bliss of marriage, they are also covered with the glory of God and they never lack the love of their husband especially when they keep the spirit of submission without condition. They also enjoy the fellowship and love of others. It is a great honor for wives to submit to their own husband, because in so doing they win the love of their husband and that of their children including in-laws e.t.c.
Today, It appears that this virtue is rear amongst wives, even christian wives. But the truth remains that submission is a must according to the scriptures for every woman who desire to enjoy a fulfilled marriage life in this world and the husband most love the wife unconditionally.

Posted: at 8-03-2013 12:12 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Man, by the fact that he was first created; that the woman was taken from him; that he is better qualified for ruling than she is, is evidently designed to be at the head of the little community that constitutes a family. In many other things, woman may be his equal; in loveliness, and grace, and beauty, and tenderness, and gentleness, she is far his superior; but these are not the qualities adapted for government. Their place is in another sphere; and there, man should be as cautious about invading her prerogative, or abridging her liberty, as "she" should be about invading the prerogative that belongs to him. In every family there should be a head - someone who is to be looked up to as the counselor and the ruler; someone to whom all should be subordinate. God has given that prerogative to man; and no family prospers where that arrangement is violated. Within proper metes and limits, therefore, it is the duty of the wife to obey, or to submit herself to her husband.
1. In domestic arrangements, the husband is to be regarded as the head of the family; and he has a right to direct as to the style of living, the expenses of the family, the clothing, etc.
2. In regard to the laws which are to regulate the family, he is the head. It is his to say what is to be done; in what way the children are to employ themselves, and to give directions in regard to their education, etc.
3. In business matters, the wife is to submit to the husband. She may counsel with him, if he chooses; but the affairs of business and property are under his control, and must be left at his disposal.

back to ur Qweshun...Submission is not weakness... but most tyms some men need some kain woman wey go dey kakaraka for ground for dem.. wey if dem say SIT here.. dem go SIDAN   .. SHUT UP dem go close mouth..   Oya GO MARKET go grind this pepper, buy meat, crayfish and okazi.. dem go run go, even enter keke sef, so that madam no go hallah dem  

For more Informate---- Read: Prov 31:10-31..

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Posted: at 8-03-2013 01:02 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

In what sense naa. I just don't get it. Man and woman don't share equal right in the house just as Christ is the HEAD OF THE CHURCH so is MAN THE HEAD IN THE FAMILY. the man and woman sharing equal rights is the reason most of our ladies are still single. In my local church there is this lady that had about 10 suitors, this men went to the pastor for her but in the same church you have sisters that don't even have a single suitor.

Posted: at 8-03-2013 01:20 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

Nice comments, lemme get back to u guys later

Posted: at 8-03-2013 02:46 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Submiting to a humble man is easy. What is not easy is submitting to an arrogant man who treats you like a slave.

Posted: at 8-03-2013 03:36 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

eziokwu bu ndu

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Posted: at 8-03-2013 03:52 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

Posted: at 8-03-2013 03:54 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

Am not suprised 

Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:26 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero