ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? (Page 8)

Date: 07-03-2013 7:19 pm (8 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- sirenoch at 11-03-2013 06:38 AM (8 years ago)
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Wink

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- dickman2 at 11-03-2013 05:24 PM (8 years ago)
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- sirenoch at 11-03-2013 09:11 PM (8 years ago)
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Grin:;P

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- kennynaija at 12-03-2013 06:59 PM (8 years ago)
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Why won't her submit herself to me, though it is a pride but as a will of God!

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- sirenoch at 13-03-2013 06:28 AM (8 years ago)
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- FlyMamacita at 13-03-2013 01:23 PM (8 years ago)
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- sirenoch at 13-03-2013 04:56 PM (8 years ago)
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It is written

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- jimroc at 15-03-2013 01:45 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: dabattleaxe on  8-03-2013 12:59 PM
I score you 10/10. You are a mother and a wife, it'll take a great mind to understand this. Well spoken.
 Men s thoughts and women s thoughts are not the same {just as their body isnt either} and so, their personal creations and self experiences also differs, just as the natural duties assigned to them. so their views about love often differs too. The purpose of creations and of life is all about growth and perfecting the truths of our being {spirit} and self realization, and eventually becoming perfect just like God is. This is what marriage is in too.
   Women s love and submission to a man depends on the feelings they have for him, which are often based on illusions and lies {because they often live in a dream world} and so, when certain conditions were not met from their own view, which often not possible, {and depending on the woman, after playing some mind games on him without realizing its consequence etc} then submission in terms of Gods words or that of man became a mystery. Men s view of love depends on how lovely and beautiful she is to him or her sexual looks, how respectful, exciting, understanding especially at his lowest times, and how graceful she is to complement his ego, etc and so, when these qualities were not there {depending on the man}, he might be unfaithful and not truly love
   We have to add and practice the virtue of unconditional love too, especially in marriages, {which is the only true love anyway} and reduce our overdependent on perceptions but to a person s true being {spirit}. we must learn to unlearn certain natural errors and differences, our belief systems, mindsets, etc in us {through awareness} to pave the way for an eventual growth {truth} and reducing pains and suffering {ignorance}
   There is no greater minds other than the one we have within us already and so, the great minds you talking about here is our inability to understand clearly other peoples thinking patterns and their world and of which are often not necessary if we are really on the right part to our own personal growth and development.
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- jimroc at 15-03-2013 01:48 PM (8 years ago)
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    I am not saying that a woman should submit or not submit to a man but, as we have different qualities depending on our nature, and the need for growth, it is wise to always act from the truth of our being and but, observe the natural laws and roles assigned to us by God. A man submitting to a woman is an absolute error because it is not in our nature.
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- FlyMamacita at 15-03-2013 08:11 PM (8 years ago)
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Agreed
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- jimroc at 15-03-2013 09:10 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-03-2013 08:11 PM
Agreed
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- FlyMamacita at 16-03-2013 11:39 AM (8 years ago)
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- giftmurphy at 16-03-2013 09:10 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: worlor2008 on  7-03-2013 07:41 PM
t isn't a bad thing. It's bad when the man abuses that trust and treats his wife like a doormat. But submission in and of itself is not wrong. Nor does submitting indicate that a woman is mindless or timid or a doormat. And it also doesn't mean that her man is a controlling lout.

I try to be a submissive wife to my husband, as per the teachings in the Bible (we are Christians). But I picked a good man, and we agree on just about everything so there is not that much need for submission in our day to day life. We make a pretty good team and we do things together. And when we disagree he *always* talks to me and hears me out before we make a decision.
i totally agree with you  Cool Cool Cool however. some men believes when u r submissive you shouldn't bring any opinion meaning Ur opinion is useless,only theirs count you bringing an idea shows u r not submissive...
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- sirenoch at 17-03-2013 12:09 AM (8 years ago)
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- sirenoch at 20-03-2013 07:26 AM (8 years ago)
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- abati666 at 22-03-2013 12:45 PM (8 years ago)
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PEOPLE LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS.......ITS OK.....NO ONE IS JUDGING YOUR FLAVOUR..
SOMETIMES YOU FEEL LIKE A NUT, SOMETIMES YOU DON`T.
BUT KEEP GOD OUT OF IT.
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- Ibhamen at 22-03-2013 09:02 PM (8 years ago)
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Both parties need to be submissive to each other and work together just as the neck is supporting the head because 2 captains cannot be in a ship, or the boat would rock and hit a rock.
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- sirenoch at 24-03-2013 05:05 PM (8 years ago)
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