ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? (Page 4)

Date: 07-03-2013 7:19 pm (8 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:28 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: tanglefree on  8-03-2013 08:45 AM
It takes the grace of God to submit to a husband that is a bully and a womanizer.And no man is willing to love a wife that is unfaithful and rude.

What you give is what you get.Give trouble get trouble give Love get Love.

True talk..
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:28 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:29 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Tyahaya on  8-03-2013 10:07 AM
I like it when a woman is wise,cos only the wise know they don't need to be in the spotlight to control how things work out,just like drama,the real genius is always behind the scene,but even a fool can act.

Yes oh
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:29 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:31 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: naturalqueen on  8-03-2013 10:44 AM
Women have been biblically instructed to be submissive. Doing this is obeying God. So it is not weakness.
The same bible also told men to love their wife. You see, submission (on the part of the woman) & Love (on the part of the man) go hand in hand.
When this is done, u find out that the two live as a team in the marriage.
A man who loves his wife cannot abuse her or take advantage of her ability to submit. A woman who truly loves her husband will naturally respect and submit to him. When u see a woman talking to her husband anyhow, then look deeply, she is not totally in love with him. She is holding something back.
This is why, when u see a woman who looks hard when dealing with people, and u look beside her and see how quiet and composed she is in the company of her husband, u wonder why? It is because of love. Sometimes you see a smallish man controlling a giant woman who acts like Margaret Thatcher. Love softens our heart towards who we love.

U try, well said
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:31 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:32 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: chicanorose on  8-03-2013 11:57 AM
being submissive is very good, but to some extent

Where do we draw d line, wot is d limit?
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:32 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:33 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: crusifixo on  8-03-2013 12:03 PM
this days the women are the neck, men are the head...just bcos the neck is beneath doen't mean it submissive, the neck turn the head in any direction in want, to me that not submission.... Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry

E no reach to vex oh, put smile on ur face  Cool
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:33 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:36 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-03-2013 01:02 PM
Man, by the fact that he was first created; that the woman was taken from him; that he is better qualified for ruling than she is, is evidently designed to be at the head of the little community that constitutes a family. In many other things, woman may be his equal; in loveliness, and grace, and beauty, and tenderness, and gentleness, she is far his superior; but these are not the qualities adapted for government. Their place is in another sphere; and there, man should be as cautious about invading her prerogative, or abridging her liberty, as "she" should be about invading the prerogative that belongs to him. In every family there should be a head - someone who is to be looked up to as the counselor and the ruler; someone to whom all should be subordinate. God has given that prerogative to man; and no family prospers where that arrangement is violated. Within proper metes and limits, therefore, it is the duty of the wife to obey, or to submit herself to her husband.
1. In domestic arrangements, the husband is to be regarded as the head of the family; and he has a right to direct as to the style of living, the expenses of the family, the clothing, etc.
2. In regard to the laws which are to regulate the family, he is the head. It is his to say what is to be done; in what way the children are to employ themselves, and to give directions in regard to their education, etc.
3. In business matters, the wife is to submit to the husband. She may counsel with him, if he chooses; but the affairs of business and property are under his control, and must be left at his disposal.

back to ur Qweshun...Submission is not weakness... but most tyms some men need some kain woman wey go dey kakaraka for ground for dem.. wey if dem say SIT here.. dem go SIDAN  Grin .. SHUT UP dem go close mouth..  Grin Grin Grin Oya GO MARKET go grind this pepper, buy meat, crayfish and okazi.. dem go run go, even enter keke sef, so that madam no go hallah dem  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

For more Informate---- Read: Prov 31:10-31..

Thx babes, u try no b small..but wot of marriage where u see the woman
Wear the pants...is there anytin wrong wit d man, or u tink it can also work out like dat?
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:36 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:40 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: dabattleaxe on  8-03-2013 01:12 PM
If I don't love you, don't think I would've married u in the first instance but most women are so pretentious, just for them to get in and eventually turn to tiger. Like someone said submission is earned, it's not true 'cos I can't find that in the bible. It says WIFE SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND it didn't say MAN LOVE YOUR WIFE FIRST but here is the clincher the man first loved the woman and that is why they got  married in the first instance.

Marriage is not always a sign of love, many times the man will still cheat, somtimes
Beat the wife, and she will stay bcos she is submissive.
Lots of men still hav to learn how to show love and care for a woman, words dont
Have a meaning if u cant back them up by action.
Most men expect their wives to be submissive no matter the
Kind of attitude he gives the woman.
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:40 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:42 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: chetznomso on  8-03-2013 01:53 PM
Eph 5:22 and verse 25

22. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
KJV


25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
KJV


The above bible passages are commandments to wives and husbands.
Even though the commandment to the wives precedes that of the husbands in the bible, it does not necessarily mean the wives have to submit first before the husbands will love.
The conflict in opinion is usually because the wives would rather read the letter written to the husbands in verse 25 than read the letter written to the wives in verse 22 and the husbands would  rather read the letter written to the wives in verse 22 than read the letter written to the husbands in verse 25.
If  the wives and the husbands would read the commandment written to each of them specifically, and practice it not minding what was written to the other person,the problem of SUBMISSION & LOVE will not arise.
So I say to both wives and husband "DON'T READ YOUR PARTNER'S LETTER, READ YOUR OWN"

Nice one
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:42 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sirenoch at 8-03-2013 04:45 PM (8 years ago)
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More comment pls!

Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:45 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- webrose at 8-03-2013 05:11 PM (8 years ago)
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hmm
Posted: at 8-03-2013 05:11 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sirenoch at 8-03-2013 06:22 PM (8 years ago)
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Ok u are coming up

Posted: at 8-03-2013 06:22 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Biafranwar at 8-03-2013 06:35 PM (8 years ago)
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Bcos man can marry 4 as their law required haha but woman can only have one husband
Posted: at 8-03-2013 06:35 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 06:37 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Biafranwar on  8-03-2013 06:35 PM
Bcos man can marry 4 as their law required haha but woman can only have one husband

 Huh?
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- dickman2 at 8-03-2013 07:18 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Biafranwar on  8-03-2013 06:35 PM
Bcos man can marry 4 as their law required haha but woman can only have one husband
but why..
Posted: at 8-03-2013 07:18 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Senegal at 8-03-2013 07:22 PM (8 years ago)
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SURE
Posted: at 8-03-2013 07:22 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- sirenoch at 8-03-2013 07:24 PM (8 years ago)
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Na so bible talk am

Posted: at 8-03-2013 07:24 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dabattleaxe at 8-03-2013 07:30 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  8-03-2013 04:40 PM
Marriage is not always a sign of love, many times the man will still cheat, somtimes
Beat the wife, and she will stay bcos she is submissive.
Lots of men still hav to learn how to show love and care for a woman, words dont
Have a meaning if u cant back them up by action.
Most men expect their wives to be submissive no matter the
Kind of attitude he gives the woman.

True that so many may marry for so many reasons. Now check this I have an IT firm and a friend wants us to partner, he brought his ideas to the table and I in turn bought it hook and sinker but here's the deal, am still the CEO and he is a director 'cos there just has to be a leader. That does not mean I totally own the Firm but the majority of shares belongs to me. Now lets take it back to homestead, the bible says two shall become one but someone just has to lead. I don't subscribe to battery or domestic violence but submission is key in marriage and I asked u what u mean by "Can a man be submissive to a woman?" most men submit to their wives in so many ways without knowing it. In a not shell submission is honoring your husband (RESPECT). Christ first loved the church, so when the bible says love your wife it meant you should love her first and I believe in a normal setting you did and that's why you married her.  
Posted: at 8-03-2013 07:30 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chicco77 at 8-03-2013 07:32 PM (8 years ago)
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 07:47 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: dabattleaxe on  8-03-2013 07:30 PM
True that so many may marry for so many reasons. Now check this I have an IT firm and a friend wants us to partner, he brought his ideas to the table and I in turn bought it hook and sinker but here's the deal, am still the CEO and he is a director 'cos there just has to be a leader. That does not mean I totally own the Firm but the majority of shares belongs to me. Now lets take it back to homestead, the bible says two shall become one but someone just has to lead. I don't subscribe to battery or domestic violence but submission is key in marriage and I asked u what u mean by "Can a man be submissive to a woman?" most men submit to their wives in so many ways without knowing it. In a not shell submission is honoring your husband (RESPECT). Christ first loved the church, so when the bible says love your wife it meant you should love her first and I believe in a normal setting you did and that's why you married her.  

I asked the person who commented "both man nd woman shud be submissive"
I wonder if a man (African man) can do that  Huh?
As for me, it wud be a BIG turn OFF when a man is totally
Submissive to his wife, i respect men who stand their ground
But the respect towards women must be there...
Posted: at 8-03-2013 07:47 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tyabo at 8-03-2013 07:56 PM (8 years ago)
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honestly frm my own perspective a submissive woman always av dere way wit dere husband. MAN as a being is very egoistic nd trampling on dat ego bring's in d P. a woman dat always listen n do wot r husband ask of her will av d gesture reciprocated. i dnt rili dig d issue of man nd woman avn dsame equal right i totally disagree wit dat.

Posted: at 8-03-2013 07:56 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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