ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband?

Date: 07-03-2013 7:19 pm (8 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- at 7-03-2013 07:19 PM (8 years ago)
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Is submission weakness?

As a man, do u want a submissive wife or a doormat?



As a woman, do u believe being submissive to ur husband is positive for ur marriage? And does it also include doing things u are really against?

As a man, do u prefer a submissive woman, or sombody who can stand her ground?

Oya lets go there

Posted: at 7-03-2013 07:19 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- worlor2008 at 7-03-2013 07:41 PM (8 years ago)
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t isn't a bad thing. It's bad when the man abuses that trust and treats his wife like a doormat. But submission in and of itself is not wrong. Nor does submitting indicate that a woman is mindless or timid or a doormat. And it also doesn't mean that her man is a controlling lout.

I try to be a submissive wife to my husband, as per the teachings in the Bible (we are Christians). But I picked a good man, and we agree on just about everything so there is not that much need for submission in our day to day life. We make a pretty good team and we do things together. And when we disagree he *always* talks to me and hears me out before we make a decision.
Posted: at 7-03-2013 07:41 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- sirenoch at 7-03-2013 07:48 PM (8 years ago)
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2nd to comment

Posted: at 7-03-2013 07:48 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sirenoch at 7-03-2013 07:48 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sirenoch on  7-03-2013 07:48 PM
2nd to comment

Posted: at 7-03-2013 07:48 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 7-03-2013 07:53 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: worlor2008 on  7-03-2013 07:41 PM
t isn't a bad thing. It's bad when the man abuses that trust and treats his wife like a doormat. But submission in and of itself is not wrong. Nor does submitting indicate that a woman is mindless or timid or a doormat. And it also doesn't mean that her man is a controlling lout.

I try to be a submissive wife to my husband, as per the teachings in the Bible (we are Christians). But I picked a good man, and we agree on just about everything so there is not that much need for submission in our day to day life. We make a pretty good team and we do things together. And when we disagree he *always* talks to me and hears me out before we make a decision.

Like dat it sound like u found balance in ur marriagr wich is gud
Posted: at 7-03-2013 07:53 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 7-03-2013 07:54 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sirenoch on  7-03-2013 07:48 PM
2nd to comment

i see  Huh?
Posted: at 7-03-2013 07:54 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osamabinladin at 7-03-2013 08:21 PM (8 years ago)
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Submissive will be ideal
Posted: at 7-03-2013 08:21 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- ezchusa at 7-03-2013 09:30 PM (8 years ago)
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Some women are even willing to become the 7th wife so if you dont submit, you get your ass kicked out. Hehehehe

Posted: at 7-03-2013 09:30 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- micc at 7-03-2013 10:05 PM (8 years ago)
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No problem
Posted: at 7-03-2013 10:05 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- morgrawl231 at 7-03-2013 10:07 PM (8 years ago)
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when one is Submissive,,,it keeps d relationship going smoothly....
Posted: at 7-03-2013 10:07 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- gbojac at 7-03-2013 10:31 PM (8 years ago)
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Women need to be submissive, just check the stuff they do: Wear high heel shoes even if it hurts or it can make them fall and break a leg, wear make-up just because they want to or other girl wear 'em (no man ever said he won't chase women without make-up), wear knickers to go swimming, even G-string they wear 'em for swimming and it change name to become swimwear instead of underwear. SO, Do you think such people can be let loose like chicken without head. I'm not sexist but, I want our sisters and mothers to behave, Men have issues too, For instance, if a woman come to a party totally unclad, no man  will go after her, in fact, they will even chase her away calling her witch, sorcerer, If that same woman wear mini-skirt, men will fight to take her to bed, they are even ready to spend money just to see her panties, and they will say nice things such as: sweetheart, beautiful girl, baby girl etc...
Why ?            

Posted: at 7-03-2013 10:31 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dabattleaxe at 7-03-2013 10:40 PM (8 years ago)
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The problem with some of us sometimes is that we read the bible upside down. The bible says "Woman submit to your husband" and to the man it say " Love your wife as Christ loved his church". My deaconess stood up in church at a particular service during a  Q&A session and said "once you sign the dotted lines it gives you an equal right in your home". Marriage is legal but let's don't forget it's spiritual and scriptural angle too. If as a woman you crave for a man's LOVE then it's a must that u must be submissive. Sarah called Abraham Lord.
Posted: at 7-03-2013 10:40 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- PidginMOUTH at 7-03-2013 10:46 PM (8 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 7-03-2013 10:46 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- paulohking at 7-03-2013 11:01 PM (8 years ago)
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Mine is submissive but too obstinate Angry
Posted: at 7-03-2013 11:01 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dabattleaxe at 7-03-2013 11:06 PM (8 years ago)
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Love my wife I must but a woman that gets her way with her man must find a way of getting him do her wish, some use sex as a tool, for some it's food while for the virtuous woman it's submission. No real man will allow a woman Lord it over him 'cos men are natural leaders. God made it so from the beginning n watch homes that women are in charge. Not saying a woman should be treated as a doormat, sometime as couples issues has to be brought to the table n sometimes a vote has to decide a decision. The man in some cases has to put his foot down n take a decision. There also comes a time when a man should say "honey what do u think we do". EVERYONE should have a sense of belonging, even the children has to take decisions too but there comes a time u decide for them. In a nut shell submission is a must for every woman.
Posted: at 7-03-2013 11:06 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dabattleaxe at 7-03-2013 11:09 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: paulohking on  7-03-2013 11:01 PM
Mine is submissive but too obstinate Angry

My brother women are complicated, sometimes u just let them be especially when they start throwing tantrums.
Posted: at 7-03-2013 11:09 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- orjiwolo at 8-03-2013 03:10 AM (8 years ago)
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if you love a man enough to marry him you should then trust his sense of judgement and submit to him... and btw submission doesn't signify weakness but is in fact a source of strength for the woman
Posted: at 8-03-2013 03:10 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sonerow at 8-03-2013 05:03 AM (8 years ago)
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even the bible says women should listing and be submissive and if u say the bible is wrong then you are on your own peace of marriage will never be your portion
Posted: at 8-03-2013 05:03 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- donhenry4uall at 8-03-2013 05:46 AM (8 years ago)
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Submitting to a man is Biblical and so it is very essential, but its a crazy thing what we men called submission. For me the basis of relationship is gender equity as there is no man nor woman. We are one united body working as one acknowledging each other and stepping up to the each others responsibility perfectly at the absence of the other. That is what i know its all about, although i believe that a man should love his wife as the foundation for the submission to come, because once you are a correct man by the scriptural definition of it, your woman has no choice that to submit, the law of attraction will just manifest as it does always, please note that its only AN ARROGANT  MAN THAT OVER STRESSES THE ISSUE OF A WOMAN SUBMITTING TO HIM, A GENTLE MAN ALWAYS GETS IT AS A RECIPROCATION OF HIS QUALITIES BY THE GRACE OF GOD
Posted: at 8-03-2013 05:46 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- Passionguru at 8-03-2013 06:02 AM (8 years ago)
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hmm terible
Posted: at 8-03-2013 06:02 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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