A girl I know dated a guy for 15 good years. This dude an Ibo guy paid her school fees, took care of all her needs financially and she finally lands her fellow Yoruba guy only for her to tell the dude she will not marry him. At this point the guy's family had started the marriage proceedings. My take on this matter is both are guilty, dating is a risk and mocking marriage by living together is even a greater risk. WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET. No one can abolish Osu cast system in Igbo land, and every Igbo person knows this. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 11:16 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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How can u live and have s3x with a lady for five yrs.. and refuse to marry her cos shes an osu... damn.. thats mean na
Sophie I hate it so very much when you girls go on like this, the dude kidnap her, was she held at gun point, why will it take her 5 yrs living together b4 they'll decide to get married and since you don't know what Osu Cast system is, I'll tell. In about 300 Ad or there about pple had slaves dedicated to idols and they are refereed to as Osu or outcast. An Osu cannot marry a son or daughter of the soil. This practice is passed on from generation to generation and it's a practice I sincerely think can be abolished in Igbo land. Though some go against all odds and marry but you and your entire generation down the line will be ostracized. What it means is that your children will not marry a son or daughter of the soil. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 11:35 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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na wa oo...are u guys saying because one person attend Olabisi Onabanjo University (OSU) means that they can not marry? coz i dont understand ooo. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 11:51 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 12:00 PM (11 years ago)  (f) This is where I have problem with you women.You slept with me and dumped me.You made love to me and dumped me.I gave you my body and soul for 5 years and now you call off the marriage.What nonsense.He didn,t molestation you.You both had sex,made love on a mutual consent.This is no molestation.I don,t know the kind of sex style you engage in but whatever it is the man gets more tired than the woman.About segxwal satisfaction it must be 50-50 because in most cases it is the woman who is found yelling and screeming like a cat.WE CALL THAT YELLING AND SCREEMING OF JOY HAHAHAHHHAHAA.So my point is,at the end of the day why do woman claim ,,,,,,,you made love to me and now you,ve dumped me.But we both made love to each other.We both enjoyed so no cheating here.You should better find tangible excuses to base your claim on because sex is a mutual and 50-50 enjoyable exercise.Wanna hear some more,well my email address [email protected]hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-03-2013 12:00 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 12:01 PM (11 years ago) (f) A girl I know dated a guy for 15 good years. This dude an Ibo guy paid her school fees, took care of all her needs financially and she finally lands her fellow Yoruba guy only for her to tell the dude she will not marry him. At this point the guy's family had started the marriage proceedings. My take on this matter is both are guilty, dating is a risk and mocking marriage by living together is even a greater risk. WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET. No one can abolish Osu cast system in Igbo land, and every Igbo person knows this.
15yrs? wetin them they wait for? na wa oooo
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-03-2013 12:01 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 12:04 PM (11 years ago) (f) na wa oo...are u guys saying because one person attend Olabisi Onabanjo University (OSU) means that they can not marry? coz i dont understand ooo.
lol
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-03-2013 12:04 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "nwogaraku") nwogaraku at 13-03-2013 12:06 PM (11 years ago) (m) OSU!!!......Change!,Change!,Change!, if you believe in Change?, let's work so devotedly torwards it!. Change cannot come unless we the Igbos and other tribes as well devotes, sacrifice and contributes emensely torwards Change!. Nigerias!, Africans!...It's SILLY that most of us chosen to applies the important rules of CHANGE into our society only in some FASHION & BEAUTY related issues, LUXURRY things, NAMES, FOODS, SOUNDS & MUSICS etc. while most of us forgot that the most important CHANGE needed in our society today is to CHANGE our ugly behavior torward ourselves and our envirounments!. ''Let LOVE ourselves!, let's show respect to ourselves and our envirounment!, let's be our brothers keeper!, let's come together and ABOLISH those boundaries between us which was formed by our fathers, our grand fathers & great grand fathers, our religeous leaders or even by ourselves!, let's turns HATE to LOVE so that our nation and our society shall move forward prosperously into a modern nation riched in HAPPY, LOVELY and PROSPEROUS people!!!. ....We re the children of the nation!...let's say NO to HATE so we can move forward!!!. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 12:06 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "4REEAL") 4REEAL at 13-03-2013 12:12 PM (11 years ago) (m) A NEW WEL N D ONE D COMMUNITY BEEIN USING ,D EDGES CAN NEVA B DESAME,some MEN ARE LIKE elephant""WHERE EVA DEY STEP ON grass,,GRASS WLD NEVA GROW BACK THERE AGAIN,no body wants to go market ,go buy meat wey flies n maggot dey inside,,,TEST DRIVIN A CAR FOR 5YRS N BRINGIN BACK TO D SELLER DAT U DONT WANT AGAIN,  ,na wahala u dey find n wahala u go get,,,""""FRM D EYE OF A WOMAN- bcuz my mamma na wman oooo...  | Posted: at 13-03-2013 12:12 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 12:15 PM (11 years ago) (f) OSU!!!......Change!,Change!,Change!, if you believe in Change?, let's work so devotedly torwards it!. Change cannot come unless we the Igbos and other tribes as well devotes, sacrifice and contributes emensely torwards Change!. Nigerias!, Africans!...It's SILLY that most of us chosen to applies the important rules of CHANGE into our society only in some FASHION & BEAUTY related issues, LUXURRY things, NAMES, FOODS, SOUNDS & MUSICS etc. while most of us forgot that the most important CHANGE needed in our society today is to CHANGE our ugly behavior torward ourselves and our envirounments!. ''Let LOVE ourselves!, let's show respect to ourselves and our envirounment!, let's be our brothers keeper!, let's come together and ABOLISH those boundaries between us which was formed by our fathers, our grand fathers & great grand fathers, our religeous leaders or even by ourselves!, let's turns HATE to LOVE so that our nation and our society shall move forward prosperously into a modern nation riched in HAPPY, LOVELY and PROSPEROUS people!!!. ....We re the children of the nation!...let's say NO to HATE so we can move forward!!!.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm believe me if you campaign for 2015 u go win.. well, nyc one
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-03-2013 12:15 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kelvinty") kelvinty at 13-03-2013 12:21 PM (11 years ago) (m) passing | Posted: at 13-03-2013 12:21 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "ela214") ela214 at 13-03-2013 01:14 PM (11 years ago) (f) even if i were... i wouldnt be living with such,.. i wont even abide by the so called custom.. Christ has given us power to overcome
sophie no be 4 mouth,if u decide to ignore it u stand a chance of losing ur parents brother n sisters(which is difficult) and OSU has to do with what thier ancestors did that is now hunting thier decendants------i have an uncle who married and osu thier house is not in our compound and his children automatically became OSU----the daugther fixed her traditional marriage i don already ready to do ashebi but on the said day of the marriage-----we no know who go tell the husband-to-be,the guy send message say them n dey cum again-------our youth now dosen´t care about it but,the system is too deep rooted to deal with. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 01:14 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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IF THE GUY WAS A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN , HE WOULDN'T HAVE COMMITTED FORNICTION WITH HER AT ALL, LET ALONE DOING SO FOR FIVE GOOD YEARS. I MLALSO BLAME THE GIRL SHE SHOULD HAVE KEPT HER VIRGINITY INTACT, AND BEOME A BORN AGAIN CHILD OF GOD. ANY IT IS NOT TOO LATE . EVEN NOW IF SHE REPENTS GOD WILL FORGIVE HER AND GIVE HER HER RIGHT FULL HUSBAND.BECAUSE IN CHRIST JESUS THERE IS NO DISCRIMINATION GAL.3:28. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:04 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Hmmm | Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:22 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kingoflion") Kingoflion at 13-03-2013 02:36 PM (11 years ago) (m) THE POSTER OF THIS ARTICLE TOOK SIDE OF THE GIRL. ACCORDING THE DICTATES OF YOUR EXPLANATION HERE, IT IS OBVIOUS THAT YOU TOOK SIDE OF THE GIRL IF YOU ARE NOT THE REAL GIRL IN QUESTION. MEANWHILE, THE GIRL IN QUESTION IS A LITTLE BRAIN HUMAN BEING. IF THE GIRL AND THE BOY IS FROM THE SAME LOCAL GOVERNMENT ACCORDING TO YOUR WORDS, IT IS OBVIOUS THAT SHE KNOWS THE CULTURE OF THEIR LAND THAT THEY WERE NOT MADE TO BE. THE BOY IN QUESTION IS ONLY ENJOYING SEX WITH THE LADY IN QUESTION SINCE THE LADY DID NOT WANT TO USE HER BRAIN. DID YOU ASK THE GIRL IF THEY DISCUSSED MARRIAGE IN THE FIRST PLACE? THE ANSWER MUST BE NO. SO THAT GIRL SHOULD KNOW THAT THIS HOUR IS HER MORNING TO WAKE UP AND LOOK FOR CLASS OF HUMAN BEING. IF YOU ARE FROM IGBOLAND AND YOU SAID THAT THIS MODERN AGE HAVE WIPED OUT OSU, IT WILL BE WISE THAT YOU WILL BE THE FIRST TO MARRY OSU TO GIVE EXAMPLE TO OTHERS. SO, BABE GIRL, YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT YOU WERE JUST A BEDMATE TO THE GUY AND NOTHING MORE. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND KNOW THAT TIME WAITES FOR NOBODY. LOOK FOR YOUR MAN LOL. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:36 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "udomafire") udomafire at 13-03-2013 02:47 PM (11 years ago) (m) How can you involve yourself with someone who is not from your lineage? Why would you hide your identity since there is nothing wrong with it? Even if you told him at the early stage, don’t you know at the end of the day you will still go to your lineage? You said ''She gave him all she had, plus her whole love'', when it comes to that aspect, what on earth do you think a woman have that can give a man that will make him marry someone from another lineage? Even in the bible, the made it specifically clear there that everybody should go through his/her lineage. Why would you expect the man to go ahead and marry her? If she can take her time, a man from her lineage (OSU) will still come and ask her hand in marriage one day so that they (both) can make a good home. In fact, to me that woman is a very wicked person in life because i believe she must have caused that young man one way or the other a miserable or hardship situation throughout this 5 years because she is not from his lineage. I did not say she is not a human being, no far from that, but you must accept the fact that Igbo land has a culture and tradition, so we should observe those issues when it comes to marriage. To be frank, that lady should count herself very lucky because to me i believe the Man's ancestral God’s will not allow or accept the woman to last in that family even if she succeeded in marrying the man without the guy’s knowledge about her lineage. So she should consider herself very lucky to have been separated earlier. Then, if she succeeded in putting the guy through hardship all these while without the guy knowing she was the cause, and the guy finally discovered and left her in a good condition without even humiliating her or disgracing her, she should consider herself been hunted by the guy’s ancestral Gods. Do you know why, because she knows the truth but she never said it and finally she went home with what they guy has acquired in life in the name of been smart. I bet you, she might not find it easy in her life with such smartness. Everybody should follow his/her lineage to avoid involving yourself into a terrible situation you might not find a way out tomorrow. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:47 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 02:47 PM (11 years ago) (f) sophie no be 4 mouth,if u decide to ignore it u stand a chance of losing ur parents brother n sisters(which is difficult)
and OSU has to do with what thier ancestors did that is now hunting thier decendants------i have an uncle who married and osu thier house is not in our compound and his children automatically became OSU----the daugther fixed her traditional marriage i don already ready to do ashebi but on the said day of the marriage-----we no know who go tell the husband-to-be,the guy send message say them n dey cum again-------our youth now dosen´t care about it but,the system is too deep rooted to deal with.
Hmmm is it dat bad?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:47 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 02:50 PM (11 years ago) (f) How can you involve yourself with someone who is not from your lineage? Why would you hide your identity since there is nothing wrong with it? Even if you told him at the early stage, don’t you know at the end of the day you will still go to your lineage? You said ''She gave him all she had, plus her whole love'', when it comes to that aspect, what on earth do you think a woman have that can give a man that will make him marry someone from another lineage? Even in the bible, the made it specifically clear there that everybody should go through his/her lineage. Why would you expect the man to go ahead and marry her? If she can take her time, a man from her lineage (OSU) will still come and ask her hand in marriage one day so that they (both) can make a good home. In fact, to me that woman is a very wicked person in life because i believe she must have caused that young man one way or the other a miserable or hardship situation throughout this 5 years because she is not from his lineage. I did not say she is not a human being, no far from that, but you must accept the fact that Igbo land has a culture and tradition, so we should observe those issues when it comes to marriage. To be frank, that lady should count herself very lucky because to me i believe the Man's ancestral God’s will not allow or accept the woman to last in that family even if she succeeded in marrying the man without the guy’s knowledge about her lineage. So she should consider herself very lucky to have been separated earlier. Then, if she succeeded in putting the guy through hardship all these while without the guy knowing she was the cause, and the guy finally discovered and left her in a good condition without even humiliating her or disgracing her, she should consider herself been hunted by the guy’s ancestral Gods. Do you know why, because she knows the truth but she never said it and finally she went home with what they guy has acquired in life in the name of been smart. I bet you, she might not find it easy in her life with such smartness. Everybody should follow his/her lineage to avoid involving yourself into a terrible situation you might not find a way out tomorrow.
i no fit shout
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:50 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "osarobo62") osarobo62 at 13-03-2013 02:54 PM (11 years ago) (m) does EVIL FOREST still exist in the East also  | Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:54 PM (11 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 03:02 PM (11 years ago) (f) Yes o, u never can tell 
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:02 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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why do women stress out when an idiot walks out. You should be thanking your stars cause who knows what crisis has been averted. 5yrs wasted vs 50yrs wasted? IMO, we shud be glad that a potential BIG crisis is averted. We need to start thinking long term. | Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:06 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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