![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 12-03-2013 06:32 PM (11 years ago)  (f) 
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 12-03-2013 06:32 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "lakman") lakman at 12-03-2013 07:11 PM (11 years ago) (m) post i suspect you to be one of them because it gives you concern so much, there's a saying that says when a baby is crying and pointing finger somewhere if his mother is not there his father most be there | Posted: at 12-03-2013 07:11 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "zoe61") zoe61 at 12-03-2013 07:18 PM (11 years ago) (f) how can a human being God has made be call an outcast? where is human right in this so call country? | Posted: at 12-03-2013 07:18 PM (11 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "toibeli") toibeli at 12-03-2013 07:32 PM (11 years ago) (m) The guy is playing the oldest game in the book, he is probably tired of the girl or has someone else in mind. I can bet my last dollar that as soon as she moves out the new girl will move in. If it's not meant to be, she should move on, and with the efflux of time, someone better will sweep her off her feet. | Posted: at 12-03-2013 07:32 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "italianjob") italianjob at 12-03-2013 07:34 PM (11 years ago) (m) As I read this post I am laughing like jakas, I am an igbo living in Rome for the past 20 yrs, my question is had it been this guy met this girl abroad like people has been doing here and been having kids, will the mum not take the kids? Will the family disown the guy maybe he has been doing well and doing things in the family, who Will ask for OSU or no OSU, this is called poverty and illiteracy joined together. may God forgive who calls his creature OSU. | Posted: at 12-03-2013 07:34 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Sophyrocks") Sophyrocks at 12-03-2013 07:42 PM (11 years ago) (f) The root and basis of the “OSU” system is crime-and-punishment, those who were guilty of such crimes and were meted their punishment have already served out their sentence. There is no justice in extending the punishment to innocent and unknowing offspring, nor was that the intent of the system then. For that reason, the application of the term, “OSU,” to any living person today is a wrong and unjust imputation, and unnecessary victimization.,,,ALL LAWS ARE MADE BY MAN,,,,MAN IS NOT MADE FOR THE LAW..  thank u. Sensible comment. Dat traditn makes no sense. Why shud ur generatn to come be called osu? Why? U call dat justice? D crimes commited r nt difrent frm d ones pple commit evryday. Dats y we hav laws, constitutns in dis 21st century. If ure to use osu to judge pple evrybody wil fail. Is a man caught stealin fowl an osu? Hw abt married women cheatin? Isnt dat happenin evrywhere? Wat makes a person an outcast dat even his or her generatn must suffer 4 just no reasonable cause? Its a totaly useless n heartless law. Den deres no difrence between sharia law n dis osu law na. Tnk God 4 christianity. Openin our eyes to see d light dat mercy n luv must be shown to ur fellow man. Hw can u claim 2 be a christian n yet u stil hold on to such belief of discriminatn wen love is wat we preach? Hypocrisy!
Life is damn too short to be sitting around miserable. | Posted: at 12-03-2013 07:42 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "toibeli") toibeli at 12-03-2013 07:44 PM (11 years ago) (m) This story was narrated by the lady's friend, therefore more likely to favour the lady. There are many possibilities to this story. The lady could have hidden her OSU identity to the guy until she was certain the guy was deeply in love with her before making that revelation. It is also possible she never told the guy, but rather the guy found out during investigations normally carried out by some Igbo communities before marriage. In areas where OSU cast system is practiced, the stigma is so bad that less than 5% making noise on this forum can damn everybody and go ahead with that marriage. Whether you are a Christian or not, you have a choice to go ahead with the marriage and get ex-communicated with everybody you have loved from childhood; mother, father, siblings and your entire communicated.
Don't be too harsh on the guy. I blame him, if only he was aware of her OSU identity early in their relationship and went ahead with her for 5 years before dropping her. It is also possible that he has been fighting with his family all this time to resolve the OSU marriage issue but when he could not win the battle, he surrendered.
You and I can change this old and stupid tradition, the so called OSU's are suffering for what their forefathers passed on to them.How is this fair to them? | Posted: at 12-03-2013 07:44 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "vicklove") vicklove at 12-03-2013 08:10 PM (11 years ago) (f) Dont know much about igbo land | Posted: at 12-03-2013 08:10 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "BlueIxora") BlueIxora at 12-03-2013 09:15 PM (11 years ago) (f) The idiot never talk wetin dey purshue am. I wonder why we are so quick to copy oyibo when it comes to negative things but when it comes to positive ones we act like we dont know they exist. Our language and good customs are rapidly disappearing yet we can't seem to do anything about the evil customs. | Posted: at 12-03-2013 09:15 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "jowole") jowole at 12-03-2013 09:29 PM (11 years ago) (m) Hey OSU hmm who is an outcast . Only those dat not ve Jesus are outcast | Posted: at 12-03-2013 09:29 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Missteen") Missteen at 12-03-2013 09:56 PM (11 years ago) (f) This is crazy.i tot osu doesn't exist anymore.Christianity has wash out all those nonsense stuff.Mtschewww.Well every disappointment is A̶̲̥̅ blessing.Her main & right Man is coming | Posted: at 12-03-2013 09:56 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Crazy world | Posted: at 12-03-2013 10:01 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sirenoch") sirenoch at 12-03-2013 10:17 PM (11 years ago) (m) She should give him more time
What is not worth living for is not worth dying for | Posted: at 12-03-2013 10:17 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "arsenal123") arsenal123 at 12-03-2013 11:56 PM (11 years ago) (m) For all of you saying this tradition is barbaric yes it is.. but try and marry an osu when you are not one... Then you will see what will happen to you...The Bible says give what belongs to ceaser to ceaser and what belongs to God yo God...Unless you want your family and community to disown u...Then go ahead...after all, all is fair in love... | Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:56 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I AM WHO I AM, IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, YOU CAN BLOODY DO THE OTHER THING AND FCUK ALL HATERZ | Posted: at 13-03-2013 01:07 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I AM WHO I AM, IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, YOU CAN BLOODY DO THE OTHER THING AND FCUK ALL HATERZ | Posted: at 13-03-2013 01:07 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "4REEAL") 4REEAL at 13-03-2013 03:03 AM (11 years ago) (m) For all of you saying this tradition is barbaric yes it is.. but try and marry an osu when you are not one... Then you will see what will happen to you...The Bible says give what belongs to ceaser to ceaser and what belongs to God yo God...Unless you want your family and community to disown u...Then go ahead...after all, all is fair in love...
,Give to Ceaser's to Ceaser"s ""means earthly possessions,...  ,To God to God"" means ya life,body n soul,,,,,so ya community or d so called traditions has no power over God,,bcuz d so call OSU is made in d image of God,,  >:(make i break am down 4 u  ,,Our people say's that when you point at somebody, one finger alone points at the object, but 3 fingers point back at you the subject. And if anybody looks at himself or herself in the mirror and thinks or sees OSU, let him or her snap out of it. We are all creations of the same God, without exceptions. That is what each person’s true identity and real name derives from—GOD  | Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:03 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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