ladies please advise ,if you live with your man abroad , though u are not married ,but he tuck u there will you prefer living together with him or living alone on ur own, u have spent one and half year living with him but no improvement for two of you each time u think of moving from his house to fined ur own apartment money will dry from ur hand,if u are in my shoe will u still stay with him or will u buckle up and live him?
Posted: at 29-06-2009 10:26 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
stealth_biatch at 29-06-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) (f)
I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
IF IT AIN'T SHEATHED ... IT AIN'T BANGING !!... *st34lth_b14tch* ...
Posted: at 29-06-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
You try, just scared the hell outta me,lol. ok @ poster if there's no improvement in ur relationship then i don't understand why u are still there, at this point it looks like all ur doing is using him which is'nt fair, i will advice that u try to move out as soon as possible b4 things get further complicated than they already are, you could find another roommate when you move so the bills are'nt so high u won't be able to survive on ur own. Good luck.
Posted: at 30-06-2009 05:03 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Quote from: blessing4obinna on 29-06-2009 10:26 PM
ladies please advise ,if you live with your man abroad , though u are not married ,but he tuck u there will you prefer living together with him or living alone on ur own, u have spent one and half year living with him but no improvement for two of you each time u think of moving from his house to fined ur own apartment money will dry from ur hand,if u are in my shoe will u still stay with him or will u buckle up and live him?
hmmmm...wot do u mean by *no improvement*...is he abusing u in any way? is it something u cant discuss wit him? why r u always broke? if he had arranged ur travelling wit good intentions nd u want to run away bcos things r tight wit him... so much for love...so much for standing by him wen he needed ur support...so much for friendship... go on...use d easy out by running away.... i should think if he is nt abusing u in any way...dat u should stay wit ur man nd offer him ur support.
Posted: at 30-06-2009 07:27 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
stealth_biatch at 30-06-2009 07:33 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: temi07 on 30-06-2009 05:03 AM
Quote from: stealth_biatch on 29-06-2009 11:47 PM
I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
You try, just scared the hell outta me,lol. ok @ poster if there's no improvement in ur relationship then i don't understand why u are still there, at this point it looks like all ur doing is using him which is'nt fair, i will advice that u try to move out as soon as possible b4 things get further complicated than they already are, you could find another roommate when you move so the bills are'nt so high u won't be able to survive on ur own. Good luck.
lolzzz ... but its true ....
IF IT AIN'T SHEATHED ... IT AIN'T BANGING !!... *st34lth_b14tch* ...
Posted: at 30-06-2009 07:33 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
I no fit laff. Which kin evil woman be that sef? I no blame the husband for loosing his cool that way. It's unfortunate he killed her sha but mehn that was some dotty nonsense she put him thru. Serious dotty nonsense.
I know some other guy who was a lot smatter. Smae situation but he sold everything and ran off back to Naija before the authorities could think he would... Now that's a sharp man.
Posted: at 30-06-2009 07:51 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
I no fit laff. Which kin evil woman be that sef? I no blame the husband for loosing his cool that way. It's unfortunate he killed her sha but mehn that was some dotty nonsense she put him thru. Serious dotty nonsense.
I know some other guy who was a lot smatter. Smae situation but he sold everything and ran off back to Naija before the authorities could think he would... Now that's a sharp man.
left his kids behind? Thats not man.
Posted: at 1-07-2009 12:56 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 2-07-2009 09:00 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: blessing4obinna on 29-06-2009 10:26 PM
ladies please advise ,if you live with your man abroad , though u are not married ,but he tuck u there will you prefer living together with him or living alone on ur own, u have spent one and half year living with him but no improvement for two of you each time u think of moving from his house to fined ur own apartment money will dry from ur hand,if u are in my shoe will u still stay with him or will u buckle up and live him?
I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
I no fit laff. Which kin evil woman be that sef? I no blame the husband for loosing his cool that way. It's unfortunate he killed her sha but mehn that was some dotty nonsense she put him thru. Serious dotty nonsense.
I know some other guy who was a lot smatter. Smae situation but he sold everything and ran off back to Naija before the authorities could think he would... Now that's a sharp man.
left his kids behind? Thats not man.
Mehn forget story... With the way their mother was behaving, they myt not have been his kids sef.
Posted: at 3-07-2009 10:06 AM (15 years ago) | Hero