How can you make your man hate u and brake up with u? (Page 4)

well girl i seem to understand ur plight and what u've been going through.first it is written in the bible that ''love thy neighbour as thy self'' the key word there is ur self first b4 anyone else.also there is a  saying that ''charity begins at home''
very well what u did u do it for love but love not appreciated can always find it's way out through the back door.

sincerely speaking u hav tried ur best and the earlier u realise the guy in question those not love u or better still care about u the better for u.

secondly,u will be helping him a great deal if u let go now cos he will learn to value what he has  next time and  u will be pushing him to the wall to wake up to the realities of life and fend for himselfas a man no matter how odd it will appear.

there is a saying that ''necessity is the mother of invention''.

if u keep on with that relationship u wont be doing him any good as a man that he is cos he won't see any need to look for something doing.just free him for two or three week's he will look for some thing doing,believe me he can't afford to go hungry.giving him a chance again is not necessary to me cos atlast he will end up hurting u even more.

love is an emotional bank that is supposed to be serviced by the both parties and should't be one sided unlike ur's that u r the one loving,feeding,caring etc.

now u hav to know that there is a purpose for everything that happens, it's only left for u to interpret it the way it best suits u.

but my candid advice for u is; if u continue with that relationship what u will have from him is more  pretence to love u in order to keep u close until when he hammers cash and believe me if u are still with him when he enventually makes a hit,....u know what will happen?

payback!! hence dumping u like a piece of trash.

be wish girl ''try to learn something about everything and everything about something''

he never valued u and won't start now but neverthless be mindfull not to rush into a new relationship all in the name of looking for someone to pet u.

''learn to pause or nothing worthwhile will catch up to u'' u will definately meet someone that will love u for who u are,respect u,appreciate ur little effort and treat u like a lady that u are.

remember u can always find true love even though it might take time.

all the very best!