![-]( "plainheart") plainheart at 11-12-2009 12:56 PM (15 years ago)  (f) @poster...Well I don't about "greater blame". Every party (Husband, wife and maid) had a part in such a situation.
Husband: He's the man of the house and he should make sure his house is in other. He shouldnt stoop so low as to having an affair with his maid. He shouldn't take advantage of the a maid (even with her consent, it is called Psychological rape).
Wife: A wife should be up and doing, always attractive to her husband and never failing in her duties. As a woman, she should know the home better, sensitive enough to smell any crooked ways b4 it blows out to an affair. I must add, no wife should see a maid as a rival, (and step down) that's a complex issue.
Maid:The less-experienced one in the "love-triangle" lol. If she refused to the husband's advances, the worst he can do is send her out of the home and men are not known for that. She gets the blame for granting access to the man. No man (sane or insane) will see a ripe young lady in his house and not make a pass or at least a second look. When the babe no be him daughter and she dey chop him food. e easy?
na true talk y guy | Posted: at 11-12-2009 12:56 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 11-12-2009 01:45 PM (15 years ago) (m) u ended up nt saying anything | Posted: at 11-12-2009 01:45 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "luvvy") luvvy at 12-12-2009 12:32 PM (15 years ago) (m) Oracle and Mazi re to be blame | Posted: at 12-12-2009 12:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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supported | Posted: at 12-12-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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from experience, most men are born maniac. l once caught my neighbor's husband doing it with my maid at the backyard. who will u blame? me or his wife?  | Posted: at 12-12-2009 07:41 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "jan") jan at 12-12-2009 08:14 PM (15 years ago) (f) i define a man by his level of se;f control and maturity.. to stoop so low as to sleep with his maid and him being married....(shudder) i just wonder when some men wld start respecting themselves  | Posted: at 12-12-2009 08:14 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Hardah") Hardah at 12-12-2009 09:36 PM (15 years ago) (f) The man is to be blamed cuz a responsible man whether his wife is doing wat he needs or not is not meant to sleep with any oda woman apart 4rm his wife cuz dats adultery n d bible forbids it.U all know dat some men still commit adultery even if his woman satisfies him in every aspect.So wat wld u say about dis.D man should definitely be blamed cuz he's d one in control here,he goes 2 meet d maid n not vice versa. | Posted: at 12-12-2009 09:36 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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U dey there?All dis newbie,una dey make me vex | Posted: at 12-12-2009 09:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "adedupcy") adedupcy at 12-12-2009 09:50 PM (15 years ago) (f) Vextation | Posted: at 12-12-2009 09:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Even more dan vextatn | Posted: at 12-12-2009 09:51 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Ceenod") Ceenod at 12-12-2009 10:42 PM (15 years ago) (m) is d womanz fault obviously..man shall nt live by bread alone and body no b firewood.
Men are like bank accounts, without a lot of money, we dont generate a lot of interests | Posted: at 12-12-2009 10:42 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Tel ur fellow newbie o... | Posted: at 12-12-2009 10:43 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sweetrae") sweetrae at 12-12-2009 11:01 PM (15 years ago) (f) wot first contact, Rae?
who made the first move toward d affair is too blame... nd why would a wife leave her home cos her husband 'did' d maid?
even though it's still nt an excuse for d man...some of these maids themselves aint fools u know...
? it is dangerous to delegate someone to run ur house in totality...d wife should be more diligent... well, all i can say is, thank goodness for maid services where live-in is not necessary... | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Am tired | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:04 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "jan") jan at 12-12-2009 11:04 PM (15 years ago) (f) Mr priceless "upcoming" who tell u say i be newbie? u neva begin dey vibrate with anger. dey vex go jare and make sure u display it because it is good for emotional stability. i no go wan hear say our priceless "upcoming" don land yaba left | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:04 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 12-12-2009 11:10 PM (15 years ago) (m) make u dey..................
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza  | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:10 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Ceenod") Ceenod at 12-12-2009 11:20 PM (15 years ago) (m) jan tell mr upcoming...say im dey here dey open meaningless thread na wetin dey worry am
Men are like bank accounts, without a lot of money, we dont generate a lot of interests | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:20 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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U dey there?All dis newbie,una dey make me vex
c upcoming wey dey feel fly.........wetin make addict talk................u were 1ce a newbie | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:30 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "jan") jan at 12-12-2009 11:43 PM (15 years ago) (f) @ceenod nd akinbusola dont mind him, na accomplishment | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:43 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 12-12-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) (m) ceenod,jan.....one more insult to dat fella i'm gonna have u evicted
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza | Posted: at 12-12-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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