men sleeping with their house maids...who's to blame? (Page 13)

Why will a woman have a matured house maid living wit her in the first place?

Posted: at 14-12-2009 01:02 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The man is a dog he shld go and check himself very well if he is alright,if the wife is the one making money for the family and he will be in house chasing around the poor girl,cos most of them gets them by intimidation.

Posted: at 14-12-2009 08:59 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

ok rest it

Posted: at 14-12-2009 11:20 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

rest....

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Posted: at 14-12-2009 06:47 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

women are very influencial,  that started in olden days. Sarah told Abraham to sleep with her maid and he obeyed, i believe if sarah didn't want her husband to sleep with her maid, the husband wouldn't have done that. Check very well, the fault is from the woman and not the man. You can't be belly full and still want to eat? is not possible. So you can juge yourself.

Posted: at 14-12-2009 11:17 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 14-12-2009 11:49 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

@ priceless and xter
i am not a newbie. i ve bin on naijapals for like 2yrs. i jst dont post or visit regularly, that is the point i was trying to make.

@mazi
in some cases, it is rape, but smtimes the girl has no choice but to do it, then in her little mind, she begins to enjoy it or the small gifts attached to it. the driving force usually is the man. i have friends who wld ask their wives to send their maids away when they start getting tempted

Posted: at 16-12-2009 02:50 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

yeah.. true dat, this where them man's level of integrity comes in

Posted: at 17-12-2009 06:31 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

I seem not to agree wiv you. Women are to blame. If they take their rightful position and attend to their husband needs. The house help can help you do some house chores but she must not do some vital ones like laying daddy's bed, washing dady's pant and even cooking/ serving daddy's food.

Some women only attends to their own needs and leave the maid to attend to her husband's needs.

We are human being. You love who is closer to you. Your wife or the house wives!!!!

Before women go out of the house, give your husband an over dose of the pudding, then he will not dare seek such outside!!

14_Inches

Posted: at 28-01-2010 07:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

WRONG FOOTING, WRONG CHOICE, INCOMPATIBILITY OF THE COUPLE.  IN THE BEGINNING LOVE WAS LOST.  THEN PRETENSE TOOK D STAGE AND LEAD TO MARRIAGE.

I BLAME D MAN 4 NOT SAYING NO ABINITIO.  REMAIN COOL

Posted: at 28-01-2010 07:53 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming