Girl Needs Advice - I'm Engaged, But I Am Having the Greatest S*x of My Life With Someone

Date: 04-03-2016 3:54 pm (4 years ago) | Author: Giwa bayo
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- at 4-03-2016 03:54 PM (4 years ago)
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A worried woman who is engaged has asked for advice after she cheated and experienced the greatest s*x of her life with a childhood friend.
read what she sent in below:
 
Dear Naijapals,
 
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I have never felt like a woman before until last year. I am 27 years and I have always known one man all my life, but last year. We passed out from youth service and my boss hosted a dinner party for all the Youth Corp members that worked at the company; we all came drank and my childhood friend that I invited from abuja to Lagos came, a guy, we do have feelings for each other but I am engaged already. My fiancé couldn't make it because he said it's a childish stuff, that he is too big being around children. Well l left him, though I was angry because his presence would have made a difference.
 This my childhood friend gave me 3 years gap, he is working in his father's company. That night when I escorted him to his hotel room, he started professing his love for me. Honestly, before I knew what was happening he undressed me with his teeth, took me to the bathroom showered me, and made love to me in the bathtub. I couldn't even say no again. I have never experienced such a thing in my life.
 My fiancé is always saying I should not live a wayward life, that s*x is for married people and the purpose of it is to get children. I believed him a lot because once he is up, he puts his penis in me, pushes in and out and gets down and ask for food.
 He has never asked me what size of bra and pant I wear. He made me have this mindset that s*x is just to get children, but after last year incident, I knew better.
 My childhood friend has been coming to visit me, he makes me go crazy anytime he is in bed with me. He buys me bras, pants, cooks for me . Once my fiancé just gets up all he ask me is to spread my legs for him. I keep asking him if s*x is for married people why can't he wait till we are married. But, he has not answered me that particular question.
 My problem now is my fiancé is coming by Easter to ask for my hand in marriage and I feel so scared that I will end up cheating on him. What do I do?  This my childhood friend told me not to break his heart, that he has loved me from childhood. I am getting so attached to him. I am so scared because I am in a fix too. What should I do? My fiancé is 40years and my childhood friend is 30 years old.
 
From anonymous worried woman.

Posted: at 4-03-2016 03:54 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
- BournIdentity at 4-03-2016 03:59 PM (4 years ago)
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I no dey advice ass hole,,, go cure ur madness den u go fit collect my advice
Posted: at 4-03-2016 03:59 PM (4 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Goamusichome at 4-03-2016 03:59 PM (4 years ago)
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http://www.naijapals.com/music/Money_Goa_Ft_Zigzag-48976
Posted: at 4-03-2016 03:59 PM (4 years ago) | Newbie
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- charisVEC at 4-03-2016 04:03 PM (4 years ago)
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I see...Galfrd..kul down..take a cup of lipton tea...and relax..al wil b well..issokay...
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:03 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nonsovin at 4-03-2016 04:07 PM (4 years ago)
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Go buy dildo, wen ur engaged man didn't do it wella, den u hav to finish the rest on ur own! Lolz
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:07 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ujmaria at 4-03-2016 04:08 PM (4 years ago)
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Make u forget that ur fiance and follow ur childhood friend cos my dear marriage is for better for worse, if u end up with ur fiance u are sure of cheating on him as time goes on
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:08 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- rara4romSA at 4-03-2016 04:08 PM (4 years ago)
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I think u need to understand that u dating a sugar daddy that's why he will treat u that way
so move on with your child sweetheart don't deny yourself love n pleasure you too young to miss out

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Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:08 PM (4 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Fran6ixfox at 4-03-2016 04:10 PM (4 years ago)
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Quote from: maria on  4-03-2016 04:08 PM
Make u forget that ur fiance and follow ur childhood friend cos my dear marriage is for better for worse, if u end up with ur fiance u are sure of cheating on him as time goes on
yeah u r ryt.so true
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:10 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Fran6ixfox at 4-03-2016 04:13 PM (4 years ago)
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my own advice for u..stick too DAT ur childhood frnd..n forget about your fiance.. u will surely cheat on ur finance wen u get married to him
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:13 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Haso112 at 4-03-2016 04:19 PM (4 years ago)
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Hmmmm.. Serious matter ooo..   YOU TASTE BETTER SOMETHING, YOUR EYES COME CLEAR.. LOL.. Na Ur life, live it as you deem fit..
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:19 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tonypgd at 4-03-2016 04:24 PM (4 years ago)
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Just pray.  You need  prayer girl
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:24 PM (4 years ago) | Newbie
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- DrSoba at 4-03-2016 04:26 PM (4 years ago)
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Most girls are usually stupid that they can't differentiate love to infatuation. It will  your life, make the mistake as girls always do for selfish reason(s). Idiot. Mtcheeeeewwww
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:26 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- slimmygal at 4-03-2016 04:30 PM (4 years ago)
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Oh gal, all u need is follow ur heart. Love and sex is very important in marriage, its better u stay with someone that understands and makes u happy. Believe me, if u get married to ur fiance, u wont enjoy ur marriage sexually cos u will definately cheats on him and it wont be funny at d end. And i dont think d communication btw u two is unlike btw u and ur childhood friend. D best marriage u can av is getting married to ur bestfriend, all d best
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:30 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickieponga at 4-03-2016 04:41 PM (4 years ago)
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Abeg make i try the honeypot first b4 i fit give u advice...
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:41 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
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- leonardi at 4-03-2016 04:54 PM (4 years ago)
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The problem is you have tasted what u shouldn't have so now it's sure you will cheat on ur fiance if u get married to him. Honestly I feel ur pain cos many girls I did it with wanted to marry me but I'm only one remember
Posted: at 4-03-2016 04:54 PM (4 years ago) | Upcoming
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- botlex at 4-03-2016 05:33 PM (4 years ago)
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A broken marriage is better than a broken marriage. Just discuss your s*x life with your spouse, then if there's no improvement. I guess you know what to do.
Posted: at 4-03-2016 05:33 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Novic at 4-03-2016 05:35 PM (4 years ago)
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What you are expriencing frm you childhood friend was affection not love. You better think twice before do what you will regret for the rest of your life.
Posted: at 4-03-2016 05:35 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
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- kison at 4-03-2016 05:37 PM (4 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin YOU GET MAGGOTS FOR HEAD,,NONSENSE,,,U BETTER Be careful, be very very careful,CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL...
Posted: at 4-03-2016 05:37 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
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- kp45 at 4-03-2016 05:43 PM (4 years ago)
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Stop bugging me and go to correction department.
Posted: at 4-03-2016 05:43 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
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- steve25 at 4-03-2016 05:59 PM (4 years ago)
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I no where the problem is coming from,your child good friend works in his father's company, richer than your fiance, women, if a woman say  I love you, before you say I love u too,,check your account. Because what you will use to reply her love depend on your account
Posted: at 4-03-2016 05:59 PM (4 years ago) | Upcoming
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