A case for pregnancy before marriage? (Page 7)

Date: 10-03-2010 10:29 pm (15 years ago) | Author: J. Omowonuola O.
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- wunzie at 18-03-2010 09:00 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 18-03-2010 01:30 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 11-03-2010 09:44 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 11-03-2010 12:14 AM
Shawara!



hehehehe.... ban gane ba?

Ba ki ane ba? toh Bari n ba ki labari.

If a man wants u cs of the babies he can get from U then u need to question his love for U. Every mature person knows that men love attention and babies steal attention. Do the maths.

It's not like we dont want babies. We just usually don't think of them first and when we do U gals better start wondeinr if U are anymore than legal "borning" machines.

So much can happen between pregnancy and marriage. Better to keep it where it belongs. Too many what if's aren't healthy.





You are a man of wisdom. Na gode

Posted: at 18-03-2010 09:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sulakishop at 18-03-2010 09:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Haka ne!

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- FlyMamacita at 18-03-2010 09:19 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 18-03-2010 03:32 PM
I didnt say either of those now did I? I'm saying when a man is more interested in U having his baby than he is in respecting U enuf to honour U in marriage before getting the babies, if U can both agree on that, then U myt want to raise eyebrows.

i hear u... and u are right ,not because u get baby together means u gonna marry...but there is where i see people are wrong
how can u make a child together,put a new life on this earth,have a bonth like that togehther and then ur not ready to marry?  Huh?

I think it's  diff between white and black... For u marriage is the last stop, the BIG step and the final decision...For me (and most white people) having a child together is just huge and it's bigger then marriage...But that is also why u see more devorce in our culture then urs Smiley
Posted: at 18-03-2010 09:19 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wunzie at 18-03-2010 09:24 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: sulakishop on 18-03-2010 09:07 PM
Haka ne!


Ka ni jin harshen turanci kuwa? Tongue

Posted: at 18-03-2010 09:24 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sulakishop at 18-03-2010 09:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Na ji kadan!

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- slimshaddy-8 at 19-03-2010 11:49 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 18-03-2010 03:32 PM
I didnt say either of those now did I? I'm saying when a man is more interested in U having his baby than he is in respecting U enuf to honour U in marriage before getting the babies, if U can both agree on that, then U myt want to raise eyebrows.



i dont agree with your comment and am doubting whether you are an african man. If you are then you suppose
to know that wanting a woman to carry ones child is a big step for any man and any african man only gives
this priviledge to the woman he loves and is ready to settle down with.
Posted: at 19-03-2010 11:49 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sulakishop at 19-03-2010 02:10 PM (15 years ago)
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Hmm...
Elements of wisdom...

Posted: at 19-03-2010 02:10 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 19-03-2010 02:44 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-03-2010 09:19 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 18-03-2010 03:32 PM
I didnt say either of those now did I? I'm saying when a man is more interested in U having his baby than he is in respecting U enuf to honour U in marriage before getting the babies, if U can both agree on that, then U myt want to raise eyebrows.

i hear u... and u are right ,not because u get baby together means u gonna marry...but there is where i see people are wrong
how can u make a child together,put a new life on this earth,have a bonth like that togehther and then ur not ready to marry?  Huh?

I think it's  diff between white and black... For u marriage is the last stop, the BIG step and the final decision...For me (and most white people) having a child together is just huge and it's bigger then marriage...But that is also why u see more devorce in our culture then urs Smiley
Babe, U to gbasky. Thank U for the insight. Na to flee whyt chick be that na. Hw could anyone possibly prefer the product to the factory? Children are Ur final stop? No wonder divorce is in vogue for U people and african men can get resident permits by giving U babies. I see clearly now.

Ps: There are exceptions cos I know a few whyt girls that dont think as "whyt" as U do.
Posted: at 19-03-2010 02:44 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- waco at 19-03-2010 02:55 PM (15 years ago)
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i was here

Posted: at 19-03-2010 02:55 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 19-03-2010 02:57 PM (15 years ago)
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passing

Posted: at 19-03-2010 02:57 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- waco at 19-03-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago)
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not giving any1 belle o

Posted: at 19-03-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- shiboy74 at 19-03-2010 03:17 PM (15 years ago)
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IS NOT RIGTH! BCOS GOD'S LAW IS AGAINST IT WHERE HE SAID MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER ALONE AND CLEAVE TO HIS WIFE AND THEY SHALL BECOME ONE! SO ONLY TWO(not 3) GOES TO D REGISTRY AS WELL AS THE ALTAR OF GOD.
Posted: at 19-03-2010 03:17 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- dolphinkate at 19-03-2010 03:36 PM (15 years ago)
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It is morally not fair from the man to demand baby bfore marriage. Only to see, if the future wife is able to give birth for him. What about the man s potency? I have heard, that in 50% of childless marriages the cause is the man s health. If a man wants to be 200%  sure, that healthwise everything is ok for becoming a father, he could go to a good doctor for examination together with his future wife.

Note, that women r not only birth machines. First a man should love his woman and become one with her. Then his children would be very lucky cause his marriage would be sweet and forever.
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- waco at 19-03-2010 03:38 PM (15 years ago)
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ok, i am reading ur replies.

Posted: at 19-03-2010 03:38 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- sulakishop at 19-03-2010 03:44 PM (15 years ago)
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Different folks with different behaviours!

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- FlyMamacita at 19-03-2010 07:12 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 19-03-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-03-2010 09:19 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 18-03-2010 03:32 PM
I didnt say either of those now did I? I'm saying when a man is more interested in U having his baby than he is in respecting U enuf to honour U in marriage before getting the babies, if U can both agree on that, then U myt want to raise eyebrows.

i hear u... and u are right ,not because u get baby together means u gonna marry...but there is where i see people are wrong
how can u make a child together,put a new life on this earth,have a bonth like that togehther and then ur not ready to marry?  Huh?

I think it's  diff between white and black... For u marriage is the last stop, the BIG step and the final decision...For me (and most white people) having a child together is just huge and it's bigger then marriage...But that is also why u see more devorce in our culture then urs Smiley
Babe, U to gbasky. Thank U for the insight. Na to flee whyt chick be that na. Hw could anyone possibly prefer the product to the factory? Children are Ur final stop? No wonder divorce is in vogue for U people and african men can get resident permits by giving U babies. I see clearly now.

Ps: There are exceptions cos I know a few whyt girls that dont think as "whyt" as U do.

Believe me am not to soft or i wouldn't be 'blind' by love to give a guy permit to stay by giving him a baby...
And if i would realy think 'white' like u say, me and my bf wouldn't be together  Smiley
I was just saying and trying to make a point that for us (white people) having a baby is something very important,also marriage but having a child together is realy BIG...
Posted: at 19-03-2010 07:12 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 19-03-2010 07:20 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dolphinkate on 19-03-2010 03:36 PM
It is morally not fair from the man to demand baby bfore marriage. Only to see, if the future wife is able to give birth for him. What about the man s potency? I have heard, that in 50% of childless marriages the cause is the man s health. If a man wants to be 200%  sure, that healthwise everything is ok for becoming a father, he could go to a good doctor for examination together with his future wife.

Note, that women r not only birth machines. First a man should love his woman and become one with her. Then his children would be very lucky cause his marriage would be sweet and forever.

actually women are not birth machines, i agree with that, but can u tell me what a marriage will turn to be after all the Love the man showed and hoping to have a baby, at the last nothing came forth. what do u have to say about that.

There is nothing like Lucky here, Have you forgetten that God lay so much blessings on women, that all women shall bear forth fruits, as a blessing upon mankind. that we shall multiply and bear childrens.

You think God will not be disappointed if he join a woman to a man and at last nothing comes out of the man's labour.?


Posted: at 19-03-2010 07:20 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 19-03-2010 07:29 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-03-2010 09:19 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 18-03-2010 03:32 PM
I didnt say either of those now did I? I'm saying when a man is more interested in U having his baby than he is in respecting U enuf to honour U in marriage before getting the babies, if U can both agree on that, then U myt want to raise eyebrows.

i hear u... and u are right ,not because u get baby together means u gonna marry...but there is where i see people are wrong
how can u make a child together,put a new life on this earth,have a bonth like that togehther and then ur not ready to marry?  Huh?

I think it's  diff between white and black... For u marriage is the last stop, the BIG step and the final decision...For me (and most white people) having a child together is just huge and it's bigger then marriage...But that is also why u see more devorce in our culture then urs Smiley

Onche was right by touching that point here, Having baby together doesnt mean the man actually want u as the wife or is a most to marry... NO !! is only few out of many will still end up marrying after baby must have come along.

also about the whites and black issue, Flymama, u was right there, In western world, once people have a child in btw relationship is always like that, some family will persude the girl to get married to the guy b4 the baby is out, while some will not accept that when it comes to a relationship btw a foreigner and a native of the country. some will just want to have the baby and train their kid and see if the relationship will still tie knot at last.

But i think personal, if a girl is good enough for a man to sleep with, to the extent of getting the girl pregnate, and all the way to the 9 months of labour and so on, I think that Lady deserve a better treat from the Guy, by marrying her proper to show her Love, and the Kid that have come along the way. every child need a father to grow up by him/her daily, protect the woman and the child of his blood. i guess is amazing thing to do.

But girls shouldnt lure the man into having baby if he is not ready for that. Make una dey try wear Condom atimes when u are not free to have sex.

Posted: at 19-03-2010 07:29 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 19-03-2010 07:48 PM (15 years ago)
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@ dirtykid--> u are absolutely right !!
Posted: at 19-03-2010 07:48 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sulakishop at 19-03-2010 07:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Huh?

Posted: at 19-03-2010 07:59 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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