A case for pregnancy before marriage? (Page 8)

Date: 10-03-2010 10:29 pm (14 years ago) | Author: J. Omowonuola O.
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- sulakishop at 19-03-2010 08:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Huh?

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- FlyMamacita at 19-03-2010 08:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sulakishop on 19-03-2010 08:00 PM
Huh?

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- sulakishop at 19-03-2010 08:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Error of omission.

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- sulakishop at 19-03-2010 08:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Error of omission.

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- wunzie at 19-03-2010 09:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 19-03-2010 07:20 PM
Quote from: dolphinkate on 19-03-2010 03:36 PM
It is morally not fair from the man to demand baby bfore marriage. Only to see, if the future wife is able to give birth for him. What about the man s potency? I have heard, that in 50% of childless marriages the cause is the man s health. If a man wants to be 200%  sure, that healthwise everything is ok for becoming a father, he could go to a good doctor for examination together with his future wife.

Note, that women r not only birth machines. First a man should love his woman and become one with her. Then his children would be very lucky cause his marriage would be sweet and forever.

actually women are not birth machines, i agree with that, but can u tell me what a marriage will turn to be after all the Love the man showed and hoping to have a baby, at the last nothing came forth. what do u have to say about that.

There is nothing like Lucky here, Have you forgetten that God lay so much blessings on women, that all women shall bear forth fruits, as a blessing upon mankind. that we shall multiply and bear childrens.

You think God will not be disappointed if he join a woman to a man and at last nothing comes out of the man's labour.?







Childlessness in marriage is not always the woman's fault as highlighted by dolphinkate.  It seems to
me as if you guys are shying away from this fact.

Posted: at 19-03-2010 09:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 20-03-2010 11:34 AM (14 years ago)
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who get belle for here?

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- OGAES at 20-03-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago)
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it is because people dont marry for love again and no trust in God and fellow partiner it is wrong to get pregnant before marrage.
Posted: at 20-03-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- LisaOSullivan at 20-03-2010 12:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Many religions say that premarital sex and children born out of wedlock is against God's Law. In an ideal world, every person should follolw this law, But many do not , and I beleive that each person has the right to decide on which direction they want to go in their life. In saying that, I think it very cruel and unfair of anyone to base a marriage on wether or not a couple or particular person can produce children. In many thousands if not millions of cases, people are unable to have children through no fault of their own. To say that that person or couple , who can not produce a child or children, does not deserve the love of a husband or wife for their life, is not only extremely cruel , but selfish also. Every person is special, and made by God, and therefore deserves to be loved and cared for , regardless of wether their body's reproductive system works or not . God himself loves us all, so why can't we be just as he is and love everyone for who they are , the way they are , too ? Come on people, Lets make this world a better place for all of us.
Lets Heal the World Together...
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- ojobig at 20-03-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago)
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hi nicola, hw i u doing?
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- dirtykid at 20-03-2010 02:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 19-03-2010 09:37 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 19-03-2010 07:20 PM
Quote from: dolphinkate on 19-03-2010 03:36 PM
It is morally not fair from the man to demand baby bfore marriage. Only to see, if the future wife is able to give birth for him. What about the man s potency? I have heard, that in 50% of childless marriages the cause is the man s health. If a man wants to be 200%  sure, that healthwise everything is ok for becoming a father, he could go to a good doctor for examination together with his future wife.

Note, that women r not only birth machines. First a man should love his woman and become one with her. Then his children would be very lucky cause his marriage would be sweet and forever.

actually women are not birth machines, i agree with that, but can u tell me what a marriage will turn to be after all the Love the man showed and hoping to have a baby, at the last nothing came forth. what do u have to say about that.

There is nothing like Lucky here, Have you forgetten that God lay so much blessings on women, that all women shall bear forth fruits, as a blessing upon mankind. that we shall multiply and bear childrens.

You think God will not be disappointed if he join a woman to a man and at last nothing comes out of the man's labour.?







Childlessness in marriage is not always the woman's fault as highlighted by dolphinkate.  It seems to
me as if you guys are shying away from this fact.



Nobody is layin a blame on the woman here or the man, but i think naturaly couples should bear forth Children,'' Fruits of the womb'' IF not, both should go and make proper check up on themselves. God is perfect and he created everything perfect.. thats faith of mankind to bear children.

Many women out there have destroyed their wombs in one way or the other b4 marriage, when they can concieve, they blame it on the man or start calling God, likewise to the men, some did damage to themselves that they cant even pregnate a woman. mankind should try as much as possible to live a good life on earth.

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- wunzie at 20-03-2010 04:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 20-03-2010 11:34 AM
who get belle for here?




Na who you give belle for here?

Posted: at 20-03-2010 04:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sulakishop at 20-03-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Lol

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- slimshaddy-8 at 22-03-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dolphinkate on 19-03-2010 03:36 PM
It is morally not fair from the man to demand baby bfore marriage. Only to see, if the future wife is able to give birth for him. What about the man s potency? I have heard, that in 50% of childless marriages the cause is the man s health. If a man wants to be 200%  sure, that healthwise everything is ok for becoming a father, he could go to a good doctor for examination together with his future wife.

Note, that women r not only birth machines. First a man should love his woman and become one with her. Then his children would be very lucky cause his marriage would be sweet and forever.



where did you get ur stats from? i get fed up when people talk about male potency, medical jargons has sown confusion in
peoples minds.  in the olden days some of our fathers marry up to 5 wives or even more and have children by them. no man is created
infertile or can suddenly become infertile.  yes a man can have low sperm count which medicine can ulterate, but for a man to be unable
to father a child is unheard of.  please stop glorifying all these medical lies.
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- FlyMamacita at 23-03-2010 09:57 AM (14 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh?  Lips Sealed
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- mubaji at 23-03-2010 10:07 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: slimshaddy-8 on 22-03-2010 11:32 AM
Quote from: dolphinkate on 19-03-2010 03:36 PM
It is morally not fair from the man to demand baby bfore marriage. Only to see, if the future wife is able to give birth for him. What about the man s potency? I have heard, that in 50% of childless marriages the cause is the man s health. If a man wants to be 200%  sure, that healthwise everything is ok for becoming a father, he could go to a good doctor for examination together with his future wife.

Note, that women r not only birth machines. First a man should love his woman and become one with her. Then his children would be very lucky cause his marriage would be sweet and forever.



where did you get ur stats from? i get fed up when people talk about male potency, medical jargons has sown confusion in
peoples minds.  in the olden days some of our fathers marry up to 5 wives or even more and have children by them. no man is created
infertile or can suddenly become infertile.  yes a man can have low sperm count which medicine can ulterate, but for a man to be unable
to father a child is unheard of.  please stop glorifying all these medical lies.
it's 1 of the bitter-truths we men don't want to listen to, but the truth shall always true
our  problem is, we (men) see ourselves as the peak of all creatures thus, we take other creatures' advantages
let women not bow down to threats like such: if the man truly loves you he won't request of such; i mean women of pride not those who have jumped from bed to the other hence she's afraid of going into marriage because secrets will leak-out.
PREGNANCY out of WED-LOCK is UNGODLY
Posted: at 23-03-2010 10:07 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tuks at 23-03-2010 10:13 AM (14 years ago)
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@Shady...There r tinz a man can get xposed,dat cud cause infertility.....If u've worked in certain fields u'd know wat i'm talkin abt....Nywayz pregnancy b4 marriage shud not be encouraged...Dats my own opinion
Posted: at 23-03-2010 10:13 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Oluwatoyin001 at 23-03-2010 10:20 AM (14 years ago)
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Not in a million years will i allow a man to impregnate me outside wedlock.

A man's love for a woman is obviously conditional if he's demanding a baby before commitment
Posted: at 23-03-2010 10:20 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tuks at 23-03-2010 10:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Oluwatoyin001 on 23-03-2010 10:20 AM

Not in a million years will i allow a man to impregnate me outside wedlock.

A man's love for a woman is obviously conditional if he's demanding a baby before commitment
In sum cases,its because of d pressure 4rm d family,n not dat his luv is 'conditional'.....I definitely do not support diz school of though,n i think it shud be discouraged...
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- slimshaddy-8 at 23-03-2010 11:25 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Oluwatoyin001 on 23-03-2010 10:20 AM

Not in a million years will i allow a man to impregnate me outside wedlock.

A man's love for a woman is obviously conditional if he's demanding a baby before commitment



look lady are you aware  that alot of men this days don't want to commit to one woman through marriage. like i said in my
previous comment, for a man to take this step either by asking a woman to get prgnant for him before marriage or otherwise
is a very big step and the man must truly love the woman. i know there are millions of ladies out there that would say yes if the condition for marriage is to first get pregnant. i just hope that the young ladies on here raising eyebrows to this issues don't lose their chances to marriage.
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- sulakishop at 23-03-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago)
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Then be prepared to face the unprecedented...

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