A case for pregnancy before marriage? (Page 6)

Date: 10-03-2010 10:29 pm (15 years ago) | Author: J. Omowonuola O.
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- diliduo at 16-03-2010 06:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Sometimes it's a meana to an end....the end  could be the need for a child, or marriage, and sometimes it backfires and becomes an "abomination".
Posted: at 16-03-2010 06:22 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- sulakishop at 16-03-2010 10:41 PM (15 years ago)
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ghhrrr...

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- albby at 17-03-2010 11:46 AM (15 years ago)
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 ???Though the bible condems premarital sex which may lead to pregnancy.I also want to see it from the pespective of the fact that some ladies after series of abortion finds it difficult to get pregnant after weddlock, some after commiting all manner of atrocities will run to church for an unsuspecting inocent man to marry, such weddings are characterised by childlessness.
Base on this facts, men should be sure of who they get married to. YES God gives children, but heaven help those who help themselves. Angry
Posted: at 17-03-2010 11:46 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- buroma at 17-03-2010 11:52 AM (15 years ago)
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it is good to have pregnancy and ven give birth before marriage,ow ever there must be a binding agreement between both families.
this is because most people get into problems from attack from black forces on thier wedding day .so do a secret wedding between family members only and go for your blessing marriage after 2 or 3 issues.
Posted: at 17-03-2010 11:52 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- sulakishop at 17-03-2010 03:43 PM (15 years ago)
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What about forces as a result of series of abortion?

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- desisado at 17-03-2010 04:09 PM (15 years ago)
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Is not a sensible thing to do, why? cos is not God's kind of marriage
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- wunzie at 17-03-2010 05:37 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: sulakishop on 15-03-2010 01:45 PM
Yoruba or otherwise, Angelie must comply...
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What would happen if Angelie does not comply?

Posted: at 17-03-2010 05:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 17-03-2010 05:53 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: esoo on 16-03-2010 11:26 AM
It depend on the Man....because most of the ladies do abortion..jduring the early 20´s and have damage themself....and the order class has grown their age nearly 40´s...it will be difficult for such ladies to get pregnancy.....it´s only God´s intervention that those sets of ladies get Children´....


On the contrary, i think it's a joint decision. The woman 'must' be willing to go to the alter with pregnancy.

Posted: at 17-03-2010 05:53 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 17-03-2010 05:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 16-03-2010 01:33 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures


not for childless marriage purpose...but for a guranteed position as a rich man's wife....



Am sure you are kidding.

Posted: at 17-03-2010 05:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 17-03-2010 06:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: desisado on 17-03-2010 04:09 PM
Is not a sensible thing to do, why? cos is not God's kind of marriage





You can say that again. Grin

Posted: at 17-03-2010 06:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- luvnott at 17-03-2010 08:12 PM (15 years ago)
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so is marriage only for child bearing? common things has change we live a modern days:) Huh?
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- buroma at 18-03-2010 09:27 AM (15 years ago)
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wummyevans why are you talking like a baby. dont you know that if you dont phyuk these girls will not respect you ,they will take you for a fool who knows nothing. You will spend d money for your developement on her only to find out that someone else is sexing her and she keeps telling you jesus is the way the truth and the .......
wummi do you know that if you are dating a virgin she will be behaving to you any how. she can tell you she is quitting at any time all because of her virginity but when you phyuk her she will not use that statement on you again.
lets stop deceiving ourselves.this days you need to phyuk well so as to retain your relationship- let the dishonest tell me its a lie
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- sulakishop at 18-03-2010 09:53 AM (15 years ago)
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One man's meat is another's poison. As for me, Angelie must be pregnant before our wedding or...

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- slimshaddy-8 at 18-03-2010 11:07 AM (15 years ago)
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who is Angelie? is she in nigerpal
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- jannyluvshine at 18-03-2010 01:19 PM (15 years ago)
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i think it's rite and also wrong!!!!!!!!!!!
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- onchedu at 18-03-2010 01:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 11-03-2010 09:44 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 11-03-2010 12:14 AM
Shawara!



hehehehe.... ban gane ba?

Ba ki ane ba? toh Bari n ba ki labari.

If a man wants u cs of the babies he can get from U then u need to question his love for U. Every mature person knows that men love attention and babies steal attention. Do the maths.

It's not like we dont want babies. We just usually don't think of them first and when we do U gals better start wondeinr if U are anymore than legal "borning" machines.

So much can happen between pregnancy and marriage. Better to keep it where it belongs. Too many what if's aren't healthy.
Posted: at 18-03-2010 01:30 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-03-2010 02:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 18-03-2010 01:30 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 11-03-2010 09:44 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 11-03-2010 12:14 AM
Shawara!



hehehehe.... ban gane ba?

Ba ki ane ba? toh Bari n ba ki labari.

If a man wants u cs of the babies he can get from U then u need to question his love for U. Every mature person knows that men love attention and babies steal attention. Do the maths.

It's not like we dont want babies. We just usually don't think of them first and when we do U gals better start wondeinr if U are anymore than legal "borning" machines.

So much can happen between pregnancy and marriage. Better to keep it where it belongs. Too many what if's aren't healthy.

So what are u saying, that when baby comes before marriage, the man is not serious..or marriage may never come ?
Posted: at 18-03-2010 02:02 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 18-03-2010 03:32 PM (15 years ago)
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I didnt say either of those now did I? I'm saying when a man is more interested in U having his baby than he is in respecting U enuf to honour U in marriage before getting the babies, if U can both agree on that, then U myt want to raise eyebrows.
Posted: at 18-03-2010 03:32 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 18-03-2010 03:36 PM (15 years ago)
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Just because U have sex with a man doesnt make him love U. Just because U have a child(ren) for a man won't make him marry U. Most girls are under the misconception that if U f**k him well  or just let him have sex with U he'l luv U and if U tell him Ur carrying his child he'l take U to the altar. Fa fa fa foul!

Don't "reward" prematurely. The competition myt never be concluded.
Posted: at 18-03-2010 03:36 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 18-03-2010 04:16 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmm, there is big atom of truth here,,, PEOPLE !!

Posted: at 18-03-2010 04:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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