Many bois think that there is no place for chivalry these days. Gals may insist that they are independent and prefer doing things themselves. But being a little chivalrous at times never hurts. Every gal likes being treated specially. So opening the car door for your gal or pulling the chair back for her somewhere always earns you brownie points. Your gal will love you for the attention. Hope you guyz understood.
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in ;)
Posted: at 7-06-2010 12:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
igboprincess at 10-06-2010 11:14 PM (14 years ago) (f)
This is a good topic but unfortunately I believe Male Machoism frightened the men from showing their softer side.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 11:14 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
This is bullshit. The man is supposed to be gentle and caring, but he's also got to be realistic. This is naija, and our women most often dont appreciate these gestures cos they're not used to them.
Hey, I didnt mean to say that......slip of tongue
Posted: at 11-06-2010 12:20 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
This is bullshit. The man is supposed to be gentle and caring, but he's also got to be realistic. This is naija, and our women most often dont appreciate these gestures cos they're not used to them.
There is a great difficulty here: we live in a culture that has forgotten how to love like that. However, for relationships to survive the long haul we have to learn to love a little differently; we have to learn to love not just 'because of' but 'in spite of'
FAKE PROFILES DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT, UNLESS PEOPLE HIDE BEHIND THEM TO SPIT VENOM. SHOW THE BOLDNESS OF A LION NEXT TIME......USE YOUR ORIGINAL PROFILE!!
Posted: at 12-06-2010 03:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 12-06-2010 03:56 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: OB3ICE on 11-06-2010 12:20 AM
This is bullshit. The man is supposed to be gentle and caring, but he's also got to be realistic. This is naija, and our women most often dont appreciate these gestures cos they're not used to them.
Just try and see if I will not appreciate them..........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 12-06-2010 03:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 12-06-2010 05:01 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 12-06-2010 04:23 PM
Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 12-06-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 12-06-2010 05:01 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 12-06-2010 04:23 PM
Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!!
Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 12-06-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: divineproject on 12-06-2010 05:33 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 12-06-2010 05:01 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 12-06-2010 04:23 PM
Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!!
Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally!
We?Hard,my dear!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 12-06-2010 05:41 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 12-06-2010 05:01 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 12-06-2010 04:23 PM
Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!!
WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish
Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 12-06-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 12-06-2010 05:33 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 12-06-2010 05:01 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 12-06-2010 04:23 PM
Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!!
Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally!
Lazy woman---always want to be petted like a child even wen you are a mother? I sorry for you?
Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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