Top 3 Reasons Why Couples Divorce (Page 2)

Date: 12-07-2010 4:07 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- XxSkyGurlXx at 12-07-2010 11:02 PM (14 years ago)
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nt all divorce re ugly o
Posted: at 12-07-2010 11:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 12-07-2010 11:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 12-07-2010 05:52 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-07-2010 05:31 PM
For many, divorce is like a nightmare. It is also regarded as the worst phase in someone's life. Usually, a person confronts such phase when they tie their knot with the wrong person and later their relationship comes at stake. But divorce is not the end of life. It can be considered as a new beginning. A person can start a new and happy married life after divorce by finding the right partner. To help people from confronting such consequences in the future and find the perfect partner, divorce records are maintained in the U.S. The records are easily accessible which help them in collecting more details about their would-be life partner. The records can also be utilized in varied purposes.
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That is where you are wrong Sophie. A lady that is divorce according to the bible should not be married again unless that man is dead or if she is remarrying the same person. Persons should always know what they are doing when entering into marriage. As for me I will never marry to a divorce man.

tumb up for you ksurrina
exerience really is the best teacher
Posted: at 12-07-2010 11:21 PM (14 years ago) | Grande Master
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- ajanni at 12-07-2010 11:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 12-07-2010 05:52 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-07-2010 05:31 PM
For many, divorce is like a nightmare. It is also regarded as the worst phase in someone's life. Usually, a person confronts such phase when they tie their knot with the wrong person and later their relationship comes at stake. But divorce is not the end of life. It can be considered as a new beginning. A person can start a new and happy married life after divorce by finding the right partner. To help people from confronting such consequences in the future and find the perfect partner, divorce records are maintained in the U.S. The records are easily accessible which help them in collecting more details about their would-be life partner. The records can also be utilized in varied purposes.
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That is where you are wrong Sophie. A lady that is divorce according to the bible should not be married again unless that man is dead or if she is remarrying the same person. Persons should always know what they are doing when entering into marriage. As for me I will never marry to a divorce man.
Posted: at 12-07-2010 11:25 PM (14 years ago) | Grande Master
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- ceejay58 at 12-07-2010 11:53 PM (14 years ago)
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was here.
Posted: at 12-07-2010 11:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- oceannaija at 13-07-2010 06:39 AM (14 years ago)
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M.I.S... Real talk
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- oceannaija at 13-07-2010 06:41 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-07-2010 06:24 PM
conflict of laws

I guess you can teach us better in this topic
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- bittersweet at 13-07-2010 06:43 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 12-07-2010 05:52 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-07-2010 05:31 PM
For many, divorce is like a nightmare. It is also regarded as the worst phase in someone's life. Usually, a person confronts such phase when they tie their knot with the wrong person and later their relationship comes at stake. But divorce is not the end of life. It can be considered as a new beginning. A person can start a new and happy married life after divorce by finding the right partner. To help people from confronting such consequences in the future and find the perfect partner, divorce records are maintained in the U.S. The records are easily accessible which help them in collecting more details about their would-be life partner. The records can also be utilized in varied purposes.
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That is where you are wrong Sophie. A lady that is divorce according to the bible should not be married again unless that man is dead or if she is remarrying the same person. Persons should always know what they are doing when entering into marriage. As for me I will never marry to a divorce man.
Posted: at 13-07-2010 06:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ajanni at 13-07-2010 07:37 AM (14 years ago)
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why Huh??
Posted: at 13-07-2010 07:37 AM (14 years ago) | Grande Master
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- bittersweet at 13-07-2010 07:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ajanni on 13-07-2010 07:37 AM
why Huh??

Why what?
Posted: at 13-07-2010 07:39 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2010 07:50 AM (14 years ago)
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While there were huge increases in divorce after divorce is legalized or becomes more easily available, that change in the law itself is not even necessarily the trigger. Although it's debated, what is sometimes blamed the trigger for the U.S. increase in divorce is the availability of a "no-fault" divorces. That's when some argue the rates skyrocketed.
 
But in that critique, there's an embedded presumption that the divorces are really "no fault." And that the couples who get them are taking are the easy way out, when, in fact, that really may not be the case. I'll admit that's an understandable reaction, if you just look at the timeline on divorce.
 
You might disapprove of the number of divorces in general, but then think about your friend who got divorced. Think about your own divorce. Because in critiques of the rising numbers of divorces, we forget that divorces aren't numbers. They are relationships. And just because it's easy to check a box on a form doesn't mean it's easy to end the relationship. It can be devastating.
 
And just because the form says "No fault" – that isn't necessarily really be the truth. The couple knows what's happened. They have just decided to keep it to themselves.
 
People get divorced for really good reasons.
 
   
For example, from 20 to 30 percent of divorced marriages involved domestic violence. Separated and divorced women are 14 times more likely to report that they've been victims of violence. A study in Canada found that 50 percent of divorced women there had been abuse victims. 4.
 
   
It used to be that wife-beating wasn't a reason to leave your husband. In some cultures, it still isn't. (And in case we think those cultures are so distant – it wasn't until 1992 that the U.S. Catholic Bishops issued a statement that women didn't have to stay married in an abusive relationship – because Catholic wives thought (or were being told) that they had to stay and save their marriage.) 5.
 
Once you start adding in infidelity, alcohol and drug abuse, the idea that divorces are really "no fault" becomes a farce. Yes, of course, there are the opportunist divorces as well, but how would we protect those with real reasons to divorce without getting them, too? What's the alternative?
 
 
Posted: at 13-07-2010 07:50 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 13-07-2010 07:52 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2010 07:50 AM
While there were huge increases in divorce after divorce is legalized or becomes more easily available, that change in the law itself is not even necessarily the trigger. Although it's debated, what is sometimes blamed the trigger for the U.S. increase in divorce is the availability of a "no-fault" divorces. That's when some argue the rates skyrocketed.
 
But in that critique, there's an embedded presumption that the divorces are really "no fault." And that the couples who get them are taking are the easy way out, when, in fact, that really may not be the case. I'll admit that's an understandable reaction, if you just look at the timeline on divorce.
 
You might disapprove of the number of divorces in general, but then think about your friend who got divorced. Think about your own divorce. Because in critiques of the rising numbers of divorces, we forget that divorces aren't numbers. They are relationships. And just because it's easy to check a box on a form doesn't mean it's easy to end the relationship. It can be devastating.
 
And just because the form says "No fault" – that isn't necessarily really be the truth. The couple knows what's happened. They have just decided to keep it to themselves.
 
People get divorced for really good reasons.
 
   
For example, from 20 to 30 percent of divorced marriages involved domestic violence. Separated and divorced women are 14 times more likely to report that they've been victims of violence. A study in Canada found that 50 percent of divorced women there had been abuse victims. 4.
 
   
It used to be that wife-beating wasn't a reason to leave your husband. In some cultures, it still isn't. (And in case we think those cultures are so distant – it wasn't until 1992 that the U.S. Catholic Bishops issued a statement that women didn't have to stay married in an abusive relationship – because Catholic wives thought (or were being told) that they had to stay and save their marriage.) 5.
 
Once you start adding in infidelity, alcohol and drug abuse, the idea that divorces are really "no fault" becomes a farce. Yes, of course, there are the opportunist divorces as well, but how would we protect those with real reasons to divorce without getting them, too? What's the alternative?
 
 
thank God for u... nice talks now flows out of ur mouth
Posted: at 13-07-2010 07:52 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2010 07:53 AM (14 years ago)
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LOL
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- oceannaija at 13-07-2010 07:57 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 07:39 AM
Quote from: ajanni on 13-07-2010 07:37 AM
why Huh??

Why what?
Why the sentence...
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- bittersweet at 13-07-2010 08:00 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oceannaija on 13-07-2010 07:57 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 07:39 AM
Quote from: ajanni on 13-07-2010 07:37 AM
why Huh??

Why what?
Why the sentence...


You mean what I underlined?
Because it's how it should be!
Ppl should think very well before jumping in getting married!
Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:00 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- oceannaija at 13-07-2010 08:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 08:00 AM
Quote from: oceannaija on 13-07-2010 07:57 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 07:39 AM
Quote from: ajanni on 13-07-2010 07:37 AM
why Huh??

Why what?
Why the sentence...


You mean what I underlined?
Because it's how it should be!
Ppl should think very well before jumping in getting married!
Yes, why you prefer divorce men when single guys are waiting for you?... lol
Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:09 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- oceannaija at 13-07-2010 08:15 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oceannaija on 13-07-2010 08:09 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 08:00 AM
Quote from: oceannaija on 13-07-2010 07:57 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 07:39 AM
Quote from: ajanni on 13-07-2010 07:37 AM
why Huh??

Why what?
Why the sentence...


You mean what I underlined?
Because it's how it should be!
Ppl should think very well before jumping in getting married!
Yes, why you prefer divorce men when single guys are waiting for you?... lol
OK now I got your meaning and I think you are right.
But I don't think there is one who would prefer divorce man unless with reasons
Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:15 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2010 08:18 AM (14 years ago)
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me am passing
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- esonu at 13-07-2010 08:23 AM (14 years ago)
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wait for me oooooo..make i join u for ur picanto or ur boss say make u no carry person with it
Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2010 08:25 AM (14 years ago)
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lol
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- esonu at 13-07-2010 08:26 AM (14 years ago)
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brb
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