Quote from: waco on 28-07-2010 11:46 AM some people dey talk say sef if u do traditional finish, dem no go allow u go with their daughter till u do white wedding. Is it fair? My big brother in Nigeria did his introduction last month and will be going to do IME-EGO this coming saturday after which his wife will be coming home with him. And this is Nnewi Anambra State. I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Must u announce every activity in ur family here? ReplyHere comes d Great King Xtervaganza 
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Maybe if you read the what I was replying to, you would write something so ignorant on here. ReplyI'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: waco on 28-07-2010 11:46 AM some people dey talk say sef That must be an agreement from the start otherwise u will become a tom boy to her parent. Be the man from day one and take ful charge, dnt allow them to have a say in ur marriage. if u do traditional finish, dem no go allow u go with their daughter till u do white wedding. Is it fair?
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Quote from: solid_solid on 28-07-2010 11:30 AM Quote from: bomsiluv on 28-07-2010 10:49 AM Waco, If d man no gree do court marriage no marriage for me and the man......... na by fire by force EASY NA .... Okey.................... na becos of you i wan take am easy
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 11:55 AM I will advice you to not step your foot inside the court for any court marriage. That is an easy way to give away everything you have to the woman because now you are giving her full control in your marriage to do whatever she wants to do. Nigerians need to stay out of the mindset that everything the western world does is CIVILIZATION. Who even coined that word civilization? and are you telling me that Jesus is not civilized? Nigerians are really getting brainwashed small small by US and Europe. Please continue with your so Called Civilization and all women in Nigeria will end up unmarried or divorce before they even clock 40 years. I detest this court marriage from day one and any wise man will not do it. Court wedding for what. The best form of wedding is the traditional wedding and any other one is ceremonial, must a man close a branch of a bank b4 he will agree that he is married. Court wedding is not civilization, is bondage.
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Quote from: waco on 28-07-2010 11:17 AM Quote from: dguy on 28-07-2010 11:11 AM For property sharing purposes I see. why then do i need to do such? OMO i no do again, if she no ready to accept only church, na she sabi The problem may not be from u . Depending on where u come from your family may be a very big obstacle and only a court wedding can give your wife the needed security "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 28-07-2010 12:28 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 11:55 AM I will advice you to not step your foot inside the court for any court marriage. That is an easy way to give away everything you have to the woman because now you are giving her full control in your marriage to do whatever she wants to do. Nigerians need to stay out of the mindset that everything the western world does is CIVILIZATION. Who even coined that word civilization? and are you telling me that Jesus is not civilized? Nigerians are really getting brainwashed small small by US and Europe. Please continue with your so Called Civilization and all women in Nigeria will end up unmarried or divorce before they even clock 40 years. I detest this court marriage from day one and any wise man will not do it. Court wedding for what. The best form of wedding is the traditional wedding and any other one is ceremonial, must a man close a branch of a bank b4 he will agree that he is married. Court wedding is not civilization, is bondage.i dont agree with you there . Court wedding is the cheapest form of marriage in Nigeria . You can do that with only abaut 4 poeple attending and you may not even print a card or hire a car or cook anything etc "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-07-2010 12:34 PM Quote from: Treasure2 on 28-07-2010 12:28 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 11:55 AM I will advice you to not step your foot inside the court for any court marriage. That is an easy way to give away everything you have to the woman because now you are giving her full control in your marriage to do whatever she wants to do. Nigerians need to stay out of the mindset that everything the western world does is CIVILIZATION. Who even coined that word civilization? and are you telling me that Jesus is not civilized? Nigerians are really getting brainwashed small small by US and Europe. Please continue with your so Called Civilization and all women in Nigeria will end up unmarried or divorce before they even clock 40 years. I detest this court marriage from day one and any wise man will not do it. Court wedding for what. The best form of wedding is the traditional wedding and any other one is ceremonial, must a man close a branch of a bank b4 he will agree that he is married. Court wedding is not civilization, is bondage.i dont agree with you there . Court wedding is the cheapest form of marriage in Nigeria . You can do that with only abaut 4 poeple attending and you may not even print a card or hire a car or cook anything etc But at the same time.. it is the easiest way for a man to sign away his years of hardwork. I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: HearMyCry on 28-07-2010 12:39 PM See fear No it is not fear... I call it not being Dumb. I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 12:36 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-07-2010 12:34 PM Quote from: Treasure2 on 28-07-2010 12:28 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 11:55 AM I will advice you to not step your foot inside the court for any court marriage. That is an easy way to give away everything you have to the woman because now you are giving her full control in your marriage to do whatever she wants to do. Nigerians need to stay out of the mindset that everything the western world does is CIVILIZATION. Who even coined that word civilization? and are you telling me that Jesus is not civilized? Nigerians are really getting brainwashed small small by US and Europe. Please continue with your so Called Civilization and all women in Nigeria will end up unmarried or divorce before they even clock 40 years. I detest this court marriage from day one and any wise man will not do it. Court wedding for what. The best form of wedding is the traditional wedding and any other one is ceremonial, must a man close a branch of a bank b4 he will agree that he is married. Court wedding is not civilization, is bondage.i dont agree with you there . Court wedding is the cheapest form of marriage in Nigeria . You can do that with only abaut 4 poeple attending and you may not even print a card or hire a car or cook anything etc But at the same time.. it is the easiest way for a man to sign away his years of hardwork. hey shatap. the calabarys in rivers state dia dowry and everything costs 1.4m.. and dis is d reason why most of dem dont get married rada dey stay in dia fadas house and bare kids. isnt it costly.. so u want to tell me now that after paying the dowry and the buying of box and costly fabrics, dats wort 1.4m u wud still go ahead and do church watever? thats is on one condition .. if ur woman will have the brain to get those items needed frm her mum or aunts.. and if only u got money u can do it. BOMA am i wrong or right? so when u spend that amount finish u go do church wedding after wedding u go go hungry put belle for ground like lizard abi? Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-07-2010 12:49 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 12:36 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-07-2010 12:34 PM Quote from: Treasure2 on 28-07-2010 12:28 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 11:55 AM I will advice you to not step your foot inside the court for any court marriage. That is an easy way to give away everything you have to the woman because now you are giving her full control in your marriage to do whatever she wants to do. Nigerians need to stay out of the mindset that everything the western world does is CIVILIZATION. Who even coined that word civilization? and are you telling me that Jesus is not civilized? Nigerians are really getting brainwashed small small by US and Europe. Please continue with your so Called Civilization and all women in Nigeria will end up unmarried or divorce before they even clock 40 years. I detest this court marriage from day one and any wise man will not do it. Court wedding for what. The best form of wedding is the traditional wedding and any other one is ceremonial, must a man close a branch of a bank b4 he will agree that he is married. Court wedding is not civilization, is bondage.i dont agree with you there . Court wedding is the cheapest form of marriage in Nigeria . You can do that with only abaut 4 poeple attending and you may not even print a card or hire a car or cook anything etc But at the same time.. it is the easiest way for a man to sign away his years of hardwork. hey shatap. the calabarys in rivers state dia dowry and everything costs 1.4m.. and dis is d reason why most of dem dont get married rada dey stay in dia fadas house and bare kids. isnt it costly.. so u want to tell me now that after paying the dowry and the buying of box and costly fabrics, dats wort 1.4m u wud still go ahead and do church watever? thats is on one condition .. if ur woman will have the brain to get those items needed frm her mum or aunts.. and if only u got money u can do it. BOMA am i wrong or right? so when u spend that amount finish u go do church wedding after wedding u go go hungry put belle for ground like lizard abi? I would rather spend now and secure my future THAN not spend now and Sign away my future. that's the simplest way to put it. By the way the SHATAP is uncalled for. Watch it woman. I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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onyiis my sista, i have witness a court wedding that cost alot. Immediately the court wedding ended, every body went to the reception. Every woman is not the same and u know we women, we like gathering. Reply
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-07-2010 12:30 PM Quote from: waco on 28-07-2010 11:17 AM Quote from: dguy on 28-07-2010 11:11 AM For property sharing purposes I see. why then do i need to do such? OMO i no do again, if she no ready to accept only church, na she sabi The problem may not be from u . Depending on where u come from your family may be a very big obstacle and only a court wedding can give your wife the needed security
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IF YOU ARE A WOMAN, YOU CAN ONLY KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF COURT MARRIAGE WHEN GET MARRIED INTO A PROBLEMATIC HOME. I SUGGEST IT THE BEST FOR EVERY WIFE, BECOS IT MAKES A HUSBAND THINKS TWICE BEFORE HIS ACTION. A MAN CAN DECIDE TO IGNORE WHATEVER CONSEQUENCES THAT CUD RESULT IN TRADITIONAL/CHURCH MARRIAGE CUSTOM, EXPECIALLY IF HE IS NOT OF THE SAME TRIBE WITH THE WIFE. IF THE PENALTY FOR VOILETING COURT MARRIAGE IS STRICTLY ENFORCED BY THE GOVERNMENT, I WILL OPT THAT EVERY PROSPECTIVE WIFE SHOULD INSIST ON COURT MARRIAGE TO HELP REDUCE THE NUMBER OF DIVORCE CASES THAT IS NOW ON THE INCREASE. SINCE IT HAS TO DO WITH THE LAW OF PEACEFUL CO-EXISTENCE BETWEEN PERSONS, THE GOVT HAS A BIG RULE TO PLAY. ReplyMAN AND WOMAN HAVE TURNED MARRIAGE INTO GAME PLAYING, SO THE VITAL (SPIRITUAL) ASPECT OF IT BECAME DRIANED OVERTIME. PEOPLE NO LONGER RESPECT THE VERY ESSENCE OF MARRIAGE TODAY. IT WAS NOT SO IN THE PAST. LAWS AND PENALTIES ARE MORE EFFECTIVE WHERE SIN AND INIQUITY IS THE ORDER OF THE DAY. HENCE, THE COURT (LEGAL) MARRIAGE.
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It is necessary but not mandatory............... ReplyA LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 12:54 PM Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-07-2010 12:49 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 12:36 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-07-2010 12:34 PM Quote from: Treasure2 on 28-07-2010 12:28 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 11:55 AM I will advice you to not step your foot inside the court for any court marriage. That is an easy way to give away everything you have to the woman because now you are giving her full control in your marriage to do whatever she wants to do. Nigerians need to stay out of the mindset that everything the western world does is CIVILIZATION. Who even coined that word civilization? and are you telling me that Jesus is not civilized? Nigerians are really getting brainwashed small small by US and Europe. Please continue with your so Called Civilization and all women in Nigeria will end up unmarried or divorce before they even clock 40 years. I detest this court marriage from day one and any wise man will not do it. Court wedding for what. The best form of wedding is the traditional wedding and any other one is ceremonial, must a man close a branch of a bank b4 he will agree that he is married. Court wedding is not civilization, is bondage.i dont agree with you there . Court wedding is the cheapest form of marriage in Nigeria . You can do that with only abaut 4 poeple attending and you may not even print a card or hire a car or cook anything etc But at the same time.. it is the easiest way for a man to sign away his years of hardwork. hey shatap. the calabarys in rivers state dia dowry and everything costs 1.4m.. and dis is d reason why most of dem dont get married rada dey stay in dia fadas house and bare kids. isnt it costly.. so u want to tell me now that after paying the dowry and the buying of box and costly fabrics, dats wort 1.4m u wud still go ahead and do church watever? thats is on one condition .. if ur woman will have the brain to get those items needed frm her mum or aunts.. and if only u got money u can do it. BOMA am i wrong or right? so when u spend that amount finish u go do church wedding after wedding u go go hungry put belle for ground like lizard abi? I would rather spend now and secure my future THAN not spend now and Sign away my future. that's the simplest way to put it. By the way the SHATAP is uncalled for. Watch it woman. so u dey vex cos i say shatap.. vex well well.... shatap again. come beat me make i c u na.. Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-07-2010 01:24 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 12:54 PM Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-07-2010 12:49 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 12:36 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-07-2010 12:34 PM Quote from: Treasure2 on 28-07-2010 12:28 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-07-2010 11:55 AM I will advice you to not step your foot inside the court for any court marriage. That is an easy way to give away everything you have to the woman because now you are giving her full control in your marriage to do whatever she wants to do. Nigerians need to stay out of the mindset that everything the western world does is CIVILIZATION. Who even coined that word civilization? and are you telling me that Jesus is not civilized? Nigerians are really getting brainwashed small small by US and Europe. Please continue with your so Called Civilization and all women in Nigeria will end up unmarried or divorce before they even clock 40 years. I detest this court marriage from day one and any wise man will not do it. Court wedding for what. The best form of wedding is the traditional wedding and any other one is ceremonial, must a man close a branch of a bank b4 he will agree that he is married. Court wedding is not civilization, is bondage.i dont agree with you there . Court wedding is the cheapest form of marriage in Nigeria . You can do that with only abaut 4 poeple attending and you may not even print a card or hire a car or cook anything etc But at the same time.. it is the easiest way for a man to sign away his years of hardwork. hey shatap. the calabarys in rivers state dia dowry and everything costs 1.4m.. and dis is d reason why most of dem dont get married rada dey stay in dia fadas house and bare kids. isnt it costly.. so u want to tell me now that after paying the dowry and the buying of box and costly fabrics, dats wort 1.4m u wud still go ahead and do church watever? thats is on one condition .. if ur woman will have the brain to get those items needed frm her mum or aunts.. and if only u got money u can do it. BOMA am i wrong or right? so when u spend that amount finish u go do church wedding after wedding u go go hungry put belle for ground like lizard abi? I would rather spend now and secure my future THAN not spend now and Sign away my future. that's the simplest way to put it. By the way the SHATAP is uncalled for. Watch it woman. so u dey vex cos i say shatap.. vex well well.... shatap again. come beat me make i c u na.. I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Majority of women like and want it while majority of men hate and dislike it! Therefore it's left for the couple to decide on it ReplyLoving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
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