WEDDING AFTER CHILDREN, HOW UNA SEEM AM? (Page 6)

Date: 10-08-2010 12:14 pm (14 years ago) | Author: St. Inem-JEPH
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- Treasure2 at 10-08-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago)
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wetin u wan talk when him dey 4 ur back

wallas why be say u no dey gree me rest?
Bc u sabi tory dem well well.

which kind tori?
Sopie baby u sabi tori dem well well ooooooooooooo. i hail my dear. How u dey.
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- peaceben at 10-08-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago)
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wedding before child bearing, God did not say after a man and a woman have children will they be join together as one. So to me children should be the secondary will marriage should be the primary thing.
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 10-08-2010 04:24 PM (14 years ago)
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FROM YOUR STAND-POINT, GIVE YA OBSERVATIONS AND YA HONEST COMMENT.

Do yu mean 2 people meeting each other and making Babies be4 they get married, or some1 meeting another who already has Kids?
Na u sabi.

Just tryin 2 Understand the Post My Treasure

Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 10-08-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago)
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FROM YOUR STAND-POINT, GIVE YA OBSERVATIONS AND YA HONEST COMMENT.

Do yu mean 2 people meeting each other and making Babies be4 they get married, or some1 meeting another who already has Kids?

THE FORMER.

Well l don't believe Procreation should be the Prior Reason for Getting Married, so dat will not be an issue for me

Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 10-08-2010 04:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Na wa oooooooooooo.There is a difference between wedding and marriage.
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 10-08-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago)
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FROM YOUR STAND-POINT, GIVE YA OBSERVATIONS AND YA HONEST COMMENT.

Do yu mean 2 people meeting each other and making Babies be4 they get married, or some1 meeting another who already has Kids?

THE FORMER.

Well l don't believe Procreation should be the Prior Reason for Getting Married, so dat will not be an issue for me

And Ideally, Children should Come after Marriage

The Couples are more Responsible that way

Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 10-08-2010 04:28 PM (14 years ago)
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FROM YOUR STAND-POINT, GIVE YA OBSERVATIONS AND YA HONEST COMMENT.

Do yu mean 2 people meeting each other and making Babies be4 they get married, or some1 meeting another who already has Kids?

THE FORMER.

Well l don't believe Procreation should be the Prior Reason for Getting Married, so dat will not be an issue for me

Not a common point of view, Kennee,but I agree with u! Wink

Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 10-08-2010 04:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 10-08-2010 04:26 PM
Na wa oooooooooooo.There is a difference between wedding and marriage.

Eee, yeah! Yu're Right... Our Error

Children Should Come after Wedding

Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-08-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago)
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HAVE YOU NOT SEEN SERIES OF LADIES WITHOUT AN ABORTION YET NO ISSUE AFTER MARRIAGE. HAVE YOU GOTTEN MEDICAL REPORTS OF SOME PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN WRITEN OFF FROM GETTING PREGNANT DUE TO CERTAIN LIFESTYLE, YET THIER STORY CHANGED?... TRUELY, FORGIVENESS IS DIVINE. YOUR CONDITION DOES CHANGE GOD'S MIND AGAINST YOU. INSTEAD HE WILL SHOW HIMSELF STRONG TO BLESS YOU IN ORDER FOR YOU TO ACKNOWLADGE HIM. HE IS CALLED SINNERS BEST FRIEND.[/color]

pastor INEMX

Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Inemx at 10-08-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago)
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FROM YOUR STAND-POINT, GIVE YA OBSERVATIONS AND YA HONEST COMMENT.

Do yu mean 2 people meeting each other and making Babies be4 they get married[/b], or some1 meeting another who already has Kids?
Na u sabi.

Just tryin 2 Understand the Post My Treasure

WE ARE AT THE UNDERLINED
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 10-08-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Gbam.
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- solojaro at 10-08-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago)
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@poster....are you talking about the church wedding or traditional wedding?
Weldding is wedding, wheather English or Africa, all is the same.  The fact is that it is not good for a woman and a man to start living together and bear children with out the blessing of God and the parents. Because in such a family their will be no blessing and any thing can happen.
And wat if they cant afford a wedding?.
A well blessed wedding don't even need much money to weldd the man and the woman.
My point is becos sum couples cant afford this tht's why they have atleast one kid befor wedding ,becos time might not be on their side(due to ageing) ,or one problem or the other. family is money,you need money to keep one.mostly in this present world.and moreover sum couples do get blessings from God and from their parents even befor the wedding day.God knows ur heartdesires and He grants ur heartdesires.tht's why when you are in a serious relationship you need to call upon God to see you through,cos without God's blessings from tht strt you both wont be able to even be together till the wedding.its only God's grace.


THAT CANT STILL STAND FOR A GOOD EXCUSE. SOMEGUYS ACTUALLY WANT TO BE SURE THAT THE WOMAN CAN MOTHER A CHILD AND SAME GOES TO THE WOMAN. THE OTHER IS DISRESPECT FOR CULTURE /TRADITION. OUR GOD IS THE GOD OF TRADITION, HE DOESNT BREAK LAWS. CHRIST ATTENDED A TRADITIONAL WEDDING AT CANAAN. REMEMBER? WAS IT A CHURCH WEDDING?
It is only fool who will marry some one that can not bear him a child, becuase before you get married to a lady, you must have known very well who she is and tthe family background.


OBJECTION MY LORD, CHILD BEARING ABSOLUTELY DIVINE. WE DO NOT KNOW HOW THEY ARE APPROVED FOR US, BUT WE APPRECIATE GOD FOR THEM. IT IS NOT BY WHOM WE ARE MARRY TO, IT IS A DIVINE PROJECT.
[/quote Yes aggreed, Child birth is a divine project, But what of when a lady has damage her womb due to series of abortions? you can not go for such a lady and expect a divine project.

HAVE YOU NOT SEEN SERIES OF LADIES WITHOUT AN ABORTION YET NO ISSUE AFTER MARRIAGE. HAVE YOU GOTTEN MEDICAL REPORTS OF SOME PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN WRITEN OFF FROM GETTING PREGNANT DUE TO CERTAIN LIFESTYLE, YET THIER STORY CHANGED?... TRUELY, FORGIVENESS IS DIVINE. YOUR CONDITION DOES CHANGE GOD'S MIND AGAINST YOU. INSTEAD HE WILL SHOW HIMSELF STRONG TO BLESS YOU IN ORDER FOR YOU TO ACKNOWLADGE HIM. HE IS CALLED SINNERS BEST FRIEND.
Yes, That if she turn back from her past life and seek the face of God and forgiveness.
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 10-08-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Ok

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- Treasure2 at 10-08-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 10-08-2010 04:24 PM
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Quote from: Kennee on 10-08-2010 04:10 PM
Quote from: Inemx on 10-08-2010 12:14 PM
FROM YOUR STAND-POINT, GIVE YA OBSERVATIONS AND YA HONEST COMMENT.

Do yu mean 2 people meeting each other and making Babies be4 they get married, or some1 meeting another who already has Kids?
Na u sabi.

Just tryin 2 Understand the Post My Treasure
Kennee na who come be ur Treasure?  Grin  Grin  Grin  Grin. i don tell u make u no water my gari.
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 10-08-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago)
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e don dey happen
na small small e go soon ripe
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 10-08-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 10-08-2010 04:29 PM
Quote from: onyin on 10-08-2010 04:26 PM
Na wa oooooooooooo.There is a difference between wedding and marriage.

Eee, yeah! Yu're Right... Our Error

Children Should Come after Wedding
lol.Once the ring is on her finger kids can come,wedding is not a do or die thing.
Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-08-2010 04:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Abi.
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- divineproject at 10-08-2010 04:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 10-08-2010 04:26 PM
Na wa oooooooooooo.There is a difference between wedding and marriage.

Educate us Pls.................

whats the difference..........

Posted: at 10-08-2010 04:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Inemx at 10-08-2010 04:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-08-2010 04:35 PM
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Quote from: Kennee on 10-08-2010 04:10 PM
Quote from: Inemx on 10-08-2010 12:14 PM
FROM YOUR STAND-POINT, GIVE YA OBSERVATIONS AND YA HONEST COMMENT.

Do yu mean 2 people meeting each other and making Babies be4 they get married, or some1 meeting another who already has Kids?
Na u sabi.


Just tryin 2 Understand the Post My Treasure
Kennee na who come be ur Treasure?  Grin  Grin  Grin  Grin. i don tell u make u no water my gari.

KENEE DE SEE DOUBLE FOR EVENING. LEAVE AM.
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- Inemx at 10-08-2010 04:47 PM (14 years ago)
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Na wa oooooooooooo.There is a difference between wedding and marriage.

Educate us Pls.................

whats the difference..........

DIVINE, ABEG HELP ME COPY DE NOTE, NA EVENING LECTURE... I DE GO HOUSE, MY ROOMATE DO GO FOR APPOINTMENT
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