IS IT FOOLISH TO GIVE/LEND UR B/F MONEY? AFTER BREAK-UP, CAN U STILL ASK 4 IT? (Page 2)

Quote from: temi07 on 16-08-2010 02:44 PM

First, do they both understand that he borrowed the money because he might just think she gave it to him as a gift to help him out. Now, if she really wants her money back she needs to stop playing nice and treat his arse to some royal embarrassment, well only after she asks first and he refuses ofcourse.

D guy borrowed it from her and she neva bothered 2 ask all thru d r/nship. At times she assists him whenever he's broke.  and dat is aside.

Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:18 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

peeping

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

@poster this guy never love ya friend, he only stayed in d  r/ship coz of what he is getting
i guess he has use her to achieve all his aim, squeeze dry b4 leaving her in shackles
anyway this shold also serves a warning or lesson to we single ladies. Attest ya love
first b4 helping a guy and dnt allow ya love surpasses the guy's own in order to avoid this type of a thing

Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

I think d girl isn't foolish cos wen u r in lov wit a guy, u wouldn't want 2 c him broke, especially wen u know u hav d money 2 help him, but i think she was 2 blind 2 know he doesn't love her n she wasn't thinkin wen she was always lendin him money. She lent him some money d first time n d guy didn't pay her back, instead he came 2 ask 4 another lending LOL n d girl stil gave d money 2 her. That was where she went wrong. always lendin but she neva asked him 4 d previous ones. In any case, they r no more together so i see no reason y she should leave her money wit d guy. She doesn't need 2 b hard on him or insult him, all she need do is ask 4 her money in a calm way, if he doesn't hav den give him sometime. After sometime she should go back 2 him n ask again, if she knows he has but he doen't want 2 give d money 2 her fine, she can den do whatever she likes. Mayb kick his D**K or break his head. Simple LOL.

Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

If the guy has a living conscience, he should pay her the money without stress as soon as she demands for it. Otherwise, she should forget about the money and treat it as double loss to her, unless she has a documented evidence that the money was a loan intended to be paid back. Then and only then can she sue for repayment.
Secondly, I think it is unwise to give out large sum of money to another person outside a marriage setting because even during courtship anything can happen. Someone may decide to change his/her mind about the other person. I dont usually advice training ones partner in school or giving money to start a business. If you should do that, then always consider that money as gone for good whatever the outcome of the relationship.

Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

This is a serous issue. So you guys should think twice making any comment.

Was it really a borrowed money, or did she gave him the money out of love?
(Because when some1 in love, you can't tell what will happen).

It isn't a strange thing, but what makes it serous is that the money
came from the lady's pocket and not the guy. Because if it happen
to be guy that spent for her, there is no way the guy will ever
ask for anything he had spent for her.

So, the girl need to answer the question frantically, was it
really given to him as a borrow?

If the answer is YES, then the girl should hesitate asking for
the money. But if the answer is NO, then she should forget about it.

ANYWAY, THE GUY IS A SHAMELESS GUY.

Posted: at 16-08-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

For the simple truth that NOT ALL RELATIONSHIP ENDS IN MARRIAGE should make u not to fall
victim for a guy and be spending ya money for sumthing u are not even sure of

This even reminds me of a lady who picks up a jobless man from d gutter, housed him, clothed him,
fed him and wen he later got a job, he left and got married to another lady with instant pregnancy
the lady almost died of emotional trauma.

Posted: at 16-08-2010 04:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Yes, it's hers and she should ask for it

Dupsy2

As for yur friends dat called her foolish for being nice and lending the wicked guy money, they're the foolish ones

But she should not have been so naive, cos maybe the friends knew the guy was not worth it, but she was blind, maybe.

The guys dat ask for money from their Girlfriends are mostly selfish and don't really care for anyone but themselves

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Yeah yu're Right

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero