IS IT FOOLISH TO GIVE/LEND UR B/F MONEY? AFTER BREAK-UP, CAN U STILL ASK 4 IT?

We shouldnt pretend like dis doesnt happen. A friend of mine was in a r/tnship wit a guy who promised her marriage. She gave him her whole heart and was committed to d r/ltnship. On different occassions, d guy borrowed some good sum of money from her. She at times used 2 give him money without him asking jst 2 assist him if he's broke. Now, the guy has ended the r/ltnship wit her 'cos he found sumone else, though she tried 2 let him go on a peaceful note. She kept quiet bout d money he's owing her 'cos she's so hurt, she doesnt knw if asking him bout it wud hurt her more, esp if d guy ignores her or doesnt give it 2 her. The guy on his own part jst kept quiet bout it too as if he didnt collect anytin from her. Sum guys can be callous, u know. Wen she opened up to me and sum of her friends, dey called her a fool for ever helpin a guy wit cash. But i dont tink she's foolish, or is she? Its more dan 6 months now and she needs d money, but doesnt want 2 hurt her feelings, since she has not fully gotten over d break-up.
So, my fellow NaijaPals, Is it possible 2 get ur money back(I mean only the ones he borrowed) with peace after break-up? and Is there anytin bad/wrong/foolish in givin/lending ur b/f money? Pls i nid candid advice on this.

Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

I don't think it's foolish to borrow him money, but he should have enough dignity and to not ask from her!
Anyway, she should ask for her money, if he lacks common sense and he didn't return it till now!

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

wat if d guy starts givin her excuses, dnt u tink it wil open old wounds?

Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

First, do they both understand that he borrowed the money because he might just think she gave it to him as a gift to help him out. Now, if she really wants her money back she needs to stop playing nice and treat his arse to some royal embarrassment, well only after she asks first and he refuses ofcourse.

Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

collect ya money with power

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

nak am for the windscreen, and all the motor glasses

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hmmmmmm well let her approach de guy, try to talk to him in a calmed way, i guess if it is a matured guy, he wouldnt mind remitting de debt cos if he doesnt, whatever curse de gurl lays on him will work so long as de gurl didnt disappoint him in any way

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

haba this man no be mature guy...how can he chop woman money and act like nothin--is that mature ke??

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

na lieee o..go and break him head wella xdxdxd

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

lolz

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Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero