abdulk at 17-08-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago) (m) come to think of it this money was borrowed and not asked for or given for free, there's a difference here. If a lady should ask for a loan and end a relationship its at the discretion of the man to let the money go or not to. It shouldn't be any different here. Posted: at 17-08-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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blessedme at 17-08-2010 11:59 AM (13 years ago) (f) bros thank you for that ans Posted: at 17-08-2010 11:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 17-08-2010 12:02 PM (13 years ago) (f) in d first place y will a total man go after a gurl wit d mindset that d lady will make his hands her bank account huh? Guys sometimes una dey fall we hands oo Posted: at 17-08-2010 12:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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in d first place y will a total man go after a gurl wit d mindset that d lady will make his hands her bank account huh?
Guys sometimes una dey fall we hands oo
and dey come professin all kind of lv 2 u, whereas dey hv plans Posted: at 17-08-2010 12:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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come to think of it this money was borrowed and not asked for or given for free, there's a difference here. If a lady should ask for a loan and end a relationship its at the discretion of the man to let the money go or not to. It shouldn't be any different here.
@poster this guy never love ya friend, he only stayed in d r/ship coz of what he is getting i guess he has use her to achieve all his aim, squeeze dry b4 leaving her in shackles anyway this shold also serves a warning or lesson to we single ladies. Attest ya love first b4 helping a guy and dnt allow ya love surpasses the guy's own in order to avoid this type of a thing
U harsh o Posted: at 17-08-2010 12:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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blessedme at 17-08-2010 12:50 PM (13 years ago) (f) yes na the guys wey dey dis days na gigolos them bi Posted: at 17-08-2010 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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bolster at 17-08-2010 01:08 PM (13 years ago) (f) There"s nothing absolutely wrong in lending or giving your boyfriend money cos its not written anywhere that the guys alone shoould do the spending but in this case your friend is really in need of this money amd i think the best thing to do is to see that he returns the money without any hesitancu esp now that they are no more together.Sorry dear someone much better is out there for you.I was once invovled in smth like this Posted: at 17-08-2010 01:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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yes na the guys wey dey dis days na gigolos them bi
true o! Dem ready 2 chop ya food, chop ya money and com f**k u on top of all dat, and dey tink dey r jst being smart. It's really a pity! Posted: at 17-08-2010 01:12 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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There"s nothing absolutely wrong in lending or giving your boyfriend money cos its not written anywhere that the guys alone shoould do the spending but in this case your friend is really in need of this money amd i think the best thing to do is to see that he returns the money without any hesitancu esp now that they are no more together.Sorry dear someone much better is out there for you.I was once invovled in smth like this
Oh i undstnd hw u feel 2, esp if it's d guy dat ended the r/tnshp. So, did u collect it back, and hw did u go bout it? Was it peaceful? Posted: at 17-08-2010 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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blessedme at 17-08-2010 01:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) yes na the guys wey dey dis days na gigolos them bi
true o! Dem ready 2 chop ya food, chop ya money and com f**k u on top of all dat, and dey tink dey r jst being smart. It's really a pity!true talk, anyway just left for we gurls to shine our eyes wella Posted: at 17-08-2010 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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if i was d one i would collect to the last kobo of ma money even b4 d breakup
Posted: at 17-08-2010 02:23 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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blessedme at 17-08-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago) (f) y u dey seal ya lips, i no lie o i remember one guy i was dating and he asked me to borrow him some to pay back at d ending of that month but fail to pay, and i purposely refuse to ask him until after 3 months. When i asked him he never expected it, and he almost quit d r/ship but i made sure i wait for him in his office to collect ma money Posted: at 17-08-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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princedafe at 17-08-2010 02:35 PM (13 years ago) (m) passing by the guy should pay her back the loan Posted: at 17-08-2010 02:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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y u dey seal ya lips, i no lie o
i remember one guy i was dating and he asked me to borrow him some to pay back at d ending of that month but fail to pay, and i purposely refuse to ask him until after 3 months. When i asked him he never expected it, and he almost quit d r/ship but i made sure i wait for him in his office to collect ma money
imagine d guy was nt even tinkin of payin back. U're a smart gal sha, maybe u dem don deal wit u b4 Posted: at 17-08-2010 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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come to think of it this money was borrowed and not asked for or given for free, there's a difference here. If a lady should ask for a loan and end a relationship its at the discretion of the man to let the money go or not to. It shouldn't be any different here.
but must d man wait for her 2 ask for wat he borrowed first? Why d torture? Posted: at 17-08-2010 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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blessedme at 17-08-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) (f) y u dey seal ya lips, i no lie o
i remember one guy i was dating and he asked me to borrow him some to pay back at d ending of that month but fail to pay, and i purposely refuse to ask him until after 3 months. When i asked him he never expected it, and he almost quit d r/ship but i made sure i wait for him in his office to collect ma money
imagine d guy was nt even tinkin of payin back. U're a smart gal sha, maybe u dem don deal wit u b4 this is someone who has more than enof oo, but instead of him giving u he will want to collect from u Posted: at 17-08-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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solojaro at 17-08-2010 04:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) Pls. go ask for your money now now now... Posted: at 17-08-2010 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Kennee at 17-08-2010 04:56 PM (13 years ago) (m) in d first place y will a total man go after a gurl wit d mindset that d lady will make his hands her bank account huh?
Guys sometimes una dey fall we hands oo
and dey come professin all kind of lv 2 u, whereas dey hv plans Well, some girls don't hear when yu tell them they're rolling with a Bad Guy They always fall for the deceptive guys cos those guys tell dem what they wanno hear The truth and true Guys Bore them
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 17-08-2010 04:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I don't like 2 much stori o!
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! Posted: at 17-08-2010 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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abdulk at 18-08-2010 08:42 AM (13 years ago) (m) u too dey yarn, it can happen to anyone including you Posted: at 18-08-2010 08:42 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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