![-]( "GENERAL11") GENERAL11 at 22-08-2010 02:14 PM (13 years ago)  (m) Nothing Bad when you care for each other, only to hurt is another thing. But to the extend of burnt or attempt to kill. | Posted: at 22-08-2010 02:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 23-08-2010 12:41 AM (13 years ago) (m) We shouldnt pretend like dis doesnt happen. A friend of mine was in a r/tnship wit a guy who promised her marriage. She gave him her whole heart and was committed to d r/ltnship. On different occassions, d guy borrowed some good sum of money from her. She at times used 2 give him money without him asking jst 2 assist him if he's broke. Now, the guy has ended the r/ltnship wit her 'cos he found sumone else, though she tried 2 let him go on a peaceful note. She kept quiet bout d money he's owing her 'cos she's so hurt, she doesnt knw if asking him bout it wud hurt her more, esp if d guy ignores her or doesnt give it 2 her. The guy on his own part jst kept quiet bout it too as if he didnt collect anytin from her. Sum guys can be callous, u know. Wen she opened up to me and sum of her friends, dey called her a fool for ever helpin a guy wit cash. But i dont tink she's foolish, or is she? Its more dan 6 months now and she needs d money, but doesnt want 2 hurt her feelings, since she has not fully gotten over d break-up.
So, my fellow NaijaPals, Is it possible 2 get ur money back(I mean only the ones he borrowed) with peace after break-up? and Is there anytin bad/wrong/foolish in givin/lending ur b/f money? Pls i nid candid advice on this.
wen one opens his/her mouth to ask for a loan, doesn't matter the r/s.
it is a verbal contract that needs to be paid back as agreed.
it is even more shameful if that guy is waiting for her to ask him for it.
he has no self respect and dignity at all.
and there's nothing wrong in wot she did, even credit to her for having such a kind heart. | Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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ok oooo
@poster what's ur advice to ur friend?
well i think she has 2 consider certain tins b4 asking 4 her money; does d guy hv a job? is he capabl of payin back? Is he d responsibl type dat really pays his debts without causin problems? will refusin 2 pay her hurt her feeling? I tink if she can answer dese questions honestly, she'd be in a postion 2 knw if she shud go ahead or nt. But na wa 4 u sef o! I dey ask sumtin, u kan dey ask me bak, wetin be ya own sef?[/color][/font][/size] | Posted: at 23-08-2010 08:07 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "johdap") johdap at 23-08-2010 09:00 AM (13 years ago) (m) Nothing bad in helping others. The girl shd ask for her money. | Posted: at 23-08-2010 09:00 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Well it's a painful xperience.
The guy must be an ingrate
yeah indeed | Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:19 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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We shouldnt pretend like dis doesnt happen. A friend of mine was in a r/tnship wit a guy who promised her marriage. She gave him her whole heart and was committed to d r/ltnship. On different occassions, d guy borrowed some good sum of money from her. She at times used 2 give him money without him asking jst 2 assist him if he's broke. Now, the guy has ended the r/ltnship wit her 'cos he found sumone else, though she tried 2 let him go on a peaceful note. She kept quiet bout d money he's owing her 'cos she's so hurt, she doesnt knw if asking him bout it wud hurt her more, esp if d guy ignores her or doesnt give it 2 her. The guy on his own part jst kept quiet bout it too as if he didnt collect anytin from her. Sum guys can be callous, u know. Wen she opened up to me and sum of her friends, dey called her a fool for ever helpin a guy wit cash. But i dont tink she's foolish, or is she? Its more dan 6 months now and she needs d money, but doesnt want 2 hurt her feelings, since she has not fully gotten over d break-up.
So, my fellow NaijaPals, Is it possible 2 get ur money back(I mean only the ones he borrowed) with peace after break-up? and Is there anytin bad/wrong/foolish in givin/lending ur b/f money? Pls i nid candid advice on this.
b careful though, ur frn myt just b saving face.....there had been cases wen money / things were freely given as a gift wen blinded by lurve. In other to save face n not to be labelled as a mungun................................. am only asking you so that u dont get involved n find out diff versions of the truth....I have gotten involved in stuff lyk this with my sis/ frns thinking yawagogas only to find out that ma girl held bck frm me n trust me u wudnt like it esp wen the b*****d in question cant wipe that smug look off his face.... c the reaction of most of the gals here, thats they image the wanna portray thats how stong most of us want to b but sumtimes we lose that wen we meet the ryt guys, but all is well if that guy genuinely care n doesnt exploit dat ok | Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:24 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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wen one opens his/her mouth to ask for a loan, doesn't matter the r/s.
it is a verbal contract that needs to be paid back as agreed.
it is even more shameful if that guy is waiting for her to ask him for it.
he has no self respect and dignity at all.
and there's nothing wrong in wot she did, even credit to her for having such a kind heart.[/quote]....yeah, jst dat she was being nice 2 d wrong prsn. d guy doesnt worth her luv n care. | Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Actually, the man is not matured. He knew the girl loved him and decided to take advantage of her bcos he had programmed in his mind that she will soon leave. That's why he is acting like nothing happened. He never loved her. Meanwhile a man who loves a woman won't seek to collect the little she has, but give hr. I don't mean that it is bad giving to ur boyfriend, but, this guy is actually callous and a cheat. On tehother way round, the girl gave him some of these monies as her hearty gift to him because of the love she had for him. I think for those ones, she should just let go, but for those ones he borrowed, he should just be sincere with his conscience and pay her back. If he refuses, the girl should leave him to God! God will judge him. I hate people who take advantage of people.
...and d most painfl part of it is dat he doesnt have conscience, i mean hw can a man break a lady's hrt and yet do notin 2 pay her back d money he borrowed? hw does he xpect her 2 bear all dat, he must be without conscience. | Posted: at 25-08-2010 09:08 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Actually, the man is not matured. He knew the girl loved him and decided to take advantage of her bcos he had programmed in his mind that she will soon leave. That's why he is acting like nothing happened. He never loved her. Meanwhile a man who loves a woman won't seek to collect the little she has, but give hr. I don't mean that it is bad giving to ur boyfriend, but, this guy is actually callous and a cheat. On tehother way round, the girl gave him some of these monies as her hearty gift to him because of the love she had for him. I think for those ones, she should just let go, but for those ones he borrowed, he should just be sincere with his conscience and pay her back. If he refuses, the girl should leave him to God! God will judge him. I hate people who take advantage of people.
...and d most painfl part of it is dat he doesnt have conscience, i mean hw can a man break a lady's hrt and yet do notin 2 pay her back d money he borrowed? hw does he xpect her 2 bear all dat, he must be without conscience. | Posted: at 25-08-2010 09:38 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "mmasinachi") mmasinachi at 20-09-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) (f) Ok,he must pay back to have his peace or burn his car if has one. | Posted: at 20-09-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "snedy") snedy at 20-09-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago) (m) not only the glasses burst the tyre. he is an untrained idiot, motor park tout. Pls collect ur money by fire by force. | Posted: at 20-09-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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not only the glasses burst the tyre. he is an untrained idiot, motor park tout. Pls collect ur money by fire by force.
she wants 2 collect it peacefully | Posted: at 23-09-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "awodeinola") awodeinola at 6-10-2010 02:44 AM (13 years ago) (m) dere is no big deal in dat,tellher 2 request for her money.. | Posted: at 6-10-2010 02:44 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "aokeke7") aokeke7 at 6-10-2010 02:06 PM (13 years ago) (m) Certain contributors spoke reasonably, others without an iota of doubt weren't objective. Every story should come from both sides, this story is from d lady, did any of the ladies friends hear from the guy? cast a stone cast a stone he who is without sin be the first. am not perturbed what the outcome is but if in cause of the relationship the guy never gave her money, then that is cruel cos in every relationship only the lady lends, the guy doesn't lend cos wateva a guy gives in a relationship he never gets it back. Break his glass, windscreen, side mirrors, his head, dick wateva all those are wicked mallicious statements coming from ladies who re guile. i will insist if in cause of the relationship he neva gave, then he is wicked. | Posted: at 6-10-2010 02:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Dranatomy") Dranatomy at 6-10-2010 10:01 PM (13 years ago) (m) Whatever was borrowed was meant to be returned............let her go ahead and ask for what she lent him.............it is hers and she shouldnt fear about asking for it.............and I dont see anything wrong in helping a friend, be that friend male or female...........
I Love you for the reply | Posted: at 6-10-2010 10:01 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Certain contributors spoke reasonably, others without an iota of doubt weren't objective. Every story should come from both sides, this story is from d lady, did any of the ladies friends hear from the guy? cast a stone cast a stone he who is without sin be the first. am not perturbed what the outcome is but if in cause of the relationship the guy never gave her money, then that is cruel cos in every relationship only the lady lends, the guy doesn't lend cos wateva a guy gives in a relationship he never gets it back.
Break his glass, windscreen, side mirrors, his head, ***** wateva all those are wicked mallicious statements coming from ladies who re guile. i will insist if in cause of the relationship he neva gave, then he is wicked.
maybe u dont get it. She said d guy borrowed it 4rm her and promisd payin back. | Posted: at 22-11-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "kinkino") kinkino at 23-11-2010 01:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) I BOROWD DV IDEA...LET HER GO AHEAD AND DEMAND 4 HER MONEY COS HE BOROD IT FROM HER AND MUST PAY BACK....LET HIM PAY BAK HIS DEBT...D BABE DID NT DO HIM ANY BAD......BESIDS SHE WAS NOT D LIABL 4 D BRAKUP..........AS FOR ME THERE IS NOTIN WRONG ASSIST A MAN WHOM U BLIV WIL B YOURS IN FUTUR....BUT AT D SAME TIM ONE NEEDS TO B REASONABL.......EVRTIN HAS LIMIT...BABES USE YA HEAD WELL OOOO..... | Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "MYKELGUY") MYKELGUY at 28-03-2012 01:07 PM (12 years ago) (m) haba this man no be mature guy...how can he chop woman money and act like nothin--is that mature ke??
Abi oooooooooo.............chop the woman money join with the woman and still dey owe the woman.Na wahhhhhhhhhh | Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:07 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "exever100") exever100 at 28-03-2012 01:20 PM (12 years ago) (f) SHE SHOULD LEARN 4RM HER MISTAKES.............. | Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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