CAN THIS BE REAL OR NOT. (Page 6)

Date: 23-08-2010 12:02 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Oyindamola betty Aroguma
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- oyindabty at 2-09-2010 09:25 AM (13 years ago)
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yea thanks seein him dis wkend
Posted: at 2-09-2010 09:25 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mercyilori at 2-09-2010 02:26 PM (13 years ago)
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WHEN YOU GO THERE TAKE AM EASY SHA OOOO MAKE HIM NO GO ENTER THAT PLACE OOOO.Lolllllllllllllllllllllll takia
Posted: at 2-09-2010 02:26 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- solojaro at 2-09-2010 04:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 23-08-2010 12:33 PM
It can b real, but d only way to find out is b spending time togetha in real life...
Do u knw his family, friends, habbits, area where he liv,..... Huh?

If u dont knw these, u cant get married.... So ps dont giv a reply yet, but first find out to who u sayin I DO

And I hope you are not too busy to visit him, pls. do study him, know his people. The rest is God's intervention.
Posted: at 2-09-2010 04:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mercyilori at 2-09-2010 04:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: youngk on 28-08-2010 12:13 PM
love is not physical..nice one there ksurrina...well spoken


abeg help me tell her to shine her eyez ooooo as she dey go there dis wkend
Posted: at 2-09-2010 04:45 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- rollings at 2-09-2010 05:21 PM (13 years ago)
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 I TOO MET A GAL ONLINE, AFTER 8MONTHS OF ONLINE, PHONE CHAT, WE MAKE UP OUR MIND TO SEE EACH OTHER AND I MUST TELL U, SHE IS THE BEST THING THAT HAAPEN TO ME FOR THE PAST 19 YEARS. YOU GUYS NEED REAL LIFE TIME TOGETHER. IT CAN WORK, U KON WE AFRICANS ARE CONFIDENT ON ONLINE DATE, LOVE BUT IS REALL, TOO REAL
Posted: at 2-09-2010 05:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- oyindabty at 2-09-2010 05:26 PM (13 years ago)
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rolling are you serious? is this true pls tell me more about hw you guys makes it work for you pls. can you imagine that 19yrs Jesus
Posted: at 2-09-2010 05:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 2-09-2010 11:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 31-08-2010 01:34 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 28-08-2010 09:30 PM
Yu guys are just Using the Bible 2 deceive yurselves

Come on! Be realistic and say what yu know actually happens, not what yu think should happen

But why are you always thinkin this way is Bible not realistic?

My Dear the Bible expects Men 2 be like God, Stainless

Posted: at 2-09-2010 11:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oyindabty at 3-09-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago)
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so are you sayin men can not be stainless?
Posted: at 3-09-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bukaustin at 3-09-2010 05:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 23-08-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: qunodinga on 23-08-2010 12:07 PM
Well, i think you should give him a chance...it might be real...


U think so?
well, firstly you need a divine intervention see dont just dabble into this because of his present loyalty and cares. pray towards it and try to find time to be with him physically
Posted: at 3-09-2010 05:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- seunfunmionline at 3-09-2010 05:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Follow your heart! It is easier said but if I may say something, you need to understand that as real as spending real time together in person is, you guys need to be close to enter into marriage. What I meant by closeness is have you for once taken a visit to him? Expected and Unexpected? See, what you know about him now is what he wants you too know about him and what he knows about you is what you want him to know! If I am right, search yourself. Let me categorically state that there are always hidden person of ourselves that we ourself do not know is existing?

A good question to guide you in your quest is - how much of his foolisheness/stupidity will you be able to cope with?
Posted: at 3-09-2010 05:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Adikpe at 3-09-2010 06:57 PM (13 years ago)
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HEY GIRL, YOU ARE TALKING OF MARRIAGE HERE.
MARRIAGE IS NOT SOMETHING YOU GO AND TRY,
SO YOU NEED TO KNOW EACH OTHER MORE IN PERSON
AND STAY TOGETHER A LITTLE BIT BEFORE
YOU MAKE ANY MOVE.

YOU NEED TO BE VERY CAREFUL IN MAKING
YOUR DECISIONS.

GOOD LUCK ANYWAY.
Posted: at 3-09-2010 06:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 3-09-2010 10:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on  3-09-2010 11:57 AM
so are you sayin men can not be stainless?

After Adam Ate dat Apple, things Changed

Posted: at 3-09-2010 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oyindabty at 6-09-2010 08:54 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: seunfunmionline on  3-09-2010 05:42 PM
Follow your heart! It is easier said but if I may say something, you need to understand that as real as spending real time together in person is, you guys need to be close to enter into marriage. What I meant by closeness is have you for once taken a visit to him? Expected and Unexpected? See, what you know about him now is what he wants you too know about him and what he knows about you is what you want him to know! If I am right, search yourself. Let me categorically state that there are always hidden person of ourselves that we ourself do not know is existing?

A good question to guide you in your quest is - how much of his foolisheness/stupidity will you be able to cope with?


 here is anoda good one.thanks
Posted: at 6-09-2010 08:54 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 6-09-2010 09:02 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on  3-09-2010 10:33 PM
Quote from: oyindabty on  3-09-2010 11:57 AM
so are you sayin men can not be stainless?

After Adam Ate dat Apple, things Changed

and when things changed are you now sayin it cannot change again from been wrong to right? kennee
Posted: at 6-09-2010 09:02 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 6-09-2010 09:11 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 31-08-2010 02:32 PM
Quote from: tmusowoya on 31-08-2010 02:04 PM
You're right 2 ask except u v wrong pipo. Here's one way to go abt that: find somebody trustworthy who kows him and ask just one question - (Can 'your' man make a good husband?). I hope you'll be willing to take advice. All the best!



But i don't know anybody close to him expect his Mummy.

Its even good you know his mother , you know there is this special bond between mothers and their sons .She is in the best position to let you discover all u need to know abaut that guy . You dont have to ask her those questions directly , just get close to her , make her your friend and when she trusts you enough.............................. she will get singing

Posted: at 6-09-2010 09:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- oyindabty at 6-09-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago)
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are you sure of this? that she will tell me d truth i want to know about her son?
Posted: at 6-09-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 6-09-2010 05:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on  6-09-2010 09:02 AM
Quote from: Kennee on  3-09-2010 10:33 PM
Quote from: oyindabty on  3-09-2010 11:57 AM
so are you sayin men can not be stainless?

After Adam Ate dat Apple, things Changed

and when things changed are you now sayin it cannot change again from been wrong to right? kennee

Yu can Obviously see dat the Devil has Taken Over the World, so unless Total Wipe out Occur...........

Posted: at 6-09-2010 05:06 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- damien2 at 6-09-2010 06:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Well to me there are alot of advices,..........few good and lots ...well maybe not really good.........sister i will talk from a mans perspective...........long distance relationships hardly ever work out....the ones that do really take alot of patients......infact i havent seen any long distance relationship that really work out.......it is either the man turn out to be the opposite of what he said about himself online or the woman is trying to use the man as an escape from either poor family, prolonged spinsterhood and the life of being a "mud duck"(thats what we call woman who are underachievers or had lived the lowest of all low kind of life and looking for anybody to get attached to.......you know am talking about sluts and prostitutes way past their prime)...........i have heard stories of a woman meeting a guy online, relocated to his place and found out he had serious mental problem and was living on the contributions the other family member were making for him cos he couldnt keep a job.........i  also heard of a guy meet a girl ,relocate to the country where she was living only to find out that she was heavily in debt and a drug addict........now he is dealing with a crack head and debt he just inherited as the womans husband..........so sis i am not in support of distance relationship especially the ones through internet.............you said you know his mother, okay do you think any mother will talk bad about her son even if he had done terrible things to her..........look around you......from reality to movies when ever there is a problem concerning a son in a family the mother is always the one pleading for him and asking to give him a chance to change cos a mother will never give up on her child.....so do you think his mother will open up to you if the guy have some strange issues..........am not saying the guy is bad or dont trust the guy, all am stressing is alot of terrible things have happend and is still happening because of internet relationship.......as a man i will tell you this..... for you to know a man well you have to be close to him, get to know his ins and outs, most especially know his friends.......i mean the kind of people he keeps company infact his personality...........and some men if not most can have a change of personality in certain situations......epecially the one that involves alcohol.....others could be being around your female friend, when he is not in a good mood and others............i will continue
Posted: at 6-09-2010 06:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- damien2 at 6-09-2010 07:18 PM (13 years ago)
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the continuation.....................he could be a very nice guy as you have known him for almost two years........but it is good to be in a relationship in which you are closer to your partner so that you guys can get to know each other physically........okay i dont want to hurt your feeling but all those two years you had known him did he tell you he is not in any way have sex? or do you think he doesnt if he does then with who?.......if he doesnt then he must be a saint..........and as a man i will tell you that men will always say sweet things to a woman to hook her especially through the internet............i could go to a chat room pm a girl, tell her how sweet she is and how good looking her picture is even if it is literally a picture of a turtle or hippo........infact say the things a woman wants to be hearing about herself then we exchange phone numbers then i continue there......like send texts like i miss u, am thinking about you, you are my one and all, you are my world, i will die without you,.........this girl i am marrying was through text that i won her love for me..............so before you know it, i have gotten the woman in this dream world of she just got the perfect dude nothing else matters......by the time you get to know the reality of the things going on, it will be too late.....this was how a woman in australia go scammed.........i once pm a woman in thailand i fed her the garbages of how sweet and beautiful she look and how i would spend the rest of my life with her...she asked if i will take care of her kid i said i will raise him to university level, infact am willing to buy him a laptop tomorrow....and i will come over to thailand and go to a tourist area and spend two weeks in a five star hotel with her....she will ask if i will do this and that i said yes, infact am doing it now....guess what that same day i got to know her, i made her dance on the webcam naked........i mean stark naked..........i said i need her naked pics so that i wont look at another woman and think of her everyday....... she sent me like ten posing in different ways...............you guys might call me an animal or a devil but in reality we are the same......she is the one trying to escape poverty and a free ticket to good life not because she loves me and i turned out to be the one showing good face.......while i had bad intentions.....but in this case i am the one winning and she is losing............ what if she travels and come over her and i happen to be a really bad guy, she could end up being sold into prostitution or end up in a worse situation......just because she wanted to marry the rich man she met online in an internet chat room......sister i know you are not that stupid especially being an african woman...so i hope you make the right decision concerning this long distance relationship.......there are really good guys, i mean very very good guys out there.....maybe one of them is this guy you are dating and i hope so.....take care
Posted: at 6-09-2010 07:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- oyindabty at 7-09-2010 09:41 AM (13 years ago)
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hmm dis was really interesting thanks alot for all the advices and write up. you are good
Posted: at 7-09-2010 09:41 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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