Is marriage really necessary? (Page 5)

Date: 25-08-2010 9:02 am (13 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- bittersweet at 25-08-2010 03:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 25-08-2010 03:42 PM
It's ur choice if u want 2 marry.

I once knew a guy who didn't wanna get married he said he wanted 2 give the woman the chance/opportunity "to walk out" if & whenever she wanted 2 but i think he just had his own selfish reasons 4 that.



I see

Posted: at 25-08-2010 03:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 25-08-2010 04:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Huh?Huh?

Posted: at 25-08-2010 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 09:00 AM (13 years ago)
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What it's unclear to you?

Posted: at 26-08-2010 09:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sexy_error at 26-08-2010 09:22 AM (13 years ago)
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Marriage!
So complicated with two different peeps, my advise is that peeps should marry to avoid uncertainies in life!
Posted: at 26-08-2010 09:22 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kokokool at 26-08-2010 09:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 09:02 AM
If somebody just can't adapt to what marriage involves, what's wrong in remaining by themselves for life?  Undecided

Lonely wolves, I need your answers!

Everyone should marry. – After all, happiness is not the only thing in life.
Posted: at 26-08-2010 09:36 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 26-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago)
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Huh?
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kokokool on 26-08-2010 09:36 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 09:02 AM
If somebody just can't adapt to what marriage involves, what's wrong in remaining by themselves for life?  Undecided

Lonely wolves, I need your answers!

Everyone should marry. – After all, happiness is not the only thing in life.

Why everybody should marry?

Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 10:05 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy_error on 26-08-2010 09:22 AM
Marriage!
So complicated with two different peeps, my advise is that peeps should marry to avoid uncertainies in life!


Uncertainties?
What kind of uncertainties?  Undecided

Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:05 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- peaceben at 26-08-2010 10:20 AM (13 years ago)
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if you can hold body and stay alone, why not? but if you can't it is necessary to be married at least hold your body with who you are married to.
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:20 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 10:22 AM (13 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 26-08-2010 10:23 AM (13 years ago)
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So let me get this straight BS; U want to marry but U don't want to marry unless U get external conviction that marriage is good or bad?
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 26-08-2010 10:23 AM
So let me get this straight BS; U want to marry but U don't want to marry unless U get external conviction that marriage is good or bad?

Not really!
I've made up my mind about it, and I don't see it as a Must!
I just want to see what ppl think about it!
Do u see me needing external conviction?
Come on!

Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tmusowoya at 26-08-2010 10:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Put it this way: If Catholic prieists and nuns  were allowed to marry, their church would have experienced so much less of the kind of sex scandals that rock them today.
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: tmusowoya on 26-08-2010 10:31 AM
Put it this way: If Catholic prieists and nuns  were allowed to marry, their church would have experienced so much less of the kind of sex scandals that rock them today.

Do you think that there are not ppl who don't have problems with holding themselves?
There are!

Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 26-08-2010 10:38 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-08-2010 10:27 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 26-08-2010 10:23 AM
So let me get this straight BS; U want to marry but U don't want to marry unless U get external conviction that marriage is good or bad?

Not really!
I've made up my mind about it, and I don't see it as a Must!
I just want to see what ppl think about it!
Do u see me needing external conviction?
Come on!


Yep, I see U looking for external back-up to Ur decision on the issue. It myt be my eyes sha. Not like it's a bad thing. We all do sometimes.

Anyway, if U didn't want to have a good marriage if U did get married u wouldn't be concerned. The way I see it U either have the best or nothing at all. I'll stop now before I start giving U a psychological evaluation which myt be inaccurate. Wink
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:38 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 10:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 26-08-2010 10:38 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-08-2010 10:27 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 26-08-2010 10:23 AM
So let me get this straight BS; U want to marry but U don't want to marry unless U get external conviction that marriage is good or bad?

Not really!
I've made up my mind about it, and I don't see it as a Must!
I just want to see what ppl think about it!
Do u see me needing external conviction?
Come on!


Yep, I see U looking for external back-up to Ur decision on the issue. It myt be my eyes sha. Not like it's a bad thing. We all do sometimes.

Anyway, if U didn't want to have a good marriage if U did get married u wouldn't be concerned. The way I see it U either have the best or nothing at all. I'll stop now before I start giving U a psychological evaluation which myt be inaccurate. Wink

About me looking for external back-up,that's very wrong! Trust me!
But u hit the nail when u said that I want the best or nothing at all!

Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:40 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tmusowoya at 26-08-2010 10:45 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-08-2010 10:33 AM
Quote from: tmusowoya on 26-08-2010 10:31 AM
Put it this way: If Catholic prieists and nuns  were allowed to marry, their church would have experienced so much less of the kind of sex scandals that rock them today.

Do you think that there are not ppl who don't have problems with holding themselves?
There are!

I believe there're there and very few for that matter because humans are segxwal beings. Marriage happens to be is the 'normal' channel for expressing our segxwal nature. If you don't want marriage but still want to 'enjoy' sex you must really brace yourself for nursing a broken heart time and again.
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:45 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- solojaro at 26-08-2010 10:47 AM (13 years ago)
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No marriage that is an easy one.
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- slimshaddy-8 at 26-08-2010 10:50 AM (13 years ago)
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its ur choice, its a personal decision.
Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:50 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 26-08-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: tmusowoya on 26-08-2010 10:45 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-08-2010 10:33 AM
Quote from: tmusowoya on 26-08-2010 10:31 AM
Put it this way: If Catholic prieists and nuns  were allowed to marry, their church would have experienced so much less of the kind of sex scandals that rock them today.

Do you think that there are not ppl who don't have problems with holding themselves?
There are!

I believe there're there and very few for that matter because humans are segxwal beings. Marriage happens to be is the 'normal' channel for expressing our segxwal nature. If you don't want marriage but still want to 'enjoy' sex you must really brace yourself for nursing a broken heart time and again.

I don't see intercourse to be vital!
One could live without it without problem!

Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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