![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 26-08-2010 10:04 PM (14 years ago)  (m) You're in a serious relationship, you decide to get married,
but he/she asks you to sign a prenuptial contract!
Will you do it?
What do you think about it?
l don't see marriage as a Contract, so if a woman l'm getting married 2 brings dis up, it will make me have a Rethink about her disposition 2wards me
l have a strong Conviction/feeling dat l will Consider calling the Relationship off
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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You're in a serious relationship, you decide to get married,
but he/she asks you to sign a prenuptial contract!
Will you do it?
What do you think about it?
l don't see marriage as a Contract, so if a woman l'm getting married 2 brings dis up, it will make me have a Rethink about her disposition 2wards me l have a strong Conviction/feeling dat l will Consider calling the Relationship off Hmmm! Why that? That would not mean that she doesn't love u,but maybe she would give her peace of mind, in case that something unforeseen will happen in your marriage later in time! That would also cover you as well, because the terms of it would be settled by both of u! I really don't see anything wrong with it!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 06:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 27-08-2010 08:28 AM (14 years ago) (m) having a possessive mindset before getting married is a strong sign of future break up! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 08:28 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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having a possessive mindset before getting married is a strong sign of future break up!
Not at all! It's a wise way of seeing things on the long run! Nobody knows tomorrow, Wallas,and if we settle some terms before entering in a marriage, we'll think twice before screwing it up!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:03 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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When u say 'i do', u also gonna think twice be4 screwing up...
The money matter is not gonna prevent cheating, bad behaviour or anytin like tht. | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:04 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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When u say 'i do', u also gonna think twice be4 screwing up...
The money matter is not gonna prevent cheating, bad behaviour or anytin like tht.
In a prenup,u can also settle some terms related on cheating issue as well! For example "In case of adultery, the adulterine will leave the house immediately, without taking anything along." You got it? It's not only about money or material assets!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:09 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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I knw dear,but u said to Wallas tht if u sign a prenup u will think twice before screwin up...
And i think is not true, cuz i u wanna cheat or do som nasty tins, u will...mayb u will just try to hide it more...
About tht leaving d house without anythin...do u think it is nice, somethin u worked for ur whole life u lose it over 1 mistake ? | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:14 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "youngk") youngk at 27-08-2010 09:17 AM (14 years ago) (m) When u say 'i do', u also gonna think twice be4 screwing up...
The money matter is not gonna prevent cheating, bad behaviour or anytin like tht.
In a prenup,u can also settle some terms related on cheating issue as well! For example "In case of adultery, the adulterine will leave the house immediately, without taking anything along." You got it? It's not only about money or material assets! why r u after cheating?u don't trust guys that much | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:17 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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I knw dear,but u said to Wallas tht if u sign a prenup u will think twice before screwin up...
And i think is not true, cuz i u wanna cheat or do som nasty tins, u will...mayb u will just try to hide it more...
About tht leaving d house without anythin...do u think it is nice, somethin u worked for ur whole life u lose it over 1 mistake ?
If the mistake is so serious like cheating, Yes! I would divorce anyway if he will cheat on me,and even from the first time, it's just something I can't pass over! It would mean that he doesn't love me anymore if he could do that, and for me a marriage should be based on love, so no love,no marriage!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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When u say 'i do', u also gonna think twice be4 screwing up...
The money matter is not gonna prevent cheating, bad behaviour or anytin like tht.
In a prenup,u can also settle some terms related on cheating issue as well! For example "In case of adultery, the adulterine will leave the house immediately, without taking anything along." You got it? It's not only about money or material assets! why r u after cheating?u don't trust guys that much What do you mean by I'm after cheating?  It's just something I couldn't overlook! And of course I don't trust guys too much! Only 1% of them are trustworthy!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:20 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 27-08-2010 09:22 AM (14 years ago) (m) 1% huh? I wonder what percentage of girls are trustworthy. | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:22 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Hehehe! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Aww sweetie, do u knw how many peope love their spouse and still cheat?
But i think its so rude, mayb d husband worked for years and years to build d house d way it is now, and over 1 mistake he gotta
leave all tht behind?? | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:24 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 27-08-2010 09:25 AM (14 years ago) (m) @Fly...u r right, though girls feel like they r at the loosed end, but no real man will ever deny his woman of any due! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Aww sweetie, do u knw how many peope love their spouse and still cheat?
But i think its so rude, mayb d husband worked for years and years to build d house d way it is now, and over 1 mistake he gotta
leave all tht behind??
That's why I said that maybe he would think twice before screwing it, because he will know that if he does it,he'll lose everything!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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But u as d wife, how can u take everytin away from him?
Imagine, and it is like tht in many cases, tht u didn work 1 straight hour in ur life, and ur husband brings all d money home...
Then all d stuff he worked for, is all for d woman ? | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:39 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 27-08-2010 09:54 AM (14 years ago) (m) FLY BABY TELL 'EM!! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:54 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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But u as d wife, how can u take everytin away from him?
Imagine, and it is like tht in many cases, tht u didn work 1 straight hour in ur life, and ur husband brings all d money home...
Then all d stuff he worked for, is all for d woman ?
Such mistakes must be paid! If he'll be honest and a family man,nothing bad will happen!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-08-2010 10:06 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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But u as d wife, how can u take everytin away from him?
Imagine, and it is like tht in many cases, tht u didn work 1 straight hour in ur life, and ur husband brings all d money home...
Then all d stuff he worked for, is all for d woman ?
Such mistakes must be paid! If he'll be honest and a family man,nothing bad will happen! Dont u think he will already pay enough with guilt and losing his family ?
But to take everytin away from him...means he worked for notin, gotta start ALL over again?FLY BABY TELL 'EM!!
am tryin Ooo | Posted: at 27-08-2010 10:07 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Ify4life") Ify4life at 27-08-2010 10:21 AM (14 years ago) (f)  ;Di will not sing ooooooooooo
ify lovly girl is her. | Posted: at 27-08-2010 10:21 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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