![-]( "esonu") esonu at 26-08-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago)  (m) peeping
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 26-08-2010 04:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) if u dont care abt material things, then screw prenuptials!
its best u build in togetherness n foget wot u can get on your own in marriage with view of break up!!
I do not care, but about him,huh? It's better to be safe! selling ur trust now?  Well,ppl can't be trusted fully, nowadays! Nobody knows tomorrow! But someone who doesn't have a hidden agenda, would sign it without arguing! if u feel u will be cheat in d future...u know better things to do rather than signing up jeopardy!  | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Like remaining a lonely wolf for life, right?
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 26-08-2010 04:13 PM (14 years ago) (m) this is far too complicated and perhaps risky... i no dome here... | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ok
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 26-08-2010 04:23 PM (14 years ago) (m) Like remaining a lonely wolf for life, right? no...looking beyond what u see!  | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 26-08-2010 04:26 PM (14 years ago) (f) No i will not sign.
Why not? For example, what if he's poorer than u are? In case of divorce, u'll split 50-50,if u don't sign a prenupt before! This is very complicated BS | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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I know, dear!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Like remaining a lonely wolf for life, right? no...looking beyond what u see! Eheeee!  And then what?
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "agabs") agabs at 26-08-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) (m) A prenup is wise. Seriously, I would respect a woman that requests we sign a prenup.
1. It shows that she is not interested in me for material.[not that have conquered everest yet.]
2. It shows that she knows the value of material.
3. It shows that she understands human nature.[Lovers become haters if the gods permit it]
Such a woman will not take your wealth for granted and will not let you take her wealth for granted. And the kids will have a good sense of possession and hardwork. As long as she is not murderous, no wahalla.
Thanks God for your life! Thank you! The boy is sweet talking U and U are thanking him? LWKM Dude, U must sign prenup o if U near any girl wey I know and na me go write am. Ha hahahah. No wahalla. As long as the prenup no put my life at risk, then fine. | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 26-08-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) this topic is likely going to make some men in here to view women as HUNTERS IN THE JUNGLE! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 26-08-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) All those pre-written prenups no make sense. if u must sign one, make sure U are a part of drawing it up with terms clearly spelt out to Ur understanding. | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 26-08-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) (m) A prenup is wise. Seriously, I would respect a woman that requests we sign a prenup.
1. It shows that she is not interested in me for material.[not that have conquered everest yet.]
2. It shows that she knows the value of material.
3. It shows that she understands human nature.[Lovers become haters if the gods permit it]
Such a woman will not take your wealth for granted and will not let you take her wealth for granted. And the kids will have a good sense of possession and hardwork. As long as she is not murderous, no wahalla.
Thanks God for your life! Thank you! The boy is sweet talking U and U are thanking him? LWKM Dude, U must sign prenup o if U near any girl wey I know and na me go write am. Ha hahahah. No wahalla. As long as the prenup no put my life at risk, then fine. The first clause will be "should the groom, hereafter refered to as agabs, ever raise his voice at the bride, he forfeits half of all his earthly posessions to her with immediate effect." | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 26-08-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) (m) I forgot to add : "...With immediate effect" | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 26-08-2010 04:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) Like remaining a lonely wolf for life, right? no...looking beyond what u see! Eheeee! And then what? the judges aint there when we started...so i think its up to us | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Better!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Bettychy") Bettychy at 26-08-2010 04:42 PM (14 years ago) (f) No, I won`t! Antenuptial agreement is no topic in Africa because of religious believes, cultural practices and traditions of Africa which forms our mentality & way of life and make an average African different in reasoning, understanding, conception & perception... from our European, American...counterparts. Asking an average African (male or female) to enter into such a contract tells him or her that the marriage is a temporal one & would end any minute you choose. This is not in line with our cultures & traditions, religion & our general way of life. Over there, marriage is a contract (granted by the state, which makes it very loose) In Africa, marriage is a union ordained by God Legally, it`s always a contract. But the attarchment of religious & cultural believes give it a completely different meaning and that marks the different between marriages in Nigeria, for instance & in the US. | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Bittersweet love won't u go & rest now?
U have been here since morning?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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All those pre-written prenups no make sense. if u must sign one, make sure U are a part of drawing it up with terms clearly spelt out to Ur understanding.
Of course that not a pre-written contract! Come on! Everybody should settle their own terms!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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No, I won`t!
Antenuptial agreement is no topic in Africa because of religious believes, cultural practices and traditions of Africa which forms our mentality & way of life and make an average African different in reasoning, understanding, conception & perception... from our European, American...counterparts.
Asking an average African (male or female) to enter into such a contract tells him or her that the marriage is a temporal one & would end any minute you choose.
This is not in line with our cultures & traditions, religion & our general way of life.
Over there, marriage is a contract (granted by the state, which makes it very loose)
In Africa, marriage is a union ordained by God
Legally, it`s always a contract. But the attarchment of religious & cultural believes give it a completely different meaning and that marks the different between marriages in Nigeria, for instance & in the US.
Ok
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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