Winner of the fifth edition of Big Brother Africa, Uti Nwachukwu has said being segxwally committed to one person for life makes one sad.
Uti says it's not easy to be committed S3XUALLY to just a partner for someone's ENTIRE life, and well he isn't forcing this on anyone, but says intending couples should seat and talk about their love before they venture into it about cheating once a while.
He also says those people committed to just one partner are usually sad and ''bitter' and are the people who are usually quick to judge and pressure others living freely. His words below...
"We are so obsessed with relationships yet we have refused to accept the inconvenient truths about em.
If acute (not chronic) cheating is the reason you leave your relationship, then you have no business being in one in the first place not to talk of marrying!
As long as you have a partner that is kind to u, provides for u, spends adequate time with u/does not Neglect u emotionally and physically-
Then what else do u really want?
Truth is, it is EXTREMELY hard for humans to be segxwally committed to ONE human for the rest of their Lives!
Let's be real and think about it.
So You are expected to be physically intimate with one person for the rest of your life? (Even if you marry in your 20s?) Lol.
ANALOGY - Starch and Banga is super tasty and ur favourite but there are days you wake up craving king prawns with special fried rice.
FYI,if banga is forcd down ur throat, u might end up resenting banga for a LONG TIME.
I feel the needless pressure of monogamy has/is still destroying relationships.
NOT TO SAY IT DOESNT WORK O!
But most LONG TERM monogamous relationships are pretentious, hypocritical and sad.
YET they are the ones quick to judge and pressure others living freely.
This is a real non judgemental conversation EVERYONE should have with themselves and their intending partners so u don't lead anyone into depression via deceit.
KNOW URSELF NO BE CUSS.
WHO DE CRY DE SEE ROAD.
Whether u are Female or Male,
Ur Preferences are Ur Preferences (as long as its not an addiction)
Let's not talk about Solomon's Wives and Concubines cos we know when we add religion,the conversation becomes closed and heated.
Just do U and be real with UR expectations "
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