The first baby she had for her husband 4 yrs ago is mine
she has 2 more for him today but i dont know what to do.
Each day i see the boy i always feel like seizing him but i'm confused.
Only she and i know the truth.
I am still single, opening up will break their marriage.
Pls what can i do?
.......Mike(29)
Stop being selfish. I don't know if you are one of those guys that think it is alright to engage in adultery. You really haven't told us the circumstances that lead to you and the woman getting involved.
Make I tell you a little about me. I hate disloyalty. If I am in you sons shoes and you come, I will kill you down the line probably. Know why? You let a man give me his loyalty. And I gave him loyalty back. Loyalty from father to son is what we are talking about here. So when you do come to sow discord, you will never be forgiving. The wayward wife will never be forgiving.
Do you even have an idea wat is at stake? Do you have an idea the gravity of your sins? Your son should use a knife and castrate you.
1. You go about pissing in other peoples wells.
2. A child comes out but you don't say it before the child becomes conscious of society.
3. You know a secret but you wish to break it out of your selfishness. A name is just a word. Blood is blood. It is not answering the mans name that makes him your son. It is sharing your blood. What makes him not your son is that you have betrayed blood.
Be careful of your actions. If you spill the beans right now, the boys life could go funny in this mad nothingness called our world.
1. He will lose trust for his mother. That may translate into never ever trusting a wife. He may develop phobias relating to trust issues that may hamper his happiness and overall success.
2. He could go very wayward.[[If I was him I will make sure you have the time of your life. Loyalty is something some of us will die for. We give it easily but if it is properly betrayed we do not mind embracing death]] If he goes wayward can you blame him? His father is an adulterer and his mother is honeypot distributing bitch.
3. He could fall into sadness; 'unslumberable' sadness. He could fall into the deep pit of despair etc. Drugs, alcohol, cocaine may find him in that pit and he may never ever crawl out.
4. He will loose permanent respect for his mother.
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You say your "conniving illicit sex having bitch" has two beautiful kids for her real husband; you na just blanket wey she borrow use for journey. Have considered what will happen to the psychology of those two kids?
Have you considered how the talk at school will affect the son that was suppose to be yours that you betrayed?
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Take my advice, let the boy grow up. That way he is more mature. Get married to another woman, have kids of your own. Make some money for you outer and inner sons. Make an inheritance for them. That is your duty.
Better discard all those 'television father spending quality time with son scenes." This is the real world. Moreover, those sins were not made for the benefit of a wayward dick.
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And even if somebody was to do it, you shouldn't be the one to spill the beans. It should be your "bitxch of an adultress."
Sorry for my venom. If you don't want people to be harsh on your don't post such matters at public forums.
I wish you luck. Get married to your own wife and have more sons. I think then you will get a better picture of reality. It isn't really important this picture of life we disturb ourselves with. So he is your blood son. So another man raised him. So you knew but you took the darker way. An unusual way. A way of quiet strength. So he grew up to become the president bearing another man's name. And if you had changed that name, he wouldn't have become president.
Good luck. Stop pissing in other peoples wells. Else, you wake up one day in your grave with a guy standing over your grave and pissing in your mouth. Of course blood will be oozing from your chest and the angel of death will be laughing in the background. Vultures will be gliding in your eyes. Then you will remember the words of Solomon and other wise men.
Bible Verses About Adultery or Cheating67
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Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery.
Leviticus 18:20
Do not have segxwal relations with your neighbor's wife and defile yourself with her.
Proverbs 5:3-9 For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not.
Proverbs 5:19-20 Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another man's wife? For a man's ways are in full view of the LORD, and he examines all his paths. The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast.
Proverbs 5:27-29 Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned? Can a man walk on hot coals without his feet being scorched? So is he who sleeps with another man's wife; no one who touches her will go unpunished.
Proverbs 5:32 But a man who commits adultery lacks judgment; whoever does so destroys
himself.
Matthew 5:27, 28, 32 You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.
John 8:4-11 [They] said to Jesus, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of
adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?" They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her." Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" "No one, sir," she said. "Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus
declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin."
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept
pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the segxwally immoral.
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Some men will waste you and your son. Leave the boy alone. Suffer in silence. Moreover there is no suffering except your foolish selfishness.
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