How long could you abstain from sex?

Published 8 years ago by: Daniel Bosai
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at 11:49 PM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)

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In marriages and lives of adults, sex means so much and so much interest is attached to it. In some homes, problems arise over disagreement between partners on sex.
While some are addicts of sex to the extent of procuring it with coercion as in rape or its attempt, some are passive, docile and cold and rarely tilt towards it unless pressed. It is, therefore, vital to hear from adults how long they can possibly stay off sex under normal circumstances, and here are their responses.

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Chibuzor Kingsley
It depends on individuals. It depends on how one’s body system works. One can stay for as long as possible provided the body system allows it. I have never been lonely. So, I wouldn’t tell for sure, how long I can abstain from sex but I also know that if there is a reason for me to be alone without a woman, I can stay because sex is not really my priority.


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Nneka Okoli
As for me, I enjoy sex. If I have a man in my life, I can bubble with him but if anything happens and I am without a man, I can stay till I get someone. One thing I like myself for is that I cannot go to bed with a man I don’t have feelings for. In fact, not for anything. So, I can stay for a very long time if I am not in love.


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Abiola Johnson
Sex is an act that happens when two people are in love. Although some useless men go against a woman’s will to have sex with her but it is not ideal. I personally appreciate sex but not to the extent that I cannot stay without it. I am not yet addicted to it, so I can abstain for years if the situation arises.


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Martha Gabriel
I don’t even do it. I am waiting to be married before I venture into it. For as long as it takes my husband to come, that is the much I can abstain. For now, no sex before marriage. I am also believing God that it won’t be long and he would surface.


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Ethel Anyanwu
I enjoy sex so much that I don’t think I can stay for two months without it. Being a married man whose wife is always around, I feel her and when I do, I go for sex. If I don’t love my wife, it is a different thing and that could result in staying for so long a time. Loving her has really been fun and I am happy about it.


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Georgina Ibe
I can stay away from sex for over six months though, it depends on my state of mind at the period. I don’t think having sex is so important that you won’t live without it. It actually depends on individuals.


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Okereke Mother
Sex is not something I place high premium on, though it is a natural thing. But I could stay for years without making love and I don’t think I would die if I don’t have sex with a man.


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Chika Okoro
I have stayed off sex for over six months but I have not done it for a year because I am a man and you know sex is a natural thing which we can’t run away from. Even if you stay away from it for sometime, you will still make love again. In fact, as a man, I can’t do without sex. Whenever I feel like making love and I am with a woman, I fulfill my desire. I can’t stay away from sex for long.


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Chibuike Okeke
I have stayed off sex for over four months when I was asked by my pastor to go on fasting and praying. Though it wasn’t easy for me as a man because my body was heavy, when I eventually made love after the period, it was as if I was newly deflowered.


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Gloria Kanu
I don’t have sex always, so it is not a do-or-die affair. I have stayed without making love to my husband for over five years because he travelled abroad. It is not easy for me because I felt really bad whenever I remember how my husband used to make love to me especially from behind. What would I do? I just had to be myself as a woman and a wife. I am actually missing him. Only God knows how I will feel the day he will make love to me again because I am now tight. I don’t feel really happy about it and it is not in my character to be unfaithful to someone I love especially the man who paid my bride price.

 

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xter at 11:52 PM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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abstain from sex!.......hmmmmm

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Pointzero at 11:55 PM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Fish no fit live witout water,so me i no need 2 tell una my duration...................................infact no duration cos i no fit.

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sixtyhoneyy at 11:57 PM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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passing
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Pointzero at 12:13 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sixtyhoneyy on 11:57 PM, 17/12/2010
passing
Good cos i know u no fit curtail..........lolz

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sixtyhoneyy at 12:16 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on 12:13 AM, 18/12/2010
Quote from: sixtyhoneyy on 11:57 PM, 17/12/2010
passing
Good cos i know u no fit curtail..........lolz
na how you take know  Grin? Huh?
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akjasper at 12:20 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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I've stayed 8 months without sex!
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Pointzero at 12:28 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sixtyhoneyy on 12:16 AM, 18/12/2010
Quote from: Pointzero on 12:13 AM, 18/12/2010
Quote from: sixtyhoneyy on 11:57 PM, 17/12/2010
passing
Good cos i know u no fit curtail..........lolz
na how you take know  Grin? Huh?

i be babalawo na,u no knw?

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Pointzero at 12:31 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: akjasper on 12:20 AM, 18/12/2010
I've stayed 8 months without sex!

na who we go ask?present ur alibi

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anonymous2 at 12:34 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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I really cant give a specific answer right now

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popo2009 at 11:56 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: akjasper on 12:20 AM, 18/12/2010
I've stayed 8 months without sex!

Guess you masturbate or dont you?
Pls it's only a question...
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popo2009 at 11:57 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sixtyhoneyy on 12:16 AM, 18/12/2010
Quote from: Pointzero on 12:13 AM, 18/12/2010
Quote from: sixtyhoneyy on 11:57 PM, 17/12/2010
passing
Good cos i know u no fit curtail..........lolz
na how you take know  Grin? Huh?

My sister ask him.....
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blessedme at 11:58 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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for as long as i want
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popo2009 at 11:59 AM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: anonymous2 on 12:34 AM, 18/12/2010
I really cant give a specific answer right now

hahahaha simply becos you cant!
dont say you can before your BF go leave you oooh!
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SNYPER at 12:01 PM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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stil praying  Lips Sealed
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blessedme at 12:04 PM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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ok
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hoyehyehmy at 12:20 PM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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wel i never know how it feels to make love.............. passing
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simele at 12:21 PM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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FIVE SECONDS ONLY
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hoyehyehmy at 12:22 PM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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wel i never know how it feels to make love.............. passing
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DiamondEagle at 12:25 PM, 18/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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sex is a gift from God.an act of procreation.. primarily marriage is sex legalized.so as long as my body systems are still working fine.sex is one of my best hobby. Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
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