![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 20-12-2010 12:52 PM (14 years ago)  (f) @pointzero yea i know D&C is very bad, but keeping it will be like everlasting punishment dont u get
she will always remember d guy eact time she sees d child,
d guys wife will always maintain grief each time d child goes for visit or d hubby talks about d child
so many things involve aight! | Posted: at 20-12-2010 12:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 20-12-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago) (f) he said he has a fiancee n he is having sex with another girl and without protection for that matter sorry for d lady dat will marry such an irresponsible guy she will soon have AIDS
this guy even took dis girl for HIV and virgina swap test all in d name of HE DOES'NT LIKE CONDOM | Posted: at 20-12-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 20-12-2010 12:59 PM (14 years ago) (f) @blessedme if he was man enough to have sex with her without a condom he should b man enough to accept the result of his actions and stop being a boy i am sure she is not d only one he is having sex with without protection and he claims to have a fiancee | Posted: at 20-12-2010 12:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 20-12-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) (f) @blessedme if he was man enough to have sex with her without a condom he should b man enough to accept the result of his actions and stop being a boy i am sure she is not d only one he is having sex with without protection and he claims to have a fiancee
d thing sef tire me no bi small ooo | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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she ran into our house last night..........."Blessing i do dis guy's laundry, house chores, cook for him and d likes.......and also serve him well on bed too..............now I AM PREGNANT for HIM, but he want an abortion.....cos He is scared of breaking his engage bride-to-be's heart.........and doesnt know wat to tell d family & friends, d pastor who are aware of this courtship and his upcoming wedding to his fiancee..........................but i want to keep d baby.....pls what do i do?
am so disappointed @ this question, you know very well that he had a fiancee and u went ahead to sleep with him and now you are pregnant and want to keep the baby while he want abortion? on whose expenses?
obviously he used you as a bed mate and that is becos you accepted it. stop embarassing urself.
NO ADVICE FOR U! TALK TO YOURSELF. Who u dey ttalk to self? the poster or the gal this happened too, cuz they r too diff people...i suggest u read the post properly b4 u start commenting thank u dear no worries, sum people just dey like to stir unneccessary trouble | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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T2- no b so...just stating the fact...Point zero- come here come listen too To have the baby-unplanned baby wud b tough for her esp w/o support of baby dad -she might become resentful of her child esp if he/she is the spit image of the father -most naija men r narrow-minded, n if they r not, their family probably r, so she may have trouble getting married in the future -if she is not loaded n her family rnt either or if they r not supporting her, child birth becomes riskier, she may lose her life/ the baby's -she will bring shame to her family To abort the baby-abortion is a sin (but then so is adultery/ is it fornication she committed) -she may lose her life -if it is not done properly, she may b unable to have kids. | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pointzero") Pointzero at 20-12-2010 01:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) @pointzero yea i know D&C is very bad, but keeping it will be like everlasting punishment dont u get
she will always remember d guy eact time she sees d child,
d guys wife will always maintain grief each time d child goes for visit or d hubby talks about d child
so many things involve aight!
u r talking us pleases..................wat of immortality how would dis b justified
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 20-12-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) (f) @blessedme just tell ur friend he is not worth a child out of her womb to born pikin no easy ooo some people dey die for labour rooom the pains of labour no b mouth let her safe herself that stress and d unborn baby such suffering of comin to d world just to suffer there is a lot involved in bringing up a child let her correct her mistake | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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And for the records, I am not in support of abortion...but unless circumstances r beyond my control (n being caught up n passion doesnt count), which is why this situation is not sumthing I can relate to personally | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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he said he has a fiancee n he is having sex with another girl and without protection for that matter sorry for d lady dat will marry such an irresponsible guy she will soon have AIDS
gbam! | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 20-12-2010 01:10 PM (14 years ago) (f) T2- no b so...just stating the fact...Point zero- come here come listen too
To have the baby
-unplanned baby wud b tough for her esp w/o support of baby dad
-she might become resentful of her child esp if he/she is the spit image of the father
-most naija men r narrow-minded, n if they r not, their family probably r, so she may have trouble getting married in the future
-if she is not loaded n her family rnt either or if they r not supporting her, child birth becomes riskier, she may lose her life/ the baby's
-she will bring shame to her family
To abort the baby
-abortion is a sin (but then so is adultery/ is it fornication she committed)
-she may lose her life
-if it is not done properly, she may b unable to have kids.
CORRECT TALK laydeelaracraft | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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he said he has a fiancee n he is having sex with another girl and without protection for that matter sorry for d lady dat will marry such an irresponsible guy she will soon have AIDS
this guy even took dis girl for HIV and virgina swap test all in d name of HE DOES'NT LIKE CONDOM this thing dey pain me no b small! the only men that r allowed to say that r men that r married or in an exclusive MONOGAMOUS relationship....u dont tell a gal u r screwing with on the side. Besides, cant he go to family planning clinic for birth control? | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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truenaija- thx | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 20-12-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) (f) @laydeelaracraft its my pleasure | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "enoeno") enoeno at 20-12-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) (f) SINCE SHE KNOWS THE GUY HAS A LADY HE WANTS TO SETTLE DOWN WITH SHE SUPPOSE NO ACCEPT THAT RELATIONSHIP. BESIDE D GUY WANTED HER 4 FUNS AND SHE SHOULD AV ASK HERSELF THAT WHY IS IT THAT SHE HAS ANOTHER LADY TO MARRY AND HE WANTS TO FRIEND ME I'M I NOT GOOD TO BE HOUSE WIFE TOO  ?? SHE HAS MADE A BIG MISTAKE BUT AS FOR D BABY LET HER KEEP IT NO MATTER HOW ONE DAY D GUY WILL TAKE HIS BABY. LET HER NOT ABORT IT ALL | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "waco") waco at 20-12-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) the can marry two wives na
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day. | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "iyahalimah") iyahalimah at 20-12-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) (f) let her keep the baby and see what her carelessness had befallen her. There is no smoke without fire and no action without consequences. i pray she gives birth to a girl so that she can tell her to be wary of men altogether before making drastic and stupid decisions that will make her regret all her life. Meanwhile lat her keep the baby, maybe, it will be that child that will be great tommorow and take good care of her in her old age | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "waco") waco at 20-12-2010 01:46 PM (14 years ago) (m) it can happen to anybody in luv
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day. | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 20-12-2010 01:58 PM (14 years ago) (f) when u give birth to a baby u loose ur shape u become a nightmare of urself u become secondhand no nigerian guy will want to marry you if you want to also b marRied one day pls dont destroy yourself in d name of onenightstand sex u had with an irresponsible hegoat and u r der for another person other than urself 24 hours d financial aspect of bringing up a child d suffering u will go through raising up dis child as a single parents dis idiot doesnt deserve all dis stress he has his life u loose ur own life my advice delete every memory of this guy and move on with ur life BE WISE!!!!!! | Posted: at 20-12-2010 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 20-12-2010 02:09 PM (14 years ago) (f) @blessedme just tell ur friend he is not worth a child out of her womb to born pikin no easy ooo some people dey die for labour rooom the pains of labour no b mouth let her safe herself that stress and d unborn baby such suffering of comin to d world just to suffer there is a lot involved in bringing up a child let her correct her mistake
gbam | Posted: at 20-12-2010 02:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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