It is Urgent, Pls Advise Him.......... (Page 6)

Date: 07-02-2011 5:27 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 01:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on  8-02-2011 01:41 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  7-02-2011 05:40 PM
If you can't forgive, let go.
When you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences. If you continue to throw this in your partner's face, you will eventually run him/her off. Ask yourself if this is going to be a life sentence for your partner. Can you heal from this and forgive? If not, don't continue to live in anger and/or be with someone who causes you pain.


True talk.

tnx
Posted: at 8-02-2011 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 8-02-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago)
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PASSING WITH MA COMMENT SEALED  Lips Sealed

Posted: at 8-02-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 8-02-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 01:49 PM
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Posta, u dont real care how is treated? i see...d massage is clear to me now bcos of d people involve have no culture..
well in d part of world were i come from...she will not be alive to ask for d yeye forgivenss.... SHE REPRESENT BADLUCK

yes i know in sm part of the igbo land its like dat nw wat if its vise versa wat happens to the man?
Chi Chi, dis ur comment is representive of home training from pure igbo parents.....from now on wards be nice to me and u wud have me all for your self....i want to come and see your parents Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

lol but this not answer to my question or u dogging it?
all i think now is you,all i want now is you.....pls acept me so dat my days will be long

How many birds you wan kill with only one stone for here?.............

Posted: at 8-02-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 8-02-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on  8-02-2011 12:30 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 12:26 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 12:09 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 12:00 PM
Posta, u dont real care how is treated? i see...d massage is clear to me now bcos of d people involve have no culture..
well in d part of world were i come from...she will not be alive to ask for d yeye forgivenss.... SHE REPRESENT BADLUCK

Where you come from are filled with people who throw stone when they are filled with so much guilt......sorry to judge, but your men have no bloody right to do such.......those are traditions that should be thrown into the trash bin.............double standard has to change..........
if am married to you and you cheat on me..if not forgiving you will lead me to hell..SOBEIT
WETIN I DO U  Huh?

 Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 8-02-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  7-02-2011 05:27 PM
A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.

His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him.  He has been away from home on an assignment.  He has been a good father and husband.  He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife.  He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow.  This has just happened - only yesterday.  He is devastated.  He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment.  He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again?  He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.

Please your kind advice would help.  Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s).  Thanks a zillion!


First, What brings or lead her to such behavior? is it Normal cheat games women play or is it because the man is not able to meet up her demands.

Regarding what to do about the situation... I think the man should forgive and try to forget, she was honest to tell the truth, of which if she kept it with her, The man will never know of it. I think the man should consider this and try to forgive her. it shows that the wife loves him and thats why she regrets her action.

This is exactly the kind of situation that will occur for people in relationship to show some real Love. No one is perfect in the first place. Let Love continue to reign among them, he shouldn't divorce her for this.

AND I REPEAT AGAIN, IF ALL MEN ARE LIKE YOU!


Hehehe what will happen dear, it means every town will be filled with Dirtykids  Cheesy Grin

Thought creats words and words are vehicle of ideas, u have what it takes to move on.  keep shining.  Grin Grin Grin


Thanks swtheart.. You Rock !!

Posted: at 8-02-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mallorca at 8-02-2011 02:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 01:53 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 01:49 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-02-2011 01:27 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 12:23 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-02-2011 12:02 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 12:00 PM
Posta, u dont real care how is treated? i see...d massage is clear to me now bcos of d people involve have no culture..
well in d part of world were i come from...she will not be alive to ask for d yeye forgivenss.... SHE REPRESENT BADLUCK

yes i know in sm part of the igbo land its like dat nw wat if its vise versa wat happens to the man?
Chi Chi, dis ur comment is representive of home training from pure igbo parents.....from now on wards be nice to me and u wud have me all for your self....i want to come and see your parents Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

lol but this not answer to my question or u dogging it?
all i think now is you,all i want now is you.....pls acept me so dat my days will be long

How many birds you wan kill with only one stone for here?.............
Chi Chi is d only bird i see rite now...God will surely make me the rightful owner...STAY OFF

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:09 PM (13 years ago)
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LOVE IN ACTION.
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 8-02-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 02:02 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 01:53 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 01:49 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-02-2011 01:27 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 12:23 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-02-2011 12:02 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 12:00 PM
Posta, u dont real care how is treated? i see...d massage is clear to me now bcos of d people involve have no culture..
well in d part of world were i come from...she will not be alive to ask for d yeye forgivenss.... SHE REPRESENT BADLUCK

yes i know in sm part of the igbo land its like dat nw wat if its vise versa wat happens to the man?
Chi Chi, dis ur comment is representive of home training from pure igbo parents.....from now on wards be nice to me and u wud have me all for your self....i want to come and see your parents Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

lol but this not answer to my question or u dogging it?
all i think now is you,all i want now is you.....pls acept me so dat my days will be long

How many birds you wan kill with only one stone for here?.............
Chi Chi is d only bird i see rite now...God will surely make me the rightful owner...STAY OFF

Tales by moonlight.......STAY ON!.............

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:21 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 8-02-2011 02:31 PM (13 years ago)
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you chop LAUGHTERqueen?

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:31 PM
you chop LAUGHTERqueen?
Grin Grin Grin Grin, NA WETIN DEY HAPPEN HERE DEY M AKE ME LAUGH. NO VEX.
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mallorca at 8-02-2011 02:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:09 PM
LOVE IN ACTION.
wetin concern you

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:38 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 8-02-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:32 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:31 PM
you chop LAUGHTERqueen?
Grin Grin Grin Grin, NA WETIN DEY HAPPEN HERE DEY M AKE ME LAUGH. NO VEX.

Laugh jare........e good wella

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 02:38 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:09 PM
LOVE IN ACTION.
wetin concern you

ARE YOU ASKING ME?
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 8-02-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 02:38 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:09 PM
LOVE IN ACTION.
wetin concern you

e concern her oo.....becos after you don WALK into chi chi life now, small time you go WALK out and na T2 you go still come meet........... Roll Eyes

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:43 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:32 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:31 PM
you chop LAUGHTERqueen?
Grin Grin Grin Grin, NA WETIN DEY HAPPEN HERE DEY M AKE ME LAUGH. NO VEX.

Laugh jare........e good wella

Grin Grin
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 8-02-2011 02:46 PM (13 years ago)
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 Angry Angry

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- chiglamour4u at 8-02-2011 02:49 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 8-02-2011 02:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  7-02-2011 05:27 PM
A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.

His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him.  He has been away from home on an assignment.  He has been a good father and husband.  He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife.  He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow.  This has just happened - only yesterday.  He is devastated.  He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment.  He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again?  He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.

Please your kind advice would help.  Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s).  Thanks a zillion!


Alright! situation like this are always difficult to handle irrespective of a person or the persons involved;apparently the issue is still fresh and the man is still in the stage of dilemma,it will take more than just forgive and move on, to get out from this trauma and rebuild the trust & broken marriage...

To be sincere with you,things will never be the same again,in the sense that,the unwavering love the man has for his wife b4 will die naturally.cuz he can still forgive and love his wife,but forget? never.it gonna stock on his memory for the rest of his life.

now haven't said so!.i strongly believe every human being deserve second chance in life,every situation got its solution one way or the other.divorce should not be an option rather the last resort,only if the unfaithful wife repeat it again...

Meanwhile,i think it's necessary for one of them to leave the house for a short period of time,so that things can cool down a bit b4 they try to rekindle their Broken marriage.
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:45 PM
Quote from: mallorca on  8-02-2011 02:38 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:09 PM
LOVE IN ACTION.
wetin concern you

e concern her oo.....becos after you don WALK into chi chi life now, small time you go WALK out and na T2 you go still come meet........... Roll Eyes

NA WERE HE GO SEE ME SEF.
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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