![-]( "igbonnanna") igbonnanna at 8-02-2011 02:52 PM (13 years ago)  (m) LOVE IN ACTION.
with me? | Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) Reply |
he can definitely forgive her...since she confessed herself with nobody knowing she cheated on him, she's ready to be faithful cos she can actually keep it as a top secret...but it is a pity for her...may God help and heal the wound of the man
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) Posta, u dont real care how is treated? i see...d massage is clear to me now bcos of d people involve have no culture..
well in d part of world were i come from...she will not be alive to ask for d yeye forgivenss.... SHE REPRESENT BADLUCK
Where you come from are filled with people who throw stone when they are filled with so much guilt......sorry to judge, but your men have no bloody right to do such.......those are traditions that should be thrown into the trash bin.............double standard has to change.......... if am married to you and you cheat on me..if not forgiving you will lead me to hell.. SOBEITWETIN I DO U   abeg help me as am ooh | Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 8-02-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) (f) FRE YU AIGHT
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
Alright! situation like this are always difficult to handle irrespective of a person or the persons involved;apparently the issue is still fresh and the man is still in the stage of dilemma,it will take more than just forgive and move on, to get out from this trauma and rebuild the trust & broken marriage... To be sincere with you,things will never be the same again,in the sense that,the unwavering love the man has for his wife b4 will die naturally.cuz he can still forgive and love his wife,but forget? never.it gonna stock on his memory for the rest of his life. now haven't said so!.i strongly believe every human being deserve second chance in life,every situation got its solution one way or the other.divorce should not be an option rather the last resort,only if the unfaithful wife repeat it again... Meanwhile,i think it's necessary for one of them to leave the house for a short period of time,so that things can cool down a bit b4 they try to rekindle their Broken marriage.  I suggested that too, thanks a zillion..........oya collect again..........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) (f) @SOBEIT, HOPE GETTING OUT OF THE HOUSE WILL NOT LEAD THEM INTO TEMPTATION. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "uzjosh") uzjosh at 8-02-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago) (m) Pls tell him to forgive her and try as much as to foget it... and give him a second chance | Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 8-02-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago) (f) A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
DK, thanks so much, I really appreciate this..........and I know Diplo no go vex, so i go just blow you some kiss.......... .......Diplo na appreciation kiss oo, nothing attached........First, What brings or lead her to such behavior? is it Normal cheat games women play or is it because the man is not able to meet up her demands. Regarding what to do about the situation... I think the man should forgive and try to forget, she was honest to tell the truth, of which if she kept it with her, The man will never know of it. I think the man should consider this and try to forgive her. it shows that the wife loves him and thats why she regrets her action. This is exactly the kind of situation that will occur for people in relationship to show some real Love. No one is perfect in the first place. Let Love continue to reign among them, he shouldn't divorce her for this. My Diplo will understand   kisses back Yes na..DP knows i won't mind she be better person ..if i go missing u will be in very good hands
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 8-02-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) (m) I know of this woman who lived with her husband in Ajao Estate and goes to Iju to get tuned-up, so there are lot of married women who cheat on their husband without their consent, but one day,it will catch up wth them and vice-versa. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Why is he telling u?
No offense.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "princedafe") princedafe at 8-02-2011 03:10 PM (13 years ago) (m) A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
Can't Advise him, cos if l was in his Shoes, l can never Forgive dat Woman Infact she will go very soon WELLSAID AND SUPPORTED | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) (f) OKIES. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) (m) A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
Alright! situation like this are always difficult to handle irrespective of a person or the persons involved;apparently the issue is still fresh and the man is still in the stage of dilemma,it will take more than just forgive and move on, to get out from this trauma and rebuild the trust & broken marriage... To be sincere with you,things will never be the same again,in the sense that,the unwavering love the man has for his wife b4 will die naturally.cuz he can still forgive and love his wife,but forget? never.it gonna stock on his memory for the rest of his life. now haven't said so!.i strongly believe every human being deserve second chance in life,every situation got its solution one way or the other.divorce should not be an option rather the last resort,only if the unfaithful wife repeat it again... Meanwhile,i think it's necessary for one of them to leave the house for a short period of time,so that things can cool down a bit b4 they try to rekindle their Broken marriage. I suggested that too, thanks a zillion..........oya collect again.......... i don collect am ooo!..on a serious note.yes!! is a very good suggestion,cuz staying in the same house now will only complicate the whole issue.its very necessary them to do so. u r welcome! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
DK, thanks so much, I really appreciate this..........and I know Diplo no go vex, so i go just blow you some kiss.......... .......Diplo na appreciation kiss oo, nothing attached........First, What brings or lead her to such behavior? is it Normal cheat games women play or is it because the man is not able to meet up her demands. Regarding what to do about the situation... I think the man should forgive and try to forget, she was honest to tell the truth, of which if she kept it with her, The man will never know of it. I think the man should consider this and try to forgive her. it shows that the wife loves him and thats why she regrets her action. This is exactly the kind of situation that will occur for people in relationship to show some real Love. No one is perfect in the first place. Let Love continue to reign among them, he shouldn't divorce her for this. My Diplo will understand kisses back Yes na..DP knows i won't mind she be better person ..if i go missing u will be in very good hands Thanks sweetie for the vote of confidence.............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) (m) @SOBEIT, HOPE GETTING OUT OF THE HOUSE WILL NOT LEAD THEM INTO TEMPTATION.
nope! i don't think so dear.who will have that mind at this current circumstances huh according to DP,the man has been resisting alot of temptation b4,so he can still do it now..as for the wife, she won't if her conscience is still intact.  | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Why is he telling u?
No offense.
becos he needs advice, it just happened and he didnt know how to handle it............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 8-02-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago) (f) A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
DK, thanks so much, I really appreciate this..........and I know Diplo no go vex, so i go just blow you some kiss.......... .......Diplo na appreciation kiss oo, nothing attached........First, What brings or lead her to such behavior? is it Normal cheat games women play or is it because the man is not able to meet up her demands. Regarding what to do about the situation... I think the man should forgive and try to forget, she was honest to tell the truth, of which if she kept it with her, The man will never know of it. I think the man should consider this and try to forgive her. it shows that the wife loves him and thats why she regrets her action. This is exactly the kind of situation that will occur for people in relationship to show some real Love. No one is perfect in the first place. Let Love continue to reign among them, he shouldn't divorce her for this. My Diplo will understand kisses back Yes na..DP knows i won't mind she be better person ..if i go missing u will be in very good hands Thanks sweetie for the vote of confidence............. anytime
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 8-02-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago) (m) A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
Can't Advise him, cos if l was in his Shoes, l can never Forgive dat Woman Infact she will go very soon WELLSAID AND SUPPORTED Brothers !! If you truly Love someone so much, You will not allow her to even leave that house, no matter what she did. Someone mentioned about one of them leaving the apartment until the situation is calmed. I said No to that.. is not wise to do so, They should try as much as possible to settle that issue within days. is not something an outsider should come into. Many advices will mislead them, and letting any of them out of the house will lead to more temptation. As adult, hubby and wify, living under the same roof for sometimes, they should settle that amicably and in a mature way.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyimau20") onyimau20 at 8-02-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago) (f) It's quiet a very difficult situation, but love conqueres all. Since she willingly confessed to him, without being forced to...let him forgive her and try his best to forget  ...I know, it will be difficult...But if he truely loves her..he shld give her a second chance. Cheating is the high level of betrayal in a relationship...so it is better to avoid than to confess... | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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