![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 04:08 PM (14 years ago)  (f) you think is easy to look to the eyes to someone you love,cherish and care so much (unconditionally), if she cheat on you @DK ..My answer is capital NO!!
I think its high time we start looking at things in reality perspective and stop all this fantasy and computer answers.
I understand you, but i ask again in this issue, Where is the LOVE we preach often ? is very difficult situation here, but in the sense that the guy Loves her so much and is seeking what to do not to still loose her or hurt her, What has happened has happened, and mind you, she was the one that came to confess her deeds, not that the guy find-out that. Have you forgotten that she even has the power to still keep it secret. Now let me answer you this in my own way, if is me been this guy, I will forgive her and even ask her why she tell me that after she knew that she can keep it secret ? I tell you what bro, like i always say... The day a man sign his marriage register and wear his lady ring, take the oath by saying Yes I do !! it takes allot bro !! It means you're fully ready against the odds, and also means the day you sign your life into another living things hand. What kills a man faster and easier is what comes out of him. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 04:11 PM (14 years ago) (f) ONYE NWERE NTI YA NWURU OKWU DIRTYKID NA EKWU. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "cherryA") cherryA at 8-02-2011 04:19 PM (14 years ago) (f) My dear 4give and 4get body no be fire wood, i feel for you sha but life must go on. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:19 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 04:20 PM (14 years ago) (m) you think is easy to look to the eyes to someone you love,cherish and care so much (unconditionally), if she cheat on you @DK ..My answer is capital NO!!
I think its high time we start looking at things in reality perspective and stop all this fantasy and computer answers.
I understand you, but i ask again in this issue, where is the LOVE we preach often ? is very difficult situation here, but in the sense that the guy Loves her so much and is seeking what to do not to still loose her or hurt her, What has happened has happened, and mind you, she was the one that came to confess her deeds, not that the guy find-out that. Have you forgotten that she even has the power to still keep it secret. Now let me answer you this in my own way, if is me been this guy, I will forgive her and even ask her why she tell me that after she knew that she can keep it secret ? I tell you what bro, like i always say... The day a man sign his marriage register and wear his lady ring, take the oath by saying Yes I do !! it takes allot bro !! It means you're fully ready against the odds, and also means the day you sign your life into another living things hand. What kills a man faster and easier is what comes out of him. thank GOD you mention the words in Red by yourself..the word " LOVE" has been misuse and misinterpreted by so many people.. if the wife love her husband so much,she won't even have that thought in her mind in the first place,not to talk of having the intention or committing adultery.. it wonders me, when i came across some funny statement here on this forum,that she revealed the secret by herself,meaning she love her husband that's why she did so,makes me sick in my stomach. i can't understand when you love someone and you get that intention to cheat him/her.LOVE should be seen as a strong word that can resist infidelities .not otherwise Bro! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 04:22 PM (14 years ago) (m) @SOBEIT, HOPE GETTING OUT OF THE HOUSE WILL NOT LEAD THEM INTO TEMPTATION.
nope! i don't think so dear.who will have that mind at this current circumstances huh  according to DP,the man has been resisting alot of temptation b4,so he can still do it now..as for the wife, she won't if her conscience is still intact.  THUMB UP FOR U DEAR. thanx! nwanyi oma | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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My dear.Pls tell your friend to watch the movie titled 'confessions of a call girl'That movie will show him anoda side of infidelity.His wife took a bold step. He shld forgive gradually.Let God lead him. His family will survive. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 04:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.
His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him. He has been away from home on an assignment. He has been a good father and husband. He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife. He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow. This has just happened - only yesterday. He is devastated. He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment. He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again? He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.
Please your kind advice would help. Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s). Thanks a zillion!
Can't Advise him, cos if l was in his Shoes, l can never Forgive dat Woman Infact she will go very soon WELLSAID AND SUPPORTED Brothers !! If you truly Love someone so much, You will not allow her to even leave that house, no matter what she did. Someone mentioned about one of them leaving the apartment until the situation is calmed. I said No to that.. is not wise to do so, They should try as much as possible to settle that issue within days. is not something an outsider should come into. Many advices will mislead them, and letting any of them out of the house will lead to more temptation.As adult, hubby and wify, living under the same roof for sometimes, they should settle that amicably and in a mature way. That makes a lot of sense DK......if for instance the man leaves the house, he might want to get even.........many people do a lot of irrational things when they are angry.........I guess I have to withdraw that advice, they have to STICK it out sooner or later, becos the longer it lingers, the harder it becomes for them to reconcile........thanks again DK........ though i'm not wishing them the worst..but i must say this,the percentage of them being together again as longer they're in the same roof at this stage is very very slim in the sense that the man in question has told you already he want to file for divorce.. to avoid you committing sin, or do what you will live to regret. Don't forget we are Men of Different hearts and feelings. Everyone has got his way of forgiven things and seen the past. if he is the type that over look the past easily, and move on with future, he will not allow that to stop their happiness, Unless the wife gives him another reason to remember the past. If she will be faithful and remain who she is trying to be now by confessing her past deed, i think, peace will be still in that House, i see happiness been restore only if they will manage to survive this first heat level.. is not easy but they should try to amend it. thanx Bro! for mentioning the words in blue and red..that's exactly my point of making that statement "one should leave the house in short period of time".i understand we all have our difference way of handling situations when arise..now nobody knows the categories the man belongs too.. cuz telling a person that can't handle his emotion to stay in the house,is like giving him a green light to kick the wife out of the house.so its not easy at all. i write things on serious issues here not for writing sake but bcuz of a experience. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 8-02-2011 04:39 PM (14 years ago) (m) you think is easy to look to the eyes to someone you love,cherish and care so much (unconditionally), if she cheat on you @DK ..My answer is capital NO!!
I think its high time we start looking at things in reality perspective and stop all this fantasy and computer answers.
I understand you, but i ask again in this issue, where is the LOVE we preach often ? is very difficult situation here, but in the sense that the guy Loves her so much and is seeking what to do not to still loose her or hurt her, What has happened has happened, and mind you, she was the one that came to confess her deeds, not that the guy find-out that. Have you forgotten that she even has the power to still keep it secret. Now let me answer you this in my own way, if is me been this guy, I will forgive her and even ask her why she tell me that after she knew that she can keep it secret ? I tell you what bro, like i always say... The day a man sign his marriage register and wear his lady ring, take the oath by saying Yes I do !! it takes allot bro !! It means you're fully ready against the odds, and also means the day you sign your life into another living things hand. What kills a man faster and easier is what comes out of him. thank GOD you mention the words in Red by yourself..the word " LOVE" has been misuse and misinterpreted by so many people.. if the wife love her husband so much,she won't even have that thought in her mind in the first place,not to talk of having the intention or committing adultery.. it wonders me, when i came across some funny statement here on this forum,that she revealed the secret by herself,meaning she love her husband that's why she did so,makes me sick in my stomach. i can't understand when you love someone and you get that intention to cheat him/her.LOVE should be seen as a strong word that can resist infidelities .not otherwise Bro! Of course, you're right with those words i mark with Red... But let me tell you brother, Men is also included in the ones misusing that word LOVE. no one is perfect like i said earlier. But what matters is when one could that is mis-using it will realize this and wants to repent of the misuse and keep it clean. Even the book of all Books says, There is celebration in heaven when one of the sinners repent and wants to embrace the light by turning away from all his/her sins, thru confessing their sins and repent of them. Are we better than God in Judgement?? What will you say of those Men and Women, that cheat terribly and still come back home screaming I love you, I love you all over the apartment as if they mean it, While some men into the act will be on top another woman, speaking on the phone to their wife at home and still use the word, I love you and I miss you ? Anyway, like i said, We are all differ in life, Like me i respect Honest people, If i'm this Guy, i will forgive her and take her to a short surprise romantic trip to assure her that i forgive her truly, because Women will always doubt things, no matter what, but for her telling me this, makes me feel more confident with her, no matter how mad/angry i am with the news in first place.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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My dear.Pls tell your friend to watch the movie titled 'confessions of a call girl'
That movie will show him anoda side of infidelity.His wife took a bold step. He shld forgive gradually.Let God lead him. His family will survive.
Thanks sweetie......he will surely get the messages...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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hmmmmmmmm | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 04:42 PM (14 years ago) (m)  of course its kills..some of us will sit behind the computer only to type anything that come out of the mind without comparing it with reality..which is bad | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Ascondy") Ascondy at 8-02-2011 04:48 PM (14 years ago) (m) dis kind mater na him pple d like, but 2 me self na lie, where d tin happen i no no, wey tin b d guy n d gal name we no no. nevertheless, d best advice na d one wey person giv hie self, so guy i handover d mata to u back  . | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:48 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "nnennababe") nnennababe at 8-02-2011 04:53 PM (14 years ago) (f) difficult situation....look unto GOD | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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dis kind mater na him pple d like, but 2 me self na lie, where d tin happen i no no, wey tin b d guy n d gal name we no no. nevertheless, d best advice na d one wey person giv hie self, so guy i handover d mata to u back . Bros na reality ooo............you dont need the names of those this thing happened to, becos it is of no importance.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 04:57 PM (14 years ago) (m) you think is easy to look to the eyes to someone you love,cherish and care so much (unconditionally), if she cheat on you @DK ..My answer is capital NO!!
I think its high time we start looking at things in reality perspective and stop all this fantasy and computer answers.
I understand you, but i ask again in this issue, where is the LOVE we preach often ? is very difficult situation here, but in the sense that the guy Loves her so much and is seeking what to do not to still loose her or hurt her, What has happened has happened, and mind you, she was the one that came to confess her deeds, not that the guy find-out that. Have you forgotten that she even has the power to still keep it secret. Now let me answer you this in my own way, if is me been this guy, I will forgive her and even ask her why she tell me that after she knew that she can keep it secret ? I tell you what bro, like i always say... The day a man sign his marriage register and wear his lady ring, take the oath by saying Yes I do !! it takes allot bro !! It means you're fully ready against the odds, and also means the day you sign your life into another living things hand. What kills a man faster and easier is what comes out of him. thank GOD you mention the words in Red by yourself..the word " LOVE" has been misuse and misinterpreted by so many people.. if the wife love her husband so much,she won't even have that thought in her mind in the first place,not to talk of having the intention or committing adultery.. it wonders me, when i came across some funny statement here on this forum,that she revealed the secret by herself,meaning she love her husband that's why she did so,makes me sick in my stomach. i can't understand when you love someone and you get that intention to cheat him/her.LOVE should be seen as a strong word that can resist infidelities .not otherwise Bro! Of course, you're right with those words i mark with Red... But let me tell you brother, Men is also included in the ones misusing that word LOVE. no one is perfect like i said earlier. But what matters is when one could that is mis-using it will realize this and wants to repent of the misuse and keep it clean. Even the book of all Books says, There is celebration in heaven when one of the sinners repent and wants to embrace the light by turning away from all his/her sins, thru confessing their sins and repent of them. Are we better than God in Judgement?? What will you say of those Men and Women, that cheat terribly and still come back home screaming I love you, I love you all over the apartment as if they mean it, While some men into the act will be on top another woman, speaking on the phone to their wife at home and still use the word, I love you and I miss you ? Anyway, like i said, We are all differ in life, Like me i respect Honest people, If i'm this Guy, i will forgive her and take her to a short surprise romantic trip to assure her that i forgive her truly, because Women will always doubt things, no matter what, but for her telling me this, makes me feel more confident with her, no matter how mad/angry i am with the news in first place. you are too funny with some of your statement..of course i know it's applies to both gender,no one is immune from it. i know no one is perfect,and pls don't get me wrong the wife did the right thing after realizing her mistake.but even you and i will feel hurt in the first place after hearing such confession.is now depends on the handling of the aftermath that count. mature mind will accept their wife back and makes it easy for her to forget all her wrong did,whereby doing her so many romantic stuff.  | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 04:58 PM (14 years ago) (f) of course its kills..some of us will sit behind the computer only to type anything that come out of the mind without comparing it with reality..which is bad | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 8-02-2011 04:59 PM (14 years ago) (m)  | Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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walk away. marriage is not relationship. me' I'll doubt the paternity of my children after that. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 05:03 PM (14 years ago) (f) dis kind mater na him pple d like, but 2 me self na lie, where d tin happen i no no, wey tin b d guy n d gal name we no no. nevertheless, d best advice na d one wey person giv hie self, so guy i handover d mata to u back . Bros na reality ooo............you dont need the names of those this thing happened to, becos it is of no importance....... TELL HIM SAY NA NAMETALKAM. | Posted: at 8-02-2011 05:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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walk away. marriage is not relationship. me' I'll doubt the paternity of my children after that.
That is more reason you shouldnt walk away......becos it is not it is not boy friend/gal friend relationship........ So what if you were the cheating partner nko?.....would you want her to walk away? And again you dont appreciate the fact that she confessed all by herself?...what if she didnt tell you?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 05:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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